Guest Matt Smith Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 Well, I posted this in the fetish forum thinking that was the right place and someone corrected me and suggested here, so I'm just copying and pasting what I posted there. How important is a guy's face compared to his body for you? Can a "butters" (everything's hot but his face) guy turn you on or no? Butters guys don't do it for me. I don't care how muscled he is or how great his underwear looks on him (a major fetish for me) if his face doesn't look good too - in porn pics especially. It is VERY rare a faceless pic can turn me on. Mind you, as I write this, I realize that personality greatly affects how much a guy turns me on too. In porn pics, the face is where the personality is revealed. But, in real life, I've seen hot guys whose appearance caused a stir in my crotch until their personality was revealed and my dick shriveled right up. I've also seen guys who weren't necessarily the cutest until their personality was revealed and I'd go from six to midnight in a heartbeat. So maybe it's more of a personality thing for me and in porn I use the face to extrapolate a personality that suits my fantasy. What about you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CuriousByNature Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 9 minutes ago, Matt Smith said: Well, I posted this in the fetish forum thinking that was the right place and someone corrected me and suggested here, so I'm just copying and pasting what I posted there. How important is a guy's face compared to his body for you? Can a "butters" (everything's hot but his face) guy turn you on or no? Butters guys don't do it for me. I don't care how muscled he is or how great his underwear looks on him (a major fetish for me) if his face doesn't look good too - in porn pics especially. It is VERY rare a faceless pic can turn me on. Mind you, as I write this, I realize that personality greatly affects how much a guy turns me on too. In porn pics, the face is where the personality is revealed. But, in real life, I've seen hot guys whose appearance caused a stir in my crotch until their personality was revealed and my dick shriveled right up. I've also seen guys who weren't necessarily the cutest until their personality was revealed and I'd go from six to midnight in a heartbeat. So maybe it's more of a personality thing for me and in porn I use the face to extrapolate a personality that suits my fantasy. What about you? I'm not sure that personality comes across accurately on camera, whether that is in porn or mainstream media. Actors act - and not always well - but it is more a persona than a personality that you are seeing until you get to know someone. Kindness is a huge plus in my estimation, because that is really hard to fake. I would be more interested in a genuinely kind woman or man who may not have amazing physical attributes, compared with someone with a supermodel's face and body that happens to lack empathy and grace. As for me, I have not heard the term 'butters' before, but I imagine that is what I must be since I never eat margarine. + Charlie, lehigh, newdad and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Matt Smith Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 28 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said: I'm not sure that personality comes across accurately on camera, whether that is in porn or mainstream media. Actors act - and not always well - but it is more a persona than a personality that you are seeing until you get to know someone. Kindness is a huge plus in my estimation, because that is really hard to fake. I would be more interested in a genuinely kind woman or man who may not have amazing physical attributes, compared with someone with a supermodel's face and body that happens to lack empathy and grace. As for me, I have not heard the term 'butters' before, but I imagine that is what I must be since I never eat margarine. Oh I agree entirely, but porn is all about fantasy, so that's why I phrased it as seeing a face at least lets me build a fantasy. As for "butters", it's a bit less of an American term although I believe the phrase originated in America. There used to be the phrase "butter face" which was ultimately an abbreviation for "everything's hot but her face". Basically, straight guys would basically say "She's a butter face." But "butter face" doesn't quite work for "everything's hot but his face" lol. That said, I believe it was Britain that shortened it to "butters" and I've heard them use it for both guys and girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 Masseur - doesn’t matter to me Escort- I need a pleasant face, with eye contact, and a genuine smile. More than that is a bonus. Medin, + The Big Guy, + ButchAtl and 5 others 5 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninsoma Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 Just remember that a butter face is, to a great extent, in the eye of the beholder. I've seen some guys gushed over here whose faces I don't find attractive. Conversely, there are some guys in porn whom I find hot whom others have described as unattractive facially. Being attracted to someone's face is important to me, but I find a wide range of guys attractive. Sometimes it's the little quirks about someone's looks that turns me on the most. jeezifonly, JUWS, + Charlie and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Axiom2001 Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 (edited) A guy's looks are important to me; for facial features are the first thing noticed; then my eyes descend and assess everything about his physicality. Edited February 8, 2023 by Axiom2001 jeezifonly 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterhumphries Posted February 8, 2023 Share Posted February 8, 2023 Faces don't matter that much to me. I have dated several men who would be called "handsome" but the presence of male facial beauty didn't factor much into my attraction to them. And good looks are relative so there is no absolute that would diminish all others. I will admit if a man is bodybuilder muscular, I tend to like plain or ugly men. It's a fantasy of being dominated by a big bull of a man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 An escort just left my home. He is very handsome and I have seen him 3 times now. Plan to see him again soon. Below that face is an incredible muscular toned body and my height 5'11". Also very touchy-feely. A very nice guy. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DynamicUno Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 It's very important for me that the guy has a face. Jamie21, liubit, lanyc and 5 others 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 Ryan Philippe's butt in the doctor'cut of the film "54" Ryan has other stunning features as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Charlie Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 The face is important if all I want to do is kiss, but I can overlook it if there are other things that interest me more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 (edited) A smoking-hot body (muscular) can make up for quite a bit, but the face is super-important. I'm more likely to overlook some extra pounds than an ugly face. Hair is also very important to me. I'm personally unlikely to find a bald man or redhead attractive, unless both the face and body and smoking hot. And Carrot Top won't do it. I'll take Bruno Baba's handsome face even though his body ain't anything to. brag about... Edited February 9, 2023 by Unicorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 (edited) He's obviously not my idea of a super-hot dude. But his face makes up for his out of shape body. https://www.famousss.com/profile/bruno-baba/ Edited February 9, 2023 by Unicorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 On 2/8/2023 at 12:01 AM, Matt Smith said: How important is a guy's face compared to his body for you? I'm a fitness freak. I can't stand a pound of fat on a man or a woman. So the body is always my first attraction. Face....as long as they're not a major*ugggo* ..I'm fine. Even my first fuck was with a girl who had a rockin-hot bod, but was a plain-Jane in the face. ( of course she also had a convertible, to fuck in..so that scored points too ). Dim the lights and pour some extra wine. HuskyC and 56harrisond 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 2 minutes ago, Unicorn said: his face makes up for his out of shape body. No it doesn't I wouldn't be able to get hard. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 Bruno Baba sometimes refers to himself as a fatness model. I'm not sure I'd pay for that, but I wouldn't throw him out of bed. Couldn't imagine doing it with Carrot Top, though. https://www.instagram.com/baba_bruno/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 1 minute ago, Unicorn said: I wouldn't throw him out of bed. I would. I just can't deal with fat. Never never never . Even if I got fat, I couldn't fuck a fat person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 Well, he definitely was smoking-hot before he got fat during the pandemic. He had both the face and the body: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 Michael Phelps is often called a butterface, but I'd do him: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 His face got somewhat better as he got older: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 I don't think I'd do The Situation, though: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 Who amongst you are attracted to Adam Driver, another butterface? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterhumphries Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 6 hours ago, Charlie said: The face is important if all I want to do is kiss, but I can overlook it if there are other things that interest me more. If you're really into it, you'd kiss with your eyes closed. Every kiss feels the same in the dark.😉 + Charlie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterhumphries Posted February 9, 2023 Share Posted February 9, 2023 7 minutes ago, Unicorn said: Who amongst you are attracted to Adam Driver, another butterface? This is what I'm talking about. A plain, unconventional face but so sexy! Just like Adrien Brody. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted February 10, 2023 Share Posted February 10, 2023 18 minutes ago, misterhumphries said: If you're really into it, you'd kiss with your eyes closed. Every kiss feels the same in the dark.😉 Then you haven't done much kissing! liubit, Marc in Calif, + DynamicUno and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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