viewing ownly Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 I didn't want to get too graphic in the subject header. Something I find weird that I see frequently are men who are quite willing and eager to suck cock who are exclusive tops, but completely refuse to perform oral on the anus. It's rather common to see tops never suck cock, but get the client's nether region good and ready with their talented tongue. I just wonder why so many hires as far as the ass will only go into the rear with their (frequently unprotected) penis? A theory I have on this is that when a cock has been expelled of semen, it's easier for the anal canal to relax, which makes entry much easier. Personally, I like to be rimmed and sucked with the sex simply being a bonus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 I'm a top who very selectively rims, but has zero issue with oral. Bottom line, rimming is far riskier than sucking dick, especially if either party hasn't had their hep vaxes. Also, a lot of guys can keep their cock clean, but don't have a clue when it comes to hole maintenance. Shawn Monroe, jeezifonly, 56harrisond and 5 others 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 1 hour ago, viewing ownly said: I didn't want to get too graphic in the subject header. Something I find weird that I see frequently are men who are quite willing and eager to suck cock who are exclusive tops, but completely refuse to perform oral on the anus. It's rather common to see tops never suck cock, but get the client's nether region good and ready with their talented tongue. I just wonder why so many hires as far as the ass will only go into the rear with their (frequently unprotected) penis? A theory I have on this is that when a cock has been expelled of semen, it's easier for the anal canal to relax, which makes entry much easier. Personally, I like to be rimmed and sucked with the sex simply being a bonus. Check this extensive and current thread: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edinbrooklyn Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said: I'm a top who very selectively rims, but has zero issue with oral. Bottom line, rimming is far riskier than sucking dick, especially if either party hasn't had their hep vaxes. Also, a lot of guys can keep their cock clean, but don't have a clue when it comes to hole maintenance. True but hard to read! DWnyc and + KensingtonHomo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 1 hour ago, BenjaminNicholas said: Also, a lot of guys can keep their cock clean, but don't have a clue when it comes to hole maintenance. This is so true. It's why I - as bottom - do not rim most guys I have sex with because tops don't know how to keep their asshole clean. thomas, + Pensant and + nycman 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 I’m mostly top who likes to rim (and suck) but I agree with @BenjaminNicholasit has to be for someone who has showered and has a clean hole. I avoid rimming once something has gone in there and if it comes out it’s not squeaky clean. I find that happens with clients sometimes. It’s much less prevalent if I’m filming porn because guys bottoming tend to be really good at douching. You can do things like ass to mouth and be confident it’s all ok. rvwnsd and Shawn Monroe 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edinbrooklyn Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 1 minute ago, Jamie21 said: I’m mostly top who likes to rim (and suck) but I agree with @BenjaminNicholasit has to be for someone who has showered and has a clean hole. I avoid rimming once something has gone in there and if it comes out it’s not squeaky clean. I find that happens with clients sometimes. It’s much less prevalent if I’m filming porn because guys bottoming tend to be really good at douching. You can do things like ass to mouth and be confident it’s all ok. I have such anxiety over cleanliness when I bottom. And I’m an equal opportunity fucker. While it can’t do a deep dive, those Toto toilet seat bidets are, well, the shit! + KensingtonHomo, Hot4latin and Jamie21 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted May 17 Share Posted May 17 7 minutes ago, edinbrooklyn said: I have such anxiety over cleanliness when I bottom. And I’m an equal opportunity fucker. While it can’t do a deep dive, those Toto toilet seat bidets are, well, the shit! I don't have anxiety but I do my best to ensure I'm pristinely clean before engaging. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ poolboy48220 Posted May 18 Share Posted May 18 One of my favorite dancers at a club loved kissing, and absolutely loved getting rimmed, but once I'd rimmed him, the kissing stopped. It just squicks out some guys. + DrownedBoy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted May 18 Share Posted May 18 2 hours ago, poolboy48220 said: One of my favorite dancers at a club loved kissing, and absolutely loved getting rimmed, but once I'd rimmed him, the kissing stopped. It just squicks out some guys. Haha I remember the same with my first serious boyfriend. After he rimmed me, I didn't want to kiss him until he brushed his teeth liubit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liubit Posted May 19 Share Posted May 19 11 hours ago, poolboy48220 said: One of my favorite dancers at a club loved kissing, and absolutely loved getting rimmed, but once I'd rimmed him, the kissing stopped. It just squicks out some guys. I hate it when this happens. thomas and + DrownedBoy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted Monday at 08:48 AM Share Posted Monday at 08:48 AM On 5/18/2024 at 8:33 PM, liubit said: I hate it when this happens. If only real life could be as well choreographed as pornography liubit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rvwnsd Posted Monday at 12:32 PM Share Posted Monday at 12:32 PM On 5/18/2024 at 5:57 AM, poolboy48220 said: One of my favorite dancers at a club loved kissing, and absolutely loved getting rimmed, but once I'd rimmed him, the kissing stopped. It just squicks out some guys. On 5/18/2024 at 5:33 PM, liubit said: I hate it when this happens. Long ago I was with a guy who asked me to rinse with antiseptic mouthwash between rimming and kissing him. Seemed like a reasonable request at the time and still does. The thing about rimming is even when a guy has a clean hole, "stuff" can still happen. DWnyc 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted Monday at 01:24 PM Share Posted Monday at 01:24 PM On 5/17/2024 at 9:59 AM, viewing ownly said: I didn't want to get too graphic in the subject header. Something I find weird that I see frequently are men who are quite willing and eager to suck cock who are exclusive tops, but completely refuse to perform oral on the anus. It's rather common to see tops never suck cock, but get the client's nether region good and ready with their talented tongue. I just wonder why so many hires as far as the ass will only go into the rear with their (frequently unprotected) penis? A theory I have on this is that when a cock has been expelled of semen, it's easier for the anal canal to relax, which makes entry much easier. Personally, I like to be rimmed and sucked with the sex simply being a bonus. The way I see it, it's a combination of chemistry, hygiene and preference. Personally I don't do the exact same thing with different people because of those things. I care about those things and will not do what doesn't feel right, even if in other instances I've enjoyed it. That doesn't mean that I am willing to do everything there is to do out there, but when it comes to certain practices I consider what I crave at the moment in combination with the above-mentioned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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