Do body parts matter when it comes to hiring? 🍆🍑body face?

[+ Just Chuck]

Face and overall physique are bigger turn-ons than plumbing for me.  Although, I actually prefer cocks in the middle part of the size bell-curve.  I've never disqualified someone for having too-small of a cock.  I have spotted some "oh hell no" giant cocks.  

And the overall physique that I like most is more "guy-next-door, healthy, athletic-but-not-too-beefy."

I really look for clean-cut looking guys who are articulate.  

Facial hair or a hairy body won't disqualify someone, but I prefer clean-shaven and light-hairy, smooth, or shaved.

Edited October 15, 2024 by Just Chuck

[soloyo215]

22 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

No need to drag a thread about a guy to a different subject.

I'm usually into the whole package but I must admit I've had sex with guys who didn't have an attractive face or who had dad bods/beefy because of other attributes like dick, bubble butt, etc. What they do in bed and how interactive they arere is a whole different thing for sure. 

Do we make concessions because we like something specific from someone and not the rest or do we prefer the whole package?

 

I have made concessions, and I do, but not because of how they do in bed. I might know what they are willing to do as per their profile, but not how they do it until I have already hired. I have hired people outside of my taste in physical attributes, and have gotten great experiences, but sadly, the opposite is true too. I have hired within my preference in physical attributes and have gotten quite disappointed with the overall experience (wrong attitude, wrong approach, unprofessional and bad performance).

That said, there are certain things that are a no-no for me. I have a type, but that doesn't mean that I cannot be flexible, or worse, put down or criticize those who don't share my taste. I am open-minded when it comes to what providers have to/can offer.

[LostUpstate]

I like the “guy next door” type, a decent enough body but not a bodybuilder, with a reasonably cute face, and well endowed. I would find it intimidating to be with a muscle god, and I associate that body type with a huge ego, or someone who would just go through the motions. Just my psyche, I suppose, but I feel more comfortable with someone who’s more ordinary. And I look at the size of their endowment when deciding who to hire as a provider. Nothing less than 7 for me. Also, I’m on the short side and prefer a guy under 6 feet tall.

Edited October 15, 2024 by LostUpstate

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

Gloryhole sex has been going on forever!

OH God...I forgot about those. You're right. IT's all about the cock. Anonymous sex doesn't even register in my brain. I'm not even very good with Grindr hook ups. I've agreed to meet people only to discover they are effeminate or have bad breath and I need to make an escape plan. ( " Sorry..I'm not feeling well".... ) and I'm out the door. I need the whole package to be turned on. Face, body, personality and smell.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

42 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

they are effeminate

Not effeminate! Oh the humanity! 

[misterhumphries]

16 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

Many seem to! RM if full of less than attractive men with huge cocks, and even some who don't have big ones. They obviously have something. Yes, I know "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", but some really make me wonder how they are in business. 

Yes! RM has some BONE UGLY men with only big dicks to recommend them. Wouldn't touch it.

[misterhumphries]

12 hours ago, LostUpstate said:

I like the “guy next door” type, a decent enough body but not a bodybuilder, with a reasonably cute face, and well endowed. I would find it intimidating to be with a muscle god, and I associate that body type with a huge ego, or someone who would just go through the motions. Just my psyche, I suppose, but I feel more comfortable with someone who’s more ordinary. And I look at the size of their endowment when deciding who to hire as a provider. Nothing less than 7 for me. Also, I’m on the short side and prefer a guy under 6 feet tall.

Bodybuilders are NOT intimidating. The ones I've met are some of the nicest men there are. They know why they are hired and will flex and let me explore to my satisfaction and amazement. One actually laughed and said I sounded like little kid! He made it clear he was also D.T.F.

If you are self-confident and exude some degree of sensuality, they will mirror that approach.

Mind you, all the above is my experience. 

[sky]

For me when hiring looks of the guy definitely do matter.  Am I hiring because of the conversation they can have or their personality.  No. While personality can add to me an escort is equivalent to a living blow up doll.  They fulfil my fantasy and sexual desires and then move on.

[+ Just Chuck]

39 minutes ago, sky said:

For me when hiring looks of the guy definitely do matter.  Am I hiring because of the conversation they can have or their personality.  No. While personality can add to me an escort is equivalent to a living blow up doll.  They fulfil my fantasy and sexual desires and then move on.

The narrative on their ads really does matter to me.  I've certainly scrolled right past several men who's profile has less than a dozen words, or goes on crazy rants, or reads like it was written by randomly banging on a keyboard.

[PileDriver]

sometimes it's the whole package...sometimes it's the eyes or ears (big ear fetish here)...sometimes it's just about a guy's tush, rump, hole or the size and shape of his schlong...at the end of the day the real keepers are the ones I meet and are affable and playful and fun and charismatic and totally into the pleasure of the moment and are insatiable pleasers...although there are a few regulars who have met me through a glory hole when it is all about a dick and a hole...bodies and looks don't matter at that point...just saying

[niceguyaz]

When I hire a really huge dick is definitely important. In my personal life personality, intelligence and general attractiveness are the most important factors.

[jackcali]

2 hours ago, PileDriver said:

...sometimes it's the eyes or ears (big ear fetish here)...

You just reminded me of a decent-looking guy I knew in college who had huge ears that stuck out almost perpendicular.  He was straight and I was closeted, so nothing ever happened, but I fantasized often about bending him over a table and fucking him while staring at those ears. 

What a sick fuck I was when I was younger.

[misterhumphries]

3 hours ago, jackcali said:

You just reminded me of a decent-looking guy I knew in college who had huge ears that stuck out almost perpendicular.  He was straight and I was closeted, so nothing ever happened, but I fantasized often about bending him over a table and fucking him while staring at those ears. 

What a sick fuck I was when I was younger.

Ears like the British gay actor Russell Tovey

 

[Danny-Darko]

7 minutes ago, misterhumphries said:

Ears like the British gay actor Russell Tovey

 

I find him so sexy! 😍

[+ ApexNomad]

12 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

I find him so sexy! 😍

The Pass, which he starred, was a beautiful and heartbreaking movie. 

[jeezifonly]

In large cities, there’s truly something available for everyone.
A nice smile and eyes that make contact are a must for repeat. For me in LA Metro, I hire massage more than escorts, and the equipment I most want a pictured is the table.

[+ DrownedBoy]

It's simple. I look for guys I'd like to pick up on Grindr but can't.

Personally, I love muscle the best, and bodybuilders if I can find them.

I've met lots of friendly bodybuilders while hiring....except for the one straight guy 😄 

[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, misterhumphries said:

Ears like the British gay actor Russell Tovey

 

Summoning the president of his fan club @TruHart1

[Frog]

• I'm a sucker for a decent-sized dick (8" does me just fine)
• A finely toned body is a must - doesn't need to be too big, just good old man muscle
• I've discovered I really like my men tall - at least 6' and preferably 6'3+ (guess I like them being bigger than me)
• A nice arse never did anyone any harm, with a good hole to bury my face in
• Need my man uncut, but maybe that's 'cos I'm a Brit and why would anyone mess with so fine a piece of pleasure as a fabulous foreskin?
• I also like the feel of facial hair  - when kissing, getting blown or rimmed, so that's been added to the list
• Once I've found a guy who fits the bill, next thing that really matters is that they're good kissers - love to have a man's tongue in my mouth, and happy to give me their load.  Nothing quite beats the taste of another guy's cum fresh from the source

Fortunately, living in London, there's more than enough guys to chose from, but I have found a couple of frequent hires who have it all (and do it all) in spades.  Leaving me a very happy chappy every single time. 

[jackcali]

5 hours ago, misterhumphries said:

Ears like the British gay actor Russell Tovey

 

IF ONLY my college friend looked like Russell Tovey . . .

[Keenan]

23 hours ago, sky said:

For me when hiring looks of the guy definitely do matter.  Am I hiring because of the conversation they can have or their personality.  No. While personality can add to me an escort is equivalent to a living blow up doll.  They fulfil my fantasy and sexual desires and then move on.

So from what I see here it sounds like to you an escort is more of an object in the end than a person to you.  Keep in mind that escorts have feelings and are providing a service and are much more than an object.  I know many see us with one thing in mind but we are much more than objects.

[pubic_assistance]

 

39 minutes ago, Keenan said:

from what I see here it sounds like to you an escort is more of an object

For some men, all they WANT in an escort is a warm hole or a big dick.

[+ Pensant]

I must confess that a pretty face, lean musculature and a perky ass always equals a keeper.

[+ DrownedBoy]

9 hours ago, Keenan said:

So from what I see here it sounds like to you an escort is more of an object in the end than a person to you.  Keep in mind that escorts have feelings and are providing a service and are much more than an object.  I know many see us with one thing in mind but we are much more than objects.

Yeah, because guys on Grindr are so much nicer....

[misterhumphries]

10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

 

For some men, all they WANT in an escort is a warm hole or a big dick.

THIS! There's nothing wrong with a little mutual objectification. Neither the escort or his client is in the room because they saw each other in a crowd, their eyes locked, and they knew it was true love.

Escorting is a transaction. A voluntary transaction. Each party gets something they want from it. Nobody is denying anyone's humanity. But there's nothing wrong with a zipless fuck, either.