jetlow Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 (edited) I once had a provider come over the in the morning, around 730AM for a 3 hour appointment. I am always in the mood at that time, but he obviously had to get ready at 630AM etc, he did his duty, but wasn't really into it. It was a repeat encounter with the familiar provider. I felt like I wasn't getting his best. I enjoy his company tho, and yes i did have fun. But I could tell he wasn't into it. He's very professional tho, takes his role seriously, so I can't fault him completely. Can the providers here suggest the best times to maximize the experience? My favorite time is after dinner, around 9-10pm, but not too late. Edited September 7, 2021 by jetlow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ purplekow Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 I am definitely a night owl and the idea of starting a session at 7 30 AM is only appealing to me if it is an overnight, I do not have to get out of bed and I can chuckle my way back to sleep. Otherwise, night time is the right time. Luvfurrytops, sjmuktop and Luv2play 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjmuktop Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 2 minutes ago, purplekow said: I am definitely a night owl and the idea of starting a session at 7 30 AM is only appealing to me if it is an overnight, I do not have to get out of bed and I can chuckle my way back to sleep. Otherwise, night time is the right time. I'm the same. I prefer evening/night time sessions if it's convenient for the escort, which it normally is. Sometimes I'll have sessions during the afternoon, but definitely prefer late evenings/nights. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
big-n-tall Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 It’s really dependent on the individual. Some escorts like mornings, some like afternoons, some like nights, and there are those who like all the times in between. Hell… you’ll even find some who don’t care what time it is. They just want to fuck (pardon my French) Lol! The best thing you can do is communicate with the provider and figure out a time that works best for you and the provider. Eventually you’ll find a guy who syncs with your preferred time. Luvfurrytops, sjmuktop and + purplekow 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjmuktop Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 1 minute ago, big-n-tall said: It’s really dependent on the individual. Some escorts like mornings, some like afternoons, some like nights, and there are those who like all the times in between. Hell… you’ll even find some who don’t care what time it is. They just want to fuck (pardon my French) Lol! The best thing you can do is communicate with the provider and figure out a time that works best for you and the provider. Eventually you’ll find a guy who syncs with your preferred time. In my own personal experience, most escorts I've contacted have been able and willing to do whatever time is convenient for me. I can only recall one or maybe two times when an escort has said that the time that I had suggested for meeting wasn't convenient for him and asked could I do a different time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetlow Posted September 7, 2021 Author Share Posted September 7, 2021 Yes, in this case since i am a regular, he was willing to come by at 730am. I felt like I wasn't getting his best. He was prepared though the whole time and stlll put on a good show. The time that I prefer is usually after dinner, after 9pm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 I don't know of any escort who wants to pull himself awake at 5 am so he can be ready to fuck at 7:30. It's best to just ask what works best for the escort you're interested in. He'll tell you. Storm4U, Shawn Monroe, lonely_john and 4 others 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetlow Posted September 7, 2021 Author Share Posted September 7, 2021 In my case I specified 730am so I could fit him into my schedule. in hindsight well, I would not have done that. Good pointers thanks. Rod Hagen 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 Daytime works best for me. There’s something about fucking at say 2pm in the afternoon when everyone else is working at a desk in an office and I’m working naked in a bed (or bent over the kitchen table) that gets me going. Otherwise anytime is fine, if I’ve enough notice an early morning appointment is ok. The main issue with timing is my schedule fitting in with the client’s requirements. I find people tend to book last minute assuming I’m available and often I have to disappoint because I’m otherwise busy. dbar123 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cany10011 Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 One of my best encounters was a 6:30 am encounter at the Ritz Carlton Marina del Rey. I was worried what the hotel would say having someone come in so early in the morning…. He was new to me and we were trying to schedule before my work meeting at 8:00 am. He was a sexy, Abercrombie type who also brought coffee. It was a torrid and memorable encounter… We later met up again for a nice weekend in Las Vegas. Very nice guy. He’s now a realtor in Los Angeles. Rod Hagen 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fcfs Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 My best and only available time is after my second gin and tonic and before dinner. jeezifonly 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 4 hours ago, Fcfs said: My best and only available time is after my second gin and tonic and before dinner. Perfect. I’m just after tea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn Monroe Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 16 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said: I don't know of any escort who wants to pull himself awake at 5 am so he can be ready to fuck at 7:30. It's best to just ask what works best for the escort you're interested in. He'll tell you. I think sometimes people forget that we are people too. sjmuktop, MikeBiDude, jtwalker and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjmuktop Posted September 7, 2021 Share Posted September 7, 2021 (edited) 3 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said: I think sometimes people forget that we are people too. I bet that's true. I can imagine some clients think that escorts are machines who fuck every single day, and see clients every hour of the day. I'll admit to being really naive in my early days of hiring (I started when I was 18 ! Yes, that's right...I was 18 when I hired my first escort). The first few escorts I went with, I used to think they operated a kind of revolving door service, where they had probably finished with a client just shortly before I turned up to meet them, and then as soon as I had left their place another client would soon arrive to be followed by another client after that and then another client after that, etc. Of course that's ridiculous. I guess the average escort only sees a handful of clients each week, most of whom are probably regulars with perhaps a couple of new/one-off clients thrown in? Edited September 7, 2021 by sjmuktop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted September 8, 2021 Share Posted September 8, 2021 6 hours ago, Shawn Monroe said: I think sometimes people forget that we are people too. SURVEY SAYS.... YES. With some, there's always a power-play happening when hiring an escort: A sense of quietly- or not so quietly- making it clear they're 'above' the guys they hire. That level of unmitigated ego can't be pushed down for long. It's a wash, rinse and repeat, classic defect. It also makes them easier to spot and drop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted September 8, 2021 Share Posted September 8, 2021 4 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said: SURVEY SAYS.... YES. With some, there's always a power-play happening when hiring an escort: A sense of quietly- or not so quietly- making it clear they're 'above' the guys they hire. That level of unmitigated ego can't be pushed down for long. It's a wash, rinse and repeat, classic defect. It also makes them easier to spot and drop. Yes agree. I’ve a client who books me and always changes the time slightly. It goes like this: Him: “Hi J are you available tomorrow afternoon?” Me: yes I am, say 3pm?” Him “3:30 please”. It happens every time. If I respond with a vague suggestion like “yes anytime between 2 and 6” he’ll ask for 6:30. If I reply with “yes I’m free all afternoon” he’ll say “ok anytime is fine” and then when I suggest a time he’ll move it by half hour. I think it’s his way of saying that he’s in charge and can decide when I’m servicing him. In all other respects the session is fine but his booking time game is amusing. I’m fine with the power play thing; it’s my cock that’s big not my ego 😂 + nycman, mike carey, sjmuktop and 2 others 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ JEC Posted September 9, 2021 Share Posted September 9, 2021 (edited) I always hire during the day, during the week....when I can get away from work. I'm good with meeting as early as 10am or as late as 3pm - otherwise depends what work appointments I need to work around. As long as I'm home for dinner, I think you get the picture. There's no power play here, this is simply the time I am available (acknowledging that my availability is unusual compared to most). Part of the reason I hire is that I can have this experience at a very specific time. I have had a few bad experiences meeting in the morning....IMHO if a provider cannot provide a stellar experience at that time they should not accept a booking at that time 😬. Edited September 9, 2021 by JEC Luvfurrytops, sjmuktop and jeezifonly 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted September 15, 2021 Share Posted September 15, 2021 Not a provider but I think I'm with the majority when I say that I prefer evenings, which I also find it's a more romantic setting to live my fantasies. Also, I'm under the impression that providers tend to be more of night creatures. For every 10 providers I've asked about their availability, 8 will respond that they prefer evenings, or even afternoons if that's the client's limited schedule, but rarely mornings or early mornings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetlow Posted September 15, 2021 Author Share Posted September 15, 2021 I would concur with this. Having been though this experience I would say I would hire late afternoons and evenings only, and save the morning experiences for overnights. Not being cheap just want to get the best experience possible lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted September 16, 2021 Share Posted September 16, 2021 On 9/9/2021 at 9:58 PM, JEC said: I always hire during the day, during the week....when I can get away from work. I'm good with meeting as early as 10am or as late as 3pm - otherwise depends what work appointments I need to work around. As long as I'm home for dinner, I think you get the picture. There's no power play here, this is simply the time I am available (acknowledging that my availability is unusual compared to most). Part of the reason I hire is that I can have this experience at a very specific time. I have had a few bad experiences meeting in the morning....IMHO if a provider cannot provide a stellar experience at that time they should not accept a booking at that time 😬. Yes many of my clients like an afternoon booking. It can go in their work diary as a work meeting (networking / training) and then doesn’t interrupt their evening at home with the wife 🙂. First thing in the morning is also a thing; it sets the day up well. I really don’t mind what time of day they want as long as there’s decent notice and then I can make sure I’m ready to give a great service. CastaDiva, lonely_john and + Vegas_Millennial 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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