What percentage of RM pique your interest?

[SecretProvider]

35 minutes ago, Boaxxx said:

My problem is that I project on others/convince myself that "oh they would not be into me and therefore they would not enjoy themselves".

its true most providers would never sleep with clients unless there was a financial incentive. That is the reality. 

However a good provider will make you feel wanted. That ability is what separates the men from the boys. 

[+ azdr0710]

 

[Boaxxx]

 

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10 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

its true most providers would never sleep with clients unless there was a financial incentive. That is the reality. 

However a good provider will make you feel wanted. That ability is what separates the men from the boys. 

100%. Then the question becomes, what's the cheapest way to find out which ones are men and which ones are boys? Life, or at least this aspect of it, can be an expensive gamble. It's always something. 🤷

[la_connor]

About 3% of RM. 

[Decatur Guy]

I was just thinking I'm either getting more picky or the offerings these days aren't as good. Maybe it's both. 

[BigK]

My initial thought was to say 20% but the more I think of it it’s probably more like 10%.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Not more than 5%

 

[jusmeinbr]

Like @PhileasFogg, I’m closest to New Orleans, and that’s been the case for 21 years.  He summed up the current New Orleans market very well and, unfortunately, it’s been that way for years.

Consequently, I’m now making a bunch of trips to Austin and Houston to meet with the absolute best young man with whom I’ve encountered in my 21 years of hiring.  
 

My “home market” of New Orleans may as well not even exist right now., and I seriously doubt that is going to change anytime soon, so my answer to the question is 0.00%. 

[+ SportBud7]

On 12/26/2025 at 9:46 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

Despite being in NYC, which has a pretty big market, 15-20 percent has some appeal to me. As @NYXboy noted, I'm generally into older providers (30s and 40s). I'm not into twinks or guys who are selling their muscles as opposed to their skills, personality and emotional intelligence. I have a preference (though exceptions are made) for men who are 6' and taller. So that does lead to using filters and having to go through a lot of guys to find ones that really appeal to me. 

It's funny because we're very similar.  I had lived all over and hired here and there but just moved to NYC about 18 months ago and the market is obviously the largest in the country. I like a little older and no twinks and value skills, personality, and emotional intelligence over looking like you walked off a bodybuilding stage or a magazine cover. 

The biggest difference I have noticed is in cities like Boston or Dallas or Denver, the escorts are more "present" and actually into the experience. New York City is mostly like having mechanical sex with someone who has the personality of a door knob. 

Of course I am generalizing, but hey, just my experience. I will admit my favorite escort of all time, by far -- and nobody else even comes close -- was based here in NYC although he isn't active anymore.  His name was Trevor and there are a half dozen threads on here about him. He had about 120 reviews with a perfect 5.0 star rating. I hired him maybe 20-30 times and the guy was legit off the charts amazing. From being able to quote almost every line in every Star Trek episode to just doing all those small things that really matter, I couldn't believe he was real.  But yea... we wound up even traveling out of the country together at one point. Anyway, here's one of the threads. 

I haven't found anyone that comes close to him, even in NYC. 

That said, do you have any Top 3-4 your would recommend?? 

Thanks!

Edited 19 hours ago by SportBud7

[+ SportBud7]

Here, I found a picture of him: