Has anyone ever received a text from an escort wishing you a

[hwic04]

Happy birthday/Valentine’s Day or Merry Christmas/Happy New Year? 

[+ sf westcoaster]

Yes, many times!

[Pd1_jap]

Nope never

[Karch]

Yes, several times from a variety of providers. 

[BuzzLiteQueer]

A few times but in the long run, it meant nothing

[MikeBiDude]

Yes, quite often.

[+ WstVlgChris]

From my two regular masseurs (both of whom I've had full-on sex with, so I guess I can discuss them in this chain--lol), yes, many times. 

[pubic_assistance]

I've had many such messages from a variety of young men who I've hired as masseurs over the years

One very nice Thai fellow has been sending me messages for years, in spite of the fact he moved back to Thailand in 2018

[FunGuyUS]

Yes every year from a few 

[+ ThroatCummer]

Yeas. Mostly from providers that I have hired more than once and that I have formed that connection with.

At the end of the day, it's simply great marketing and good business. There is one in particular that I would hire as my VP of Marketing in a heartbeat. He's so great at follow-up and maintaining communication that he will forever get my cash, lol. 

[ketut]

Yes, many times, mostly from regulars

[Simon Suraci]

I send such messages from time to time to clients who hire me regularly. For instance to couples ahead of Valentine’s Day telling them about a special offer. I’m not a great marketer in the traditional sense, but I do a bit of this type of communication. I’m selective and keep it minimal so as not to overwhelm or annoy.

[Luv2play]

I get a few from providers that I have seen several times and had an absolute blast with on our dates. Always overnights or weekends when we were able to forge a deep connection, however brief in the scheme of things. 

I take it for what it is, and respond appropriately, asking them how they are and so forth. I don't take too much of their time because I know we are not likely to get together in hhe foreseeable future because of where I live and where they are, usually thousands of miles away. 

I love it when they send me a pic of themselves. It happened just the other day and the guy was in Hawaii.

[harlow]

Yes from a couple

[Westsideguy]

I’ve gotten quite a few. Mostly at Thanksgiving or New Years.  Just saying thanks. I actually send some out too.  I’m grateful for a few guys for sure. 

[Whatsupandstuff]

Vin and AJ are super lovely that way

[Midwestbird]

I receive them from Peter Hung and AJ .

Both are great guys. 

 

[MikeH10]

sounds like good marketing 

[+ tassojunior]

yes, and they mean as much as the ones from my plumber and dentist. 

it's the thought that counts ! $$

[rvwnsd]

I've received birthday greetings as well as Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Easter... greetings from a variety of providers. 

[starman05]

A masseur sent me a GIF of roses 🌹 on feb 14 once which was sweet 

another provider I saw on my birthday; he bought dinner and gave me flowers and bought me a gift. I wasn’t expecting any of that

we’ve shared a few holiday texts

its not real in the way I’d like it to be but it is what it is

someone famous told me once that every relationship is transactional 

thats true, I suppose

[DWnyc]

Never my birthday - that’s just too personal info to share with a provider (before getting into the potential security implications)

I would be horrified if I got one on V-day from a provider (I’m horrified by some I get from real life contacts) …

but Christmas, new year, thanksgiving etc quite regularly - and I take it for what it is, good business, civility, and perhaps even sincerity. I always reciprocate in kind and unless there is a specific ask / offer mentioned (which there often is - “for the holidays I’m reducing my rates …” etc) I just restrict it to a direct response to the greeting. 

I wished a provider happy Christmas when seeing him right before the holidays one year, he got a bit gruff and said he had no family he was close to, it was just another day to him … it opened the door to a lengthy conversation about how he had no real friends and whether he was happy with that. This was as I was leaving and caused me to linger for a while (fully clothed, one foot out the door). There was almost a “do you wanna hang out just as friends right now” moment but probably only in my head - so I didn’t push it - and I said to him he could call me if he ever felt he needed company - just as friends - in the way i call him when I feel I need company …  he laughed and said he wouldn’t be able to afford me. Yes there’s a deep message there and I’ll keep it to myself  

 

[DWnyc]

15 minutes ago, starman05 said:

 

someone famous told me once that every relationship is transactional 

thats true, I suppose

Agree with that 100%
not always a bad thing 

 

[starman05]

1 hour ago, DWnyc said:

Never my birthday - that’s just too personal info to share with a provider (before getting into the potential security implications)

I would be horrified if I got one on V-day from a provider (I’m horrified by some I get from real life contacts) …

but Christmas, new year, thanksgiving etc quite regularly - and I take it for what it is, good business, civility, and perhaps even sincerity. I always reciprocate in kind and unless there is a specific ask / offer mentioned (which there often is - “for the holidays I’m reducing my rates …” etc) I just restrict it to a direct response to the greeting. 

I wished a provider happy Christmas when seeing him right before the holidays one year, he got a bit gruff and said he had no family he was close to, it was just another day to him … it opened the door to a lengthy conversation about how he had no real friends and whether he was happy with that. This was as I was leaving and caused me to linger for a while (fully clothed, one foot out the door). There was almost a “do you wanna hang out just as friends right now” moment but probably only in my head - so I didn’t push it - and I said to him he could call me if he ever felt he needed company - just as friends - in the way i call him when I feel I need company …  he laughed and said he wouldn’t be able to afford me. Yes there’s a deep message there and I’ll keep it to myself  

 

you're a psychiatrist? or an accountant

[starman05]

1 hour ago, DWnyc said:

Agree with that 100%
not always a bad thing 

 

no, it's not a bad thing. It made me feel better about the 'relationship' I had -- such as it was. It was never going to be anything more than what it was but what it was wasn't so bad. I'd do overnighters and from the minute I got there till the minute we parted, I felt ...this is nice. This is what it's like when someone cares. I was able to get out of my own way and not get hung up on why it would never be anything more. I was, as I've often been advised to be, 'in the moment.'