Cumming Hands Free

[BonVivant]

One of my best experiences ever was when the top was able to make me cum hands free. It’s been a rare experience. Any Tops that are good at that? 

[+ ApexNomad]

54 minutes ago, BonVivant said:

One of my best experiences ever was when the top was able to make me cum hands free. It’s been a rare experience. Any Tops that are good at that? 

I’ve had a handful of providers make this happen, but only after we’d built a regular connection. Partners with whom I’ve been in relationships have also been able to do so. For me, it’s not about dick size—it’s about connection—a mix of chemistry, passion, and intimacy. That combination makes all the difference for me.

[NJF]

5 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

I’ve had a handful of providers make this happen, but only after we’d built a regular connection. Partners with whom I’ve been in relationships have also been able to do so. For me, it’s not about dick size—it’s about connection—a mix of chemistry, passion, and intimacy. That combination makes all the difference for me.

For me it is also limited to boyfriends or regular FBs. It requires a level of intimacy.

[harlow]

A provider I used to see regularly was able to cum hands free when I fucked him. Unfortunately he no longer advertises and I’ve lost touch. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

Isn’t it simply about the bottom receiving prostate stimulation and contracting certain muscles?

[Seymour Butts]

https://rent.men/BullATL

 

This is someone I know in my personal life who has now joined "the biz." At least two mutual friends have separately told me that they've only had one time when they came hands free from getting fucked, and both of them said it was from him. Ymmv of course.

Edited December 14, 2024 by Seymour Butts
Fixing link

[MscleLovr]

3 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Isn’t it simply about the bottom receiving prostate stimulation and contracting certain muscles?

Not in my experience but I’m a top only. I’ve been able to get a few boyfriends to cum hands-free.
 

As others have stated, it depends on intimacy. The key for me has been targeting their erogenous zones (one man loved prolonged, delicate teasing of his nipples while I pounded his ass) or discovering some hidden desire (one muscleboy loved being tied up, used and spanked).
 

Another man, also a muscleboy, came hands-free every time as soon as my load hit the back of his throat. Of course, I told him that was nothing as I’m able to come ‘hands-free’ each time that a handsome young man has my cock in his mouth and lovingly sucks me to completion. 😎

[+ Pensant]

Happened once about 18 years ago with a hot college student who went by the RB name Jimmy Joe, a Latino twink. I must’ve seen him 30 times.

[jeezifonly]

Having a hands-free ejaculation can be done in a doctors office thru direct (not necessarily pleasurable) manipulation of the prostate. In a more intimate context, It’s best when you participate with breathing, and isolated ab contractions. Maybe the technical coaching from the top is what makes the difference? Having HFO as a hiring goal might disappoint as I think it relies a quite a bit on circumstance/chemistry. 

[Whippoorwill]

Every time I have come hands-free it has been with some random trick…not even necessary that hot a number…just someone who had the right physical moves. So with me, it hasn’t been emotional intimacy.

[hungry4darkmeat]

So in my experience there are three  different ways to get there - the first is with a top who knows how to stroke and grind the spot, which is a rare find and worth keeping and in my experience is a full body orgasm for which im fully flaccid, cum dribbles out and I get waves of ecstatic pleasure and temors !
 

Second is if you’re on your stomach sometimes the physical stimulation from the sheets etc against your hard dick, combined with a strong steady stroke, which is a great orgasm but not really the optimal option 

finally there’s the one where the scene is so hot that you bust without any stimulation whatsoever.  I’ve only had this one a handful of times but it’s more psychological than physical and tends to come as a surprise lol

as someone who is perfectly capable of making myself experience the standard male “local” orgasm with my mind and a few quick strokes, I have to recommend the second option as the ultimate orgasm. Once a man experiences it, he changes. Its tied to the fact that in order to experience the orgasm he must surrender himself completely and in doing so he is rewarded with the most incredible sexual pleasure he has ever had, thus raising the bar. It happened to me- truth is now i don’t even think about my own orgasm- i surrender to my top kings and rarely, when im lucky enough to be stroked right by a top who has mastered the art of delivering the womans orgasm to deserving bottims like myself, i show my appreciation and get as much of it as i possibly can while it lasts. 
 

tops who have that skill in their arsenal are in high demand and tend to know the value of their prowess.

 

[+ ApexNomad]

6 minutes ago, hungry4darkmeat said:

Second is if you’re on your stomach sometimes the physical stimulation from the sheets etc against your hard dick, combined with a strong steady stroke, which is a great orgasm but not really the optimal option. 

…I have to recommend the second option as the ultimate orgasm. Once a man experiences it, he changes.

 

Would you mind expanding on this, I’m not sure I quite follow. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

On 12/15/2024 at 11:46 PM, jeezifonly said:

Having a hands-free ejaculation can be done in a doctors office thru direct (not necessarily pleasurable) manipulation of the prostate.

Kinda how they got the sperm out of Mason Verger in Hannibal. With a cattle prod...

[hungry4darkmeat]

On 12/16/2024 at 8:46 PM, ApexNomad said:

Would you mind expanding on this, I’m not sure I quite follow. 

Apologies I must’ve renumbered lol obviously the best option is the one where he knows the stroke and you surrender - the first option is the one that can ruin you lol 

Edited December 18, 2024 by hungry4darkmeat

[Your Man in Arlington]

I often cum hands free (though not always) when bottoming. When that happens I'll stay hard, sometimes will cum more than once, and then I like to "really" finish off as the top. Best thing about it is that I can last longer when I change roles, as my body's need to cum has been alleviated. Also, interesting: this wasn't something that happened, when I was younger, it really only started after I turned 50 and after not bottoming for over a decade.

[alexslaveboy]

I don’t hire for penetration sex, as I’m into muscle…..muscle worship muscle domination etc 

so certainly a few times a well built muscle man can get me to release my load just by rubbing his chest abs torso against my dick and he’ll be either pinning my arms down or flexing his biceps as I feel them and I’ll shoot off with no problem.  It’s happened only a few times but it’s exhilarating for me!!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

As a top, seeing a bottom cum without touching himself is like catnip.

It's also the ultimate unspoken compliment.

I had a client do this just a couple of nights ago. 

Admittedly, I was surreptitiously positioning him so I was hitting his prostate like a Staples 'that was easy' button.

[SirBillybob]

The only cumming hands that are free are my own, but it’s usually the right one. 

Edited December 24, 2024 by SirBillybob

[+ J. S.]

The one time it happened for me was with a top who had enough belly to stimulate my dick while pumping my prostate.  

[Guest]

I have only cum hands free about 3-4 times. All those times the Top was exceptionally thick 😏 So I can only guess that my prostate was over stimulated because his dick was so thick any motion couldn’t help but hit it😉. Not very scientific lol but I said it was a guess😘.

[Guest]

I experienced a hands-free orgasm once nine years ago. I've been chasing the experience ever since. I can never seem to achieve it again.

any tips?

 I use a dildo or vibrator

[Guest]

To clarify, hands-free orgasm in this case means one achieved through anal stimulation of the prostate only.

[NJF]

2 hours ago, Mateo said:

To clarify, hands-free orgasm in this case means one achieved through anal stimulation of the prostate only.

Why prostate only? 

[Guest]

It's just a different kind of orgasm. My goal is to achieve the anal orgasm without touching my penis. Then I can have a regular penile orgasm after 😂

[Oakman]

6 hours ago, Mateo said:

To clarify, hands-free orgasm in this case means one achieved through anal stimulation of the prostate only.

Usually means the guy blows a load without touching his dick. Prostate stimulation may be part of it, but there are a lot of other factors too. 
A hands-free orgasm is a terrific compliment to any top guy 🤩