PileDriver Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 (edited) sorry, some guys just are not people persons and shouldn't be escorting. just had a horrible experience with a well know porn stud...after a few promising and affable texts we met and he couldn't perform and aggressively ushered me out less than a half hour in...money was not exchanged., he didn't even ask. then i sent a text right after and offered to compensate in part for time spent and what followed was unforgivable...called a "100 year old...this site will not allow me to quote the rest of his tirade...he should get medical attention or at least not inflict himself on others. stick to porn and stop being an escort. period. shocking experience. have so many good experiences. including a great stable of boys/men here in nyc. some have become friends. but the uptick in nastiness is alarming... Have only left a bad review once in all my years...trying my best to not give this guy a bad review...want to believe he was just having bad day... Edited December 14, 2023 by PileDriver marylander1940 and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 three sides to every story!...... + Vegas_Millennial, coriolis888, + Pensant and 2 others 2 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 (edited) 11 minutes ago, PileDriver said: ...money was not exchanged., he didn't even ask. Not charging sounds like an ethical decision and good customer service from the provider, given the situation. Kudos to him. I had a similar situation once with a provider who could not perform. He also offered to not charge me. I gave him some money right then and there for cab fare. While I wouldn't hire that man again for me, I admire his business practice of not charging for a less than stellar experience. 11 minutes ago, PileDriver said: then i sent a text right after and offered to compensate in part for time spent and what followed was unforgivable... A good lesson to learn from this is that with some forms of communication, less is best. Especially don't send text messages when there is any negative or serious issues to discuss, as they can be blown out of proportion. If I had wanted to see him again, I would have waited a day to let the negative feelings from the encounter cool off, and then text him to schedule the next appointment. If I had no intent of scheduling with him again, I would just let it go and stop communication. Edited December 14, 2023 by Vegas_Millennial Peter Eater, + robear, SirBillybob and 13 others 7 7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 4 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Not charging sounds like an ethical decision and good customer service from the provider, given the situation. Kudos to him. Not having much context, this is one thing he got right. He did the right thing by not changing for his time, sorry it was a waste of yours. The insults were not warranted. Again, sorry you had a bad experience. There's a huge difference in "well known" and "well reviewed" @PileDriver Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 (edited) 4 hours ago, PileDriver said: sorry, some guys just are not people persons and shouldn't be escorting. just had a horrible experience with a well know porn stud...after a few promising and affable texts we met and he couldn't perform and aggressively ushered me out less than a half hour in...money was not exchanged., he didn't even ask. then i sent a text right after and offered to compensate in part for time spent and what followed was unforgivable...called a "100 year old...this site will not allow me to quote the rest of his tirade...he should get medical attention or at least not inflict himself on others. stick to porn and stop being an escort. period. shocking experience. have so many good experiences. including a great stable of boys/men here in nyc. some have become friends. but the uptick in nastiness is alarming... Thank you for sharing. We're sorry you had a bad time even though you weren't charged or physically hurt by him. As you well say there's an amazing "stable" of guys available in NYC, you simply ran into a bad apple, hopefully he'll get out of the market if he's not cut off to perform with clients. Edited December 15, 2023 by marylander1940 soloyo215, SirBillybob and Your Man in Arlington 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wsc Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 OK, I'll ask the obvious question. Who? There's no point in reporting a fire if you don't give the address. + azdr0710, sydneyboy, Walt and 21 others 8 12 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted December 14, 2023 Author Share Posted December 14, 2023 wsc...prefer not to name the offender...bet he is a nice guy. just got caught up in his drama. my concern is moving forward and knowing whether i'm alone in what i see as an uptick in bad behavior and looking for advice on how to handle these situations when they occur...hours later i just wonder what was going on in his head...out of respect and caring + Vegas_Millennial, wsc and soloyo215 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wsc Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 11 minutes ago, PileDriver said: wsc...prefer not to name the offender...bet he is a nice guy. just got caught up in his drama. my concern is moving forward and knowing whether i'm alone in what i see as an uptick in bad behavior and looking for advice on how to handle these situations when they occur...hours later i just wonder what was going on in his head...out of respect and caring I'm assuming this was your first in person meeting with Mr. NoName, and, if so, can't help but wonder how you arrived at the "he is a nice guy" speculation, other than, perhaps. his on-screen persona -when he's acting- and your earnest wish that it be true. I admire your good nature and intentions to assign his impolite behavior to him having a bad day, not knowing who pissed in his corn flakes before you met him that day; we've all had days like that and owe apologies to those we growled at, or worse, bit. And I applaud his refusal to take money for a service not provided, again assuming that abuse was not part of the requested service. And I appreciate your wish to not cause him negative repercussions based a brief and unfortunate experience. I'm sorry you had the bad time with him and wish you better times to come, or cum, as you choose to spell it. For myself, I shall try to carry on as best I can, leaving my prurient curiosity altogether unsatisfied. Marc in Calif, JulianLondon, lanyc and 2 others 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted December 14, 2023 Share Posted December 14, 2023 Some men can get veeery emotional over ED. pubic_assistance, Your Man in Arlington, la_connor and 4 others 1 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirBillybob Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 (edited) If I’m long in tooth with more robust penile tumescence than the run of mill porn actor whose erectile manifestation is circumscribed within curated vid clips, then being termed centenarian, Methuselah, what have you, is water off my back. Not to mention that such a put-down attempt is, well, bizarre and lacking in creativity. Curious as hell, though, as to what third-party insult content would be restricted here. Edited December 15, 2023 by SirBillybob ProjectX, Ali Gator, Marc in Calif and 4 others 3 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RexB Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 1 hour ago, wsc said: I'm assuming this was your first in person meeting with Mr. NoName, and, if so, can't help but wonder how you arrived at the "he is a nice guy" speculation, other than, perhaps. his on-screen persona -when he's acting- and your earnest wish that it be true. I admire your good nature and intentions to assign his impolite behavior to him having a bad day, not knowing who pissed in his corn flakes before you met him that day; we've all had days like that and owe apologies to those we growled at, or worse, bit. And I applaud his refusal to take money for a service not provided, again assuming that abuse was not part of the requested service. And I appreciate your wish to not cause him negative repercussions based a brief and unfortunate experience. I'm sorry you had the bad time with him and wish you better times to come, or cum, as you choose to spell it. For myself, I shall try to carry on as best I can, leaving my prurient curiosity altogether unsatisfied. That was a very poignant and entertaining piece of literature you just posted there. It's a classic. wsc, + DrownedBoy, SirBillybob and 1 other 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 I think overall, this is a numbers game. play long enough & there will be a less than desirable experience. it’s statistically almost inevitable, even doing everything right all the time as a client. Chalk it up to this was your one less-than experience for the years of exceptional or better-than. the insults would hurt for sure. very doubtful this was about you tho - he clearly has other things going on & you were convenient. get back in the saddle as soon as possible la_connor, soloyo215 and marylander1940 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 2 hours ago, PileDriver said: wsc...prefer not to name the offender...bet he is a nice guy. just got caught up in his drama. my concern is moving forward and knowing whether i'm alone in what i see as an uptick in bad behavior and looking for advice on how to handle these situations when they occur...hours later i just wonder what was going on in his head...out of respect and caring PNP possibly? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: Some men can get veeery emotional over ED. Specially if their 🍆is their main money maker! Unfortunately, most clients won't look like fellow pornstars. Edited December 15, 2023 by marylander1940 + Pensant, pubic_assistance and + DrownedBoy 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acks0104 Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 I think the thing here is that "well known porn star" doesn't equal to well reviewed escort. Everyone gets excited about new men on the market, but you're always risking an iffy encounter with be guys. If you want to minimize bad experiences, go with the well reviewed escorts. It's easy to think with your penis instead of your brain, but you set yourself up for more issues that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 14 minutes ago, acks0104 said: I think the thing here is that "well known porn star" doesn't equal to well reviewed escort Easy to perform with other handsome men. Something altogether different to pretend to be turned on when you're NOT. Enronnja, SirBillybob, marylander1940 and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 I’ve been fortunate to have extremely fit companions, as in being fit is their everything. Sometimes between the trips to Brazil for over 100 different blood work tests, custom vitamins, shots of whatever etc. They look great but their dicks don’t work. They cant even pee right and probably have prostate issues. Great abs though…. + DrownedBoy, lanyc, pubic_assistance and 2 others 1 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 12 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Easy to perform with other handsome men. Something altogether different to pretend to be turned on when you're NOT. It's certainly criteria for what comprises the "complete package" in addition to many things, the ability to obtain and maintain an erection in any situation is what separates a lot of people. I'm sure everybody and anybody is capable of having an off night thankfully, in all my years, I've only had Whiskeydick two times in my life, and it was before I entered the biz. And my case was exactly that... I had a bit much to drink and something I've always relied on failed me.... lol 😂 I love when Christopher Hitchins was asked if he's ever prayed, and he famously responded by saying, "only once and for a hard on" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcmiami1 Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 (edited) In any case, his insults are not in any way warranted. It’s the same of someone who hates cooking become a chef - if you hate what you do - get out! Don’t project it on others aka clients Edited December 15, 2023 by jcmiami1 pubic_assistance and SirBillybob 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirBillybob Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 35 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Easy to perform with other handsome men. Something altogether different to pretend to be turned on when you're NOT. And another altogether different something is the provider apparently explicitly pointing out this overstatement neutrally, or worse, insultingly. jcmiami1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Becket Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 17 hours ago, PileDriver said: wsc...prefer not to name the offender...bet he is a nice guy. just got caught up in his drama. my concern is moving forward and knowing whether i'm alone in what i see as an uptick in bad behavior and looking for advice on how to handle these situations when they occur...hours later i just wonder what was going on in his head...out of respect and caring That's kind of like Scooby Doo mentioning that there were TWO royal racists. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man Gaga Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 What's the point of this post if you're not going to name names? LookingAround, coriolis888, + Pensant and 4 others 3 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted December 15, 2023 Share Posted December 15, 2023 (edited) 9 minutes ago, Man Gaga said: What's the point of this post if you're not going to name names? He already told you his point. Did you not read it before commenting? 🙄 Edited December 15, 2023 by Marc in Calif MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted December 15, 2023 Author Share Posted December 15, 2023 update on my thoughts...not to long ago had another very young and hung porn star play inside me...total last second spur of the moment...literally within less than two hours we had first exchange...i think we were both satisfied...he was better than expected...by miles...holding on to that and reminding myself that exchanges can go well and be life affirming even on the spur of the moment...but my heart still goes out to the young troubled men... + azdr0710, Becket, + DrownedBoy and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ jessmapex Posted December 16, 2023 Share Posted December 16, 2023 (edited) It kinda hurts when you get rejected even when you are willing to pay for getting some. Escorts who accept selective clientele should clearly state in their ad the type of clients they will work with. Edited December 16, 2023 by jessmapex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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