BornGreatToDoGreat Posted January 1 Posted January 1 I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship? Callas, soloyo215, + DrownedBoy and 2 others 3 2
TorontoDrew Posted January 1 Posted January 1 Time to move on. Danny-Darko, + DrownedBoy, Your Man in Arlington and 12 others 3 1 11
Whatsupandstuff Posted January 1 Posted January 1 this sadly willl end badly. time to move on EastbayMike, MikeBiDude, + Pensant and 5 others 1 6 1
+ Axiom2001 Posted January 1 Posted January 1 1 hour ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said: I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship? If your experience with this man is NO LONGER pleasurable-- I would cease seeing him. For about five or six years, I was seeing a hot Latino in the San Francisco area who gave me some very good and hot sexual times. Prior to our hour to 1.5 hours of play time, we'd smoke some good 420 that he would provided. Well, after the heat of COVID, we began to see each other. One night he was really giving me one hell of a hot time: a moment that frightened me, for although I DO NOT have a heart ailment, I was thinking that all of what he was giving me would lead to my having a heart attack, for he was sending lots of good vibes and chills down "me spine." I kindly asked him to stop; he did and did not talk about it. A couple of times or perhaps a third session later, he'd changed his sexual status from Bi to Straight. That's when the sex became rather lame. He no longer wanted fingers applied to his "hot chunnel" or my hot mouth rimming him (...the only man that I rendered this act to) or really engaging his some of the hottest deep kissing. He viewed straight vids on his iPhone while engaged. From those actions and new sexual description, I've ceased seeing him after our previous wonderful six years of playing and relating. I miss him--especially what he gave me on the night that I nicely requested him to cease fucking me. Since a new year has commenced, I am lining up on my "Buddies List" on RM the biggest of in the San Francisco Bay Area for 2025. And at this point, I am acutely horny and quite anxious. Callas and + DrownedBoy 1 1
pubic_assistance Posted January 2 Posted January 2 (edited) 3 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said: As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). When I was younger it was a birthday tradition for my friends to give the birthday boy some T and go out partying until it really kicked in and the we'd head to a bathhouse or sex club. I remember one year it was my birthday. I must have fucked 30 people that night. I was a sexual power house. But that's because I only did it once a year. People who get addicted to meth develop seriously bad emotional problems and get to a point where they constantly WANT sex but can't perform. It's all very sad. Time to move on and pray for your friend to seek recovery. Edited January 2 by pubic_assistance spelling + Vegas_Millennial, MikeBiDude, Callas and 3 others 3 2 1
Callas Posted January 2 Posted January 2 3 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said: I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship? As long as you are safe and still enjoy it, i think it should be fine. but if the chem is completely gone or too low, time to move on. i would ask if he needs any help when talking to him in person for the last time. Hope he would be fine; but just in case you never see him again, you won’t regret for not at least offering help. afterfallhours1, BonVivant and Whippoorwill 2 1
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted January 2 Posted January 2 4 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said: Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship? You should. You should also use this as a lesson for the future. Stay the fuck away from meth. TorontoDrew, pubic_assistance, + JamesB and 8 others 2 5 4
BornGreatToDoGreat Posted January 2 Author Posted January 2 1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said: When I was younger it was a birthday tradition for my friends to give the birthday boy some T and go out partying until it really kicked in and the we'd head to a bathhouse or sex club. I remember one year it was my birthday. I must have fucked 30 people that night. I was a sexual power house. But that's because I only did it once a year. People who get addicted to meth develop seriously bad emotional problems and get to a point where they constantly WANT sex but can't perform. It's all very sad. Time to move on and pray for your friend to seek recovery. It’s just where the heck did the paranoia come from that’s what’s been throwing the vibe off as of late. It’s like the sound of anything makes him panic. pubic_assistance and Callas 1 1
+ purplekow Posted January 2 Posted January 2 (edited) Paranoia is part and parcel with meth use. He may have increased his usage and the symptoms may becoming more obvious. Look for bad dental hygiene to follow and unusual behavior. I would not stay around for more than you already have unless it is to get him help with his meth use. Long-Term Effects and Risks of Meth Use Over time, more chronic use of meth can result in significant physical and psychological problems, which may include:1,8,11 Cumulative brain changes resulting in confusion, memory loss, and impaired verbal learning. Reduced coordination. Insomnia. Changes in mood. Violent behavior. Chronic anxiety. Paranoia. Hallucinations. Extreme weight loss. Severe heart problems, (e.g., chronic systemic and pulmonary hypertension, cardiomyopathy, increased chance of aortic dissection, and myocardial infarction) Skin abscesses and damaged blood vessels (from injection use). Severe dental problems such as gum disease and tooth decay. Additionally, individuals who inject meth are at an increased risk of contracting certain blood-borne diseases, such as HIV and hepatitis B and C.1 Studies indicate that meth use may worsen the progression of HIV/AIDS and its health consequences.1 Furthermore, research suggests a potential association between past meth use and Parkinson’s disease.1 Edited January 2 by purplekow + Pensant, Callas, TorontoDrew and 4 others 1 1 3 2
Boaxxx Posted January 2 Posted January 2 Shut the door and get the hell out of there. Stop focusing on the good sex and start focusing on the future potential danger that you may be in. + DrownedBoy, + Pensant, thomas and 5 others 1 1 6
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 2 Posted January 2 23 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said: it’s affected the sexual performance as well. 23 hours ago, BornGreatToDoGreat said: Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. These 2 statements alone would make me not rehire. Regardless of drugs or not... You hire him for sex and chemistry. Those aren't there anymore, so move on. + Pensant, pubic_assistance, TorontoDrew and 2 others 4 1
Whatsupandstuff Posted January 2 Posted January 2 2 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: These 2 statements alone would make me not rehire. Regardless of drugs or not... You hire him for sex and chemistry. Those aren't there anymore, so move on. ab-so-fkkking-lutely
DunwoodyGuy Posted January 4 Posted January 4 Tina is an evil c*u*n*t. She killed my friend Stephen. She kills everyone who can't stop using her, and she is extremely difficult to quit. If she doesn't kill the body, she destroys the soul. Callas, + DrownedBoy, TorontoDrew and 1 other 3 1
rvwnsd Posted January 4 Posted January 4 On 1/1/2025 at 1:50 PM, BornGreatToDoGreat said: I have a regular provider of 2 years that indulges in PNP even though I do not. I’ve never minded the T(Tina) because we did link great together and it was always a vibe I mean absolutely great in the beginning. But as of late the past couple months I’m starting to notice a change in regard to the paranoia like extreme paranoia. Not only that but it’s affected the sexual performance as well. Also, the chemistry just isn’t there like it used to be. He prefers to use the T literally during every session now it’s almost if it’s needed. As someone who doesn’t PNP I’m not sure what’s going on in regard to the T(Tina). Should I prepare to close the chapter on this relationship? No, you should not prepare to close the chapter. It is time to stop hiring this guy. Whether he is using meth, cocaine, or nothing at all, when the fun stops being fun and the chemistry is gone it is time to stop hiring a guy. On 1/1/2025 at 6:53 PM, BornGreatToDoGreat said: It’s just where the heck did the paranoia come from that’s what’s been throwing the vibe off as of late. It’s like the sound of anything makes him panic. One of the effects of meth use is paranoia. 7 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: Giving it a sexy name doesn’t make it better. It’s meth. This should be a banner at the top of every Rentmen, Grindr, A4A, and other dating/hookup app page. afterfallhours1, + DrownedBoy and TorontoDrew 1 2
BuffaloKyle Posted January 4 Posted January 4 I wouldn't be paying for sex that is no longer enjoyable. So yes time to move on. rvwnsd, afterfallhours1, TorontoDrew and 1 other 2 2
Chimi45 Posted May 19 Posted May 19 Why don’t you tell him how you feel? He probably has no idea that he’s making you feell like this. Sounds like he could use a friend and some help.
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