Trick Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 How do you cancel in a situation like this? I had already booked an appointment but someone messaged me about the provider. It wasn’t good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hot4latin Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 A reported bout with the 💩 is enough to get out of any situation, no questions asked. rvwnsd 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution + nycman Posted May 7 Solution Share Posted May 7 (edited) "Unfortunately my plans have changed and I won’t be able to make our appointment". Period. Full stop. Never complain, never explain. Edited May 7 by nycman 56harrisond, BonVivant, acks0104 and 9 others 3 3 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted May 7 Author Share Posted May 7 29 minutes ago, nycman said: "Unfortunately my plans have changed and I won’t be unable to make our appointment". Period. Full stop. Never complain, never explain. With some providers, this is when the claws come out. 😂 + DrownedBoy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 When is the appointment? If you're giving 24 hours notice or more, there's nothing for them to get the claws out about. Your Man in Arlington, acks0104, peter831 and 6 others 5 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted May 7 Author Share Posted May 7 3 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said: When is the appointment? If you're giving 24 hours notice or more, there's nothing for them to get the claws out about. It’s tomorrow night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted May 7 Author Share Posted May 7 47 minutes ago, nycman said: "Unfortunately my plans have changed and I won’t be unable to make our appointment". Just a quick note, there is a double negative in the statement. liubit and + nycman 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 event tho it’s totally fine to cancel with 24 hours notice - this is why many providers want same day only. just my opinion, but appointments for a sex service, there are just too many variables to schedule in advance. making & cancelling appointments for whatever reason is a huge waste of everyone’s time. it’s also about context - if only one person had a bad experience & the provider otherwise well vetted by client, then could all be for nothing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 8 minutes ago, Trick said: Just a quick note, there is a double negative in the statement. "Unfortunately my plans have changed and I won’t be able to make our appointment". Better? I’ve edited the original as well, lest anyone cut and paste the error. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 21 minutes ago, Trick said: It’s tomorrow night That's more than sufficient time for them to book someone else. Monarchy79 and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted May 7 Author Share Posted May 7 28 minutes ago, nycman said: "Unfortunately my plans have changed and I won’t be able to make our appointment". Better? I’ve edited the original as well, lest anyone cut and paste the error. I did cut and paste it. I noticed the double negative before sending. 😂 + nycman, 56harrisond and Monarchy79 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BonVivant Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 A simple note as suggested. If he complains (he won’t) then you could cite the bad review. Trick 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ JamesB Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 As recommended by everyone, a simple note should suffice if provided with 24 hours or more notice. In cases of less than 24 hours, I would consider negotiating a cancellation fee to be fair. MikeBiDude, pubic_assistance, Luv2play and 3 others 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYXboy Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 I'm curious - what did your friend say about the provider? how did your friend know you had an upcoming appointment with him? I agree with all the above - 24 hours notice is fine, but it also may do well to send $50 Venmo cancelation fee or something to ease it over. he may have refused other bookings for you in that time slot. from what I know of providers, they are not all seeing multiple clients every day. socurious and Luv2play 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted May 7 Author Share Posted May 7 1 hour ago, NYXboy said: he may have refused other bookings for you in that time slot. As of the last time he texted me last night, he hasn’t even booked his hotel yet. So I don’t think his schedule was set. Aside from the feedback I got, I was already getting bad vibes in my text exchange with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYXboy Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 3 hours ago, Trick said: As of the last time he texted me last night, he hasn’t even booked his hotel yet. So I don’t think his schedule was set. Aside from the feedback I got, I was already getting bad vibes in my text exchange with him. that doesn't mean he hasn't turned down bookings for you though. but go with your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted May 7 Share Posted May 7 4 hours ago, Trick said: As of the last time he texted me last night, he hasn’t even booked his hotel yet. So I don’t think his schedule was set. Aside from the feedback I got, I was already getting bad vibes in my text exchange with him. Glad that you got out before the appointment. If I get bad vibes from an exchange with the provider, I normally trust my instinct. Not even because of anything bad happenning, but more because I will be uncomfortable throughout the session, which defeats the purpose. I also read discussions about havibg a degree of trust when something doesn't look or feel 100% right. I wonder if you could share details? What happened? What gave you bad vibes, and what made you want to cancel? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted May 8 Author Share Posted May 8 2 hours ago, soloyo215 said: I wonder if you could share details? What happened? What gave you bad vibes, and what made you want to cancel? As soon as we agreed on the donation, text communication got bad. At least two hours between replies, the longest between 8PM and 11AM the next day. Then he planned on booking at a hotel with reported shady activity. There’s also the issue of his pricing. 300 for full service 500 with watersports. Normally I would not consider these as red flags but with PNP on his list, it gave me pause. The feedback I got was that he asked for MUF and then left. + DrownedBoy, pubic_assistance and soloyo215 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted May 8 Share Posted May 8 1 hour ago, Trick said: The feedback I got was that he asked for MUF and then left. Yeah… I’d have canceled too. MscleLovr, soloyo215, liubit and 6 others 2 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloyo215 Posted May 8 Share Posted May 8 11 hours ago, Trick said: As soon as we agreed on the donation, text communication got bad. At least two hours between replies, the longest between 8PM and 11AM the next day. Then he planned on booking at a hotel with reported shady activity. There’s also the issue of his pricing. 300 for full service 500 with watersports. Normally I would not consider these as red flags but with PNP on his list, it gave me pause. The feedback I got was that he asked for MUF and then left. Absolutely you made the right call. Thanks for sharing. + nycman 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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