Caveats in hiring. Please contribute!

[JMatt]

I know they've been stated here but I have two non-negotiables.  1.  No deposit under any circumstances no matter how much.  2. No paying up front before service is provided.  I have turned and walked out the door when asked to pay first, and will keep doing so.  

[Chien Andalou]

On 1/28/2024 at 6:18 AM, ICTJOCK said:

Define a "secondary market"?

I’m sure he meant second-tier markets (other than Rentmen or Rentmasseur), like Hunqz or Adam4Adam, not that he’s getting the escorts on resale. 😜

[Chien Andalou]

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 

How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)

Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

[NipLuvr212]

2 minutes ago, Chien Andalou said:

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 

How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)

Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

100%

Lately I've been asking the exact same three questions, and the response I get is, literally,

"220/hr"

I immediately move on.

[Mark_fl]

52 minutes ago, Chien Andalou said:

I have one to add: Answer the fucking question! I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.
 

How many times have I seen a 6 who thinks they deserve the same compensation as a 9? Let’s get that out of the way and save everybody’s time. (It’s not so much that I am cheap as I wouldn’t pay that much for YOU.)

Whether they can host is self evident. And the location is so I know what it will take to meet them. Are they on a convenient transit line, or am I looking at an hour in the car and parking problems? Too often they gloss right over it and ask when I want to meet. That depends on your answer. If it’s like pulling teeth to get that information, it’s a non starter for me. How do you guys even get them to discuss what you want to do together?

Yep. Maybe it's a language issue, but if you can't take the time to read and answer direct questions, I know immediately that it will not be a relaxing experience with good communication. 

[Wings246]

5 hours ago, Chien Andalou said:

I have three things I want to know up front: what do you charge, can you host, where are you located.

OMFG.  I cannot agree more, so much so that I wouldn't mind if they can set up the answers to these CRUCIAL questions as an autoreply.  In fact, a handful of the providers I've met did exactly that during my first-time inquiries (i.e. all these info were given to me without me asking).  I'm not kidding when I say that it greatly improved my desire and decision to hire.

[PragueMen]

You’re in control. You have the ability to leave and even request a refund whenever you want. Including if they are scamming, not who they say they are, being creepy, not the services agreed upon etc… Nobody is gonna stand up for you except you.

Edited Saturday at 10:53 PM by PragueMen

[mtaabq]

On 3/29/2024 at 1:43 PM, DrownedBoy said:

Soliciting for a tip before the session. I kid you not.

“Just so you know, my fee is plus tip.”
 

If I hear those words, or any variation thereof, I will immediately cancel or walk out.