Am I Weird Because I Don't Like To Rim?

[Nue2thegame]

38 minutes ago, purplekow said:

I refused to eat spinach when I was child.  My mother encouraged me to eat it but it just seemed gross.  After my older brother convinced me to try it and then say I did not care for it, my mother would stop bothering me about it.  Well, i tried it, I liked it and that was the end of it.  

Rimming was something I did not enjoy until I tried it.  It is not in my top ten of things to do, but I have tried it and I know when I want to do it or if my partners wants me to do it, I have the ability to proceed without it being an issue.  To those who have not tried it, I recommend coming over to the dark side, at least for a trial run.  https://music-memes.getyarn.io/yarn-clip/2e3cf94e-5ad7-4779-aa72-8a262182083e/gif

Not so much the dark side, if you choose your partner carefully. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

13 minutes ago, Nue2thegame said:

Not so much the dark side, if you choose your partner carefully. 

I like the pink side!

[Nue2thegame]

13 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I like the pink side!

I’m color blind but I have a keen sense of smell. 

[+ Gar1eth]

3 hours ago, Nue2thegame said:

To those who have not tried it, I recommend coming over to the dark side, at least for a trial run. 

You make a great point. But I really just have no desire to. My disinclination is probably just as strong as my Kinsey Scale 6 (which if the score went up to it would be at least a 75 to 100) disinclination to be intimate with the fairer sex. 
 

I'm not particularly fond of spinach either unless it's in its dip form.  
 

I'm pasting said  recipe below for any who aren't familiar with it  

Knorr Spinach Dip Recipe

A cool and creamy, quick and easy, party-perfect spinach dip recipe. Make it and then watch it disappear! 

0 mins

Cooking Time

Easy

Difficulty

10 mins

Prep Time

32 People

Serves

Ingredients

1 box (10 oz.) frozen chopped spinach, cooked, cooled and squeezed dry

1 container (16 oz.) sour cream

1 cup Hellmann’s® or Best Foods® Real Mayonnaise

1 package Knorr® Vegetable Recipe Mix

1 can (8 oz.) water chestnuts, drained and chopped (optional)

3 green onions, chopped (optional)

Cook

Combine all ingredients in a bowl and mix. 

Chill the spinach dip for about 2 hours. 

Serve this classic spinach dip with your favorite dippers, like crackers or veggies, and share with your favorite people.

Edited December 9 by Gar1eth

[Nue2thegame]

32 minutes ago, Gar1eth said:

You make a great point. But I really just have no desire to. My disinclination is probably just as strong as my Kinsey Scale 6 (which if the score went up to it would be at least a 75 to 100) disinclination to be intimate with the fairer sex. 
 

I'm not particularly fond of spinach either unless it's in its dip form.  
 

 

I’m sorry but that’s not my quote. I wouldn’t recommend a “trial run” of anything that someone had an aversion to. I did note that you seemed to be thinking about it and mistook that for interest. I share your aversion to spinach, BTW. 

Edited December 9 by Nue2thegame

[+ Gar1eth]

16 hours ago, Nue2thegame said:

I’m sorry but that’s not my quote. I wouldn’t recommend a “trial run” of anything that someone had an aversion to. I did note that you seemed to be thinking about it and mistook that for interest. I share your aversion to spinach, BTW. 

Did you delete a comment because I couldn't find the original comment in this thread. In any case I machte einen Fehler (made a mistake). My reply was actually meant to be a comment on

@purplekow's suggestion of giving rimming  a try once to see if I actually might like it after all. I'd rather try spinach. And I'm not fond of spinach-dip not included-at all. 

Edited December 9 by Gar1eth

[+ PhileasFogg]

On everything, there are two types of people, those who like something and those who don’t.

no one should do something they don’t like

[Nue2thegame]

7 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

Did you delete a comment because I couldn't find the original comment in this thread. In any case I machte einen Fehler (made a mistake). My reply was actually meant to be a comment on

@purplekow's suggestion of giving running  a try once to see if I actually might like it after all. I'd rather try spinach. And I'm not fond of spinach-dip not included-at all. 

I have not deleted any comments yet. 

[+ purplekow]

12 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

On everything, there are two types of people, those who like something and those who don’t.

no one should do something they don’t like

My comment is not that one should do something they do not like, rather, they should not dislike something they have not tried.  Not having a desire to something is an aversion but it is different than a dislike which is related to experience.  One can have both an aversion and a dislike but sampling is necessary t for a dislike but not for an aversion.  

One might have this example:  

One may be averse to bukkake but while one may assume one would dislike it, one does not know it for sure until several muscular men have ejaculated on one's face while groaning loudly and collapsing on one in a sweaty heap.  .  

[+ PhileasFogg]

18 minutes ago, purplekow said:

My comment is not that one should do something they do not like, rather, they should not dislike something they have not tried.  Not having a desire to something is an aversion but it is different than a dislike which is related to experience.  One can have both an aversion and a dislike but sampling is necessary t for a dislike but not for an aversion.  

One might have this example:  

One may be averse to bukkake but while one may assume one would dislike it, one does not know it for sure until several muscular men have ejaculated on one's face while groaning loudly and collapsing on one in a sweaty heap.  .  

True enough!   I’ll admit that rimming would have been a disgusting thought to me most of my life.  UNTIL I met someone I became close to, who was fastidious about hygiene, and who I knew would appreciate it and enjoy it if I did it.

It’s not my go to, but I enjoy giving it for someone who is prepared and appreciative 

[+ Charlie]

What I would enjoy doing is entirely dependent on who I am doing it with and under what circumstances. There are some guys whom I would have no desire to rim under any circumstances, and others I wouldn't mind rimming under the right conditions., and some guys I would be eager to rim no matter what. But I have to admit that being rimmed--by anyone--has never stimulated me sexually. 

[+ Lucky]

My doctor once told me that rimming is God's gift to gay men. So who can refuse a gift from God?

On the other hand, a previous doctor, a lesbian, freaked out when a patient said he had been rimming and immediately ordered lots of testing.

[Stormy]

I’d much. rather rim a young clean ass than suck his dick.  Does that make me weird?   No, just different tastes than you 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 12/6/2025 at 1:31 PM, Gar1eth said:

By the by, I'm not really fond of seeing cum leaking out of a hole either.

😯 

Then I won't be sending you my Christmas card this year 🎄.

 

[+ Gar1eth]

On 12/6/2025 at 3:31 PM, Gar1eth said:

By the by, I'm not really fond of seeing cum leaking out of a hole either

 

15 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

😯

Then I won't be sending you my Christmas card this year 🎄.

 

Thanking you in advance!!

[+ friendofsheila]

I remember that guy finch93 who says he like rimming guys but dossen't want to go near their penisess.  so he takes up where you won't go.

[topunderachiever]

On 12/8/2025 at 9:09 PM, PhileasFogg said:

On everything, there are two types of people, those who like something and those who don’t.

no one should do something they don’t like

BUT....  anyone who swears they don't like something if they've never even tried it... is just a pussy.  😘

[+ PhileasFogg]

12 hours ago, topunderachiever said:

BUT....  anyone who swears they don't like something if they've never even tried it... is just a pussy.  😘

So you’ve tried scat? Or are you sure you wouldn’t like it ??

Edited Thursday at 11:22 AM by PhileasFogg

[+ poolboy48220]

and there are those of us who have tried something, multiple times, and know they don't like it; but get pressured to "Just try it!"

This happened to me at a restaurant tour that stopped at a sake bar.

[+ Gar1eth]

16 hours ago, topunderachiever said:

is just a pussy.  😘

I've never tried it. And still don't like it. 
 

Oh by the way I saw Mr. Why-Don't-You-Rim last night. It was unexpected. I didn't know we were meeting until about 20 minutes before. We kissed, stroked, and had some Clintonian Sex. It was nice.  I hadn't seen him for several weeks because he lives out of town. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

12 minutes ago, Gar1eth said:

I've never tried it. And still don't like it. 
 

Oh by the way I saw Mr. Why-Don't-You-Rim last night. It was unexpected. I didn't know we were meeting until about 20 minutes before. We kissed, stroked, and had some Clintonian Sex. It was nice.  I hadn't seen him for several weeks because he lives out of town. 

Monica?   Is that you?? 🤣

[+ Gar1eth]

15 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Monica?   Is that you?? 🤣

I don't get it. 
 

Oh and Mr. Why-Don't-You-Rim texted me this morning to say he liked our meeting last night. I texted 5 minutes later. He didn't  respond. I texted around 1:30 PM and didn't hear from him. And then texted about 7:30 PM and didn't hear from him. It's very strange because he says he likes me. And while he is supposedly busy at work, he has time to check Growlr. But doesn't text me. It just confirms my view that men are scum. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

3 hours ago, Gar1eth said:

I don't get it. 

…Lewinsky

[Manhattan]

Yes, you are weird because you don't like to rim. You are also weird because you feel the need to create a post about your insecurity. And I'm weird because I feel compelled to write a response. 

If you are concerned about the rimming thing, force yourself to do it and learn to love it. 
Otherwise, who cares? You're allowed to be weird. 
 

Edited 4 hours ago by Manhattan

[+ Gar1eth]

13 hours ago, Manhattan said:

Yes, you are weird because you don't like to rim. You are also weird because you feel the need to create a post about your insecurity. And I'm weird because I feel compelled to write a response. 

If you are concerned about the rimming thing, force yourself to do and learn to love it. 
Otherwise, who cares? You're allowed to be weird. 
 

I think this is pretty harsh-actually there's nothing pretty about it. It's just harsh. And I have to totally disagree-especially about the me being weird for not liking to rim and for originating the thread in the first place. And for the record I have no plans now or in the foreseeable future to force myself to rim (or to bottom for that matter).

Jacob Marley was often heard to remark that  "Mankind should have been his business," obviously meaning that we should try to have some charity in our heart for others. Or to put it in slightly more current idiom, "If you don't have anything nice to say, then ...," well we all know how it ends.
 

@Manhattan      please cut yourself some slack for  needing to reply. Just as we ought hold some leniency in our heart for others, especially at this hectic time of year we ought to remember to keep a bit of that leniency for ourselves. 
 

In closing may I add  Chag Sameach to my fellow Message Center-ers. I'm a little late in saying it in this year of 5786. But better late than never.
 

 May we all be in Yerushalyim next year. 

Edited 6 hours ago by Gar1eth