Bottoms! Do you stay hard while he fucks you? Off and on? Or the whole

[+ glennnnn]

I don't but many do according to porn videos.

 

 

 

 

 

[myophile]

I like to stay hard, if possible, and come when he does. Just more fun that way, and more intense. It’s one of the reasons I prefer to see a small number of guys multiple times — it’s easier to achieve simultaneous orgasm with a guy you know, and have some connection with.

[+ glennnnn]

8 minutes ago, myophile said:

I like to stay hard, if possible, and come when he does. Just more fun that way, and more intense. It’s one of the reasons I prefer to see a small number of guys multiple times — it’s easier to achieve simultaneous orgasm with a guy you know, and have some connection with.

I agree! But simultaneously cumming is so rare! I start out very hard and ready to shoot, but trying to hold  my climax back so he can catch up sometimes makes the whole procedure null and void and I don't cum at all. Just wondered if other bottoms ever lost their wood while waiting.

[Passionproject]

I don’t stay hard. But do if I’m riding.  

[myophile]

5 minutes ago, glennnnn said:

I agree! But simultaneously cumming is so rare! I start out very hard and ready to shoot, but trying to hold  my climax back so he can catch up sometimes makes the whole procedure null and void and I don't cum at all. Just wondered if other bottoms ever lost their wood while waiting.

I’ve had lots of providers advise me not to focus on simultaneous orgasm, that it’s very rare, etc., etc. But I like it, and it’s an important part of the experience for me. From my point of view, it’s just a technique, like any other aspect of sex; and you can absolutely achieve it, with practice. And I practice as often as possible!

[+ WstVlgChris]

I'm definitely in the "off and on" camp.

[SFGateboy]

I'm always hard, and if I go soft, it means that it no longer feels good

[56harrisond]

I'm definitely on and off, but majority soft. Like half the time I don't even cum during sex; I'm just a hole for top's pleasure lol. I guess I'm a a people pleaser and that's fine with me.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

11 hours ago, Passionproject said:

I don’t stay hard. But do if I’m riding.  

I'm in the on-and-off club unless I'm on top. 

[+ Jamie21]

Yes but I don’t bottom for ages. I‘m just not that into long bottom sessions. I’m always hoping he cums after a shortish time! 

[DznNYC]

It sort of runs the gamut for me, and kind of depends on the vibe with the client.  I definitely can stay rock hard as a bottom, but it requires a bit of attention to my cock, and I generally have to get there before the fucking starts. 

Some tops though are so ass-centric, they don't pay any attention to my cock, in which case all my sexual energy lives in my ass.  In those situations - even as I'm crazy turned on - my cock may not get fully hard. 

[+ nycman]

6 minutes ago, DamizzonNYC said:

Some tops though are so ass-centric, they don't pay any attention to my cock,

[big-n-tall]

1 hour ago, DamizzonNYC said:

It sort of runs the gamut for me, and kind of depends on the vibe with the client.  I definitely can stay rock hard as a bottom, but it requires a bit of attention to my cock, and I generally have to get there before the fucking starts. 

Some tops though are so ass-centric, they don't pay any attention to my cock, in which case all my sexual energy lives in my ass.  In those situations - even as I'm crazy turned on - my cock may not get fully hard. 

I was hoping you’d respond to this post. 😁

Well I seem to recall when we were going at it, you were hard most of the time… even better when you were precumming. 😜😘

…but maybe that’s because I’m not completely ass-centric.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

14 hours ago, myophile said:

I like to stay hard, if possible, and come when he does. Just more fun that way, and more intense. It’s one of the reasons I prefer to see a small number of guys multiple times — it’s easier to achieve simultaneous orgasm with a guy you know, and have some connection with.

How sweet 😍.  I'm stealing this for my wedding vows someday

[DznNYC]

1 hour ago, big-n-tall said:

I was hoping you’d respond to this post. 😁

Well I seem to recall when we were going at it, you were hard most of the time… even better when you were precumming. 😜😘

…but maybe that’s because I’m not completely ass-centric.

Hahaha, yes, chalk it up to chemistry. 

And eagerness for particular D.

[Simon Suraci]

It varies for me. It takes more time, focus and attention on my cock to get/stay hard when I am getting fucked. Depends on the top too, how well we know each other, how he goes about his business, his patience, and if he is attentive to my pleasure too (that last one is not always a given).

A lot of times I am totally flaccid, leaking precum, and enjoying it! My erection comes and goes, unrelated to level of pleasure and arousal.

Other times I am rock hard and keeping his hands away while he thrusts because I will explode prematurely with even a small bit of stimulation. 

Simultaneous orgasm is more common with my clients and I than others here suggest. Varies quite a bit but certainly in the realm of possibility, especially if I can edge while fucking him, kind of in a holding pattern until he is ready to shoot, then I go for it, assuming that’s what he wants.

Recently I gave a client multiple anal orgasms and when I asked if he wanted to cum he said he was exhausted and satisfied and didn’t want/need to cum i.e. “ejaculate” in the traditional way. He said the experience was even better than cumming.

Did you know you can have non-ejaculatory orgasms? And multiple of those, and minutes long orgasms? It takes a long time to develop this skill, but it’s possible. Life changing. Some clients hire me for coaching on this topic.

[TorontoDrew]

Depends on how well he's hitting my prostate.

[+ Italiano]

20 hours ago, SFGateboy said:

I'm always hard, and if I go soft, it means that it no longer feels good

Totally. And I love cumming together with my  top, either while he fucks me or on my face. 🥰 😋

[Decatur Guy]

I don't, but it doesn't mean I'm not liking it. It's just I'm transferring my attention from my dick to my hole and his dick. If I'm hard, I also can't last as long on the bottom.

[Oakman]

It depends. Some tops fuck with only their own pleasure in mind, or fuck to let out some aggression. In those instances, I’m usually flaccid and holding on for dear life. 
 

Other times, the exchange is more about mutual pleasure and I stroke while getting fucked and can cum. 
 

Nine out of ten times I do not stroke while getting fucked. I’m more into pleasing my man, and like to get pleasure out of how my hole feels, and making him feel like a king. 

[Guest]

I definitely stay hard while getting fucked but I can’t cum first. Not sure why but I only cum once I know he’s cum. When it’s a FWB I definitely need to feel them cum in me before I finish. And on occasion I love ATM 😏 that makes me cum really hard😉.

[56harrisond]

 

[niceguyaz]

On 7/6/2024 at 7:41 AM, Jamie21 said:

Yes but I don’t bottom for ages. I‘m just not that into long bottom sessions. I’m always hoping he cums after a shortish time! 

I’m with you! I love extended foreplay so when I finally bottom we’re both ready to cum very quickly 

[+ Jamie21]

Always anxious about accidents if I bottom for a long time, especially if the position changes regularly. If I'm shooting porn then it’s ok because you can stop and start. 

[+ Pensant]

On 7/5/2024 at 7:06 PM, Passionproject said:

I don’t stay hard. But do if I’m riding.  

Guaranteed! When I’m riding and looking at my top’s invariably handsome/cute face it’s a guaranteed load. My regulars love me to shoot on their faces.