hwic04 Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Happy birthday/Valentine’s Day or Merry Christmas/Happy New Year? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sf westcoaster Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Yes, many times! + Pensant, Becket, liubit and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pd1_jap Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Nope never Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karch Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Yes, several times from a variety of providers. liubit and + sf westcoaster 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuzzLiteQueer Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 A few times but in the long run, it meant nothing starman05, coriolis888 and + sf westcoaster 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Yes, quite often. liubit, + sf westcoaster and + Pensant 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WstVlgChris Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 From my two regular masseurs (both of whom I've had full-on sex with, so I guess I can discuss them in this chain--lol), yes, many times. + sf westcoaster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 I've had many such messages from a variety of young men who I've hired as masseurs over the years One very nice Thai fellow has been sending me messages for years, in spite of the fact he moved back to Thailand in 2018 rvwnsd and + sf westcoaster 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunGuyUS Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Yes every year from a few + sf westcoaster and liubit 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ ThroatCummer Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Yeas. Mostly from providers that I have hired more than once and that I have formed that connection with. At the end of the day, it's simply great marketing and good business. There is one in particular that I would hire as my VP of Marketing in a heartbeat. He's so great at follow-up and maintaining communication that he will forever get my cash, lol. starman05, liubit, + sf westcoaster and 4 others 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ketut Posted February 22, 2023 Share Posted February 22, 2023 Yes, many times, mostly from regulars liubit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 I send such messages from time to time to clients who hire me regularly. For instance to couples ahead of Valentine’s Day telling them about a special offer. I’m not a great marketer in the traditional sense, but I do a bit of this type of communication. I’m selective and keep it minimal so as not to overwhelm or annoy. + Just Sayin, tennisjock, Luv2play and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 I get a few from providers that I have seen several times and had an absolute blast with on our dates. Always overnights or weekends when we were able to forge a deep connection, however brief in the scheme of things. I take it for what it is, and respond appropriately, asking them how they are and so forth. I don't take too much of their time because I know we are not likely to get together in hhe foreseeable future because of where I live and where they are, usually thousands of miles away. I love it when they send me a pic of themselves. It happened just the other day and the guy was in Hawaii. TruHart1 and Marc in Calif 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harlow Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 Yes from a couple Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Westsideguy Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 I’ve gotten quite a few. Mostly at Thanksgiving or New Years. Just saying thanks. I actually send some out too. I’m grateful for a few guys for sure. Luv2play, + Pensant and + Just Sayin 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whatsupandstuff Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 Vin and AJ are super lovely that way Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Midwestbird Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 I receive them from Peter Hung and AJ . Both are great guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeH10 Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 sounds like good marketing DWnyc and starman05 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ tassojunior Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 yes, and they mean as much as the ones from my plumber and dentist. it's the thought that counts ! $$ pubic_assistance, DWnyc, Pd1_jap and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rvwnsd Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 I've received birthday greetings as well as Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Easter... greetings from a variety of providers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 A masseur sent me a GIF of roses 🌹 on feb 14 once which was sweet another provider I saw on my birthday; he bought dinner and gave me flowers and bought me a gift. I wasn’t expecting any of that we’ve shared a few holiday texts its not real in the way I’d like it to be but it is what it is someone famous told me once that every relationship is transactional thats true, I suppose + Pensant, Huxley, DWnyc and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 Never my birthday - that’s just too personal info to share with a provider (before getting into the potential security implications) I would be horrified if I got one on V-day from a provider (I’m horrified by some I get from real life contacts) … but Christmas, new year, thanksgiving etc quite regularly - and I take it for what it is, good business, civility, and perhaps even sincerity. I always reciprocate in kind and unless there is a specific ask / offer mentioned (which there often is - “for the holidays I’m reducing my rates …” etc) I just restrict it to a direct response to the greeting. I wished a provider happy Christmas when seeing him right before the holidays one year, he got a bit gruff and said he had no family he was close to, it was just another day to him … it opened the door to a lengthy conversation about how he had no real friends and whether he was happy with that. This was as I was leaving and caused me to linger for a while (fully clothed, one foot out the door). There was almost a “do you wanna hang out just as friends right now” moment but probably only in my head - so I didn’t push it - and I said to him he could call me if he ever felt he needed company - just as friends - in the way i call him when I feel I need company … he laughed and said he wouldn’t be able to afford me. Yes there’s a deep message there and I’ll keep it to myself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DWnyc Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 15 minutes ago, starman05 said: someone famous told me once that every relationship is transactional thats true, I suppose Agree with that 100% not always a bad thing starman05 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 1 hour ago, DWnyc said: Never my birthday - that’s just too personal info to share with a provider (before getting into the potential security implications) I would be horrified if I got one on V-day from a provider (I’m horrified by some I get from real life contacts) … but Christmas, new year, thanksgiving etc quite regularly - and I take it for what it is, good business, civility, and perhaps even sincerity. I always reciprocate in kind and unless there is a specific ask / offer mentioned (which there often is - “for the holidays I’m reducing my rates …” etc) I just restrict it to a direct response to the greeting. I wished a provider happy Christmas when seeing him right before the holidays one year, he got a bit gruff and said he had no family he was close to, it was just another day to him … it opened the door to a lengthy conversation about how he had no real friends and whether he was happy with that. This was as I was leaving and caused me to linger for a while (fully clothed, one foot out the door). There was almost a “do you wanna hang out just as friends right now” moment but probably only in my head - so I didn’t push it - and I said to him he could call me if he ever felt he needed company - just as friends - in the way i call him when I feel I need company … he laughed and said he wouldn’t be able to afford me. Yes there’s a deep message there and I’ll keep it to myself you're a psychiatrist? or an accountant Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starman05 Posted February 23, 2023 Share Posted February 23, 2023 1 hour ago, DWnyc said: Agree with that 100% not always a bad thing no, it's not a bad thing. It made me feel better about the 'relationship' I had -- such as it was. It was never going to be anything more than what it was but what it was wasn't so bad. I'd do overnighters and from the minute I got there till the minute we parted, I felt ...this is nice. This is what it's like when someone cares. I was able to get out of my own way and not get hung up on why it would never be anything more. I was, as I've often been advised to be, 'in the moment.' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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