Recently had a theft - first time ever

[DallasClient]

Of all the years I have had guys over, never had a theft. I have a "straight" guy that comes over every few weeks and I am his only client. At my house, he keeps a bottle of oil he prefers us to use and he keeps a dildo here he uses in the shower to loosen up with before our session. The last time he was here a few weeks ago, I noticed when he left I was missing a half-used bottle of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash. I certainly wouldn't take it to any other bathroom or do anything with it myself. I did see him have some clothes bundled up in his hands when he left but didn't think anything about it. What an odd thing to take. Do you think he just really liked it, or needed body wash at home? It actually was body wash another guy I see on the reg picked out when I took him shopping once. I don't think I ever explained how it went missing to him when he noticed it was missing.

 

The "straight" guy is coming over tonight. I'm inclined to not say anything at all as I don't really care about such a minor thing, and don't want to ruin the good thing I have going with him (and yes, he's paid well when he comes over). Usually, I shower afterwards with the guys. But I have two guys that prefer to shower alone (he's one) and I usually go to the livingroom and let them shower and dress in peace. Should I stay in the room? Should I mention it? Do I frisk him when he leaves? He knows if he needs anything

[+ azdr0710]

Do nothing.

[+ SirBillybob]

He’s in love with you. Having his body oil at yours and your body wash at his is like a mutual transitional object agenda. He probably imagines you doing wicked things with his dildo after it has been deep inside him but left in your care. In future, watch out for your panties as they can be easily bundled up and spirited off as the next trophy level.

[+ Lucky]

The "straight" guy is coming over tonight. I'm inclined to not say anything at all as I don't really care about such a minor thing, and don't want to ruin the good thing I have going with him (and yes, he's paid well when he comes over).

I wouldn't think it was intentional. It's not as if Bath and Body products are worth losing a client over.

[DallasClient]

He’s in love with you. Having his body oil at yours and your body wash at his is like a mutual transitional object agenda. He probably imagines you doing wicked things with his dildo after it has been deep inside him but left in your care. In future, watch out for your panties as they can be easily bundled up and spirited off as the next trophy level.

 

This made me laugh so much. Thank you ?

[DallasClient]

I'm not going to mention it. I know he doesn't like to suck a dick so I will have him do that for a little while because it will make me laugh inside LOL

[+ azdr0710]

Give him several bottles of it for Xmas! In person while he opens up the package!

[+ SirBillybob]

Give him several bottles of it for Xmas! In person while he opens up the package!

On the accompanying message card: “For all your sticky body parts.”

[+ pdxleo]

Give him several bottles of it for Xmas! In person while he opens up the package!

Oh my God, what a wickedly perfect idea!

[+ FrankR]

Of all the years I have had guys over, never had a theft. I have a "straight" guy that comes over every few weeks and I am his only client. At my house, he keeps a bottle of oil he prefers us to use and he keeps a dildo here he uses in the shower to loosen up with before our session. The last time he was here a few weeks ago, I noticed when he left I was missing a half-used bottle of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash. I certainly wouldn't take it to any other bathroom or do anything with it myself. I did see him have some clothes bundled up in his hands when he left but didn't think anything about it. What an odd thing to take. Do you think he just really liked it, or needed body wash at home? It actually was body wash another guy I see on the reg picked out when I took him shopping once. I don't think I ever explained how it went missing to him when he noticed it was missing.

 

The "straight" guy is coming over tonight. I'm inclined to not say anything at all as I don't really care about such a minor thing, and don't want to ruin the good thing I have going with him (and yes, he's paid well when he comes over). Usually, I shower afterwards with the guys. But I have two guys that prefer to shower alone (he's one) and I usually go to the livingroom and let them shower and dress in peace. Should I stay in the room? Should I mention it? Do I frisk him when he leaves? He knows if he needs anything

Something similar happened to me. After the guy left he sent me a text indicating that he dropped the bottle, spilled almost all of the content and was too ashamed to just trash it so he took the bottle with him. Indicated he would replace it during his next visit - took the bottle so he could find an exact match. I told him to forget about it.

[+ nycman]

I noticed when he left I was missing a half-used bottle of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash.

That’s not stealing.....that’s taking out the trash.

 

You should thank him.....and get real adult bath products.

 

Grin

[YOUNG_LA_DOM]

Of all the years I have had guys over, never had a theft. I have a "straight" guy that comes over every few weeks and I am his only client. At my house, he keeps a bottle of oil he prefers us to use and he keeps a dildo here he uses in the shower to loosen up with before our session. The last time he was here a few weeks ago, I noticed when he left I was missing a half-used bottle of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash. I certainly wouldn't take it to any other bathroom or do anything with it myself. I did see him have some clothes bundled up in his hands when he left but didn't think anything about it. What an odd thing to take. Do you think he just really liked it, or needed body wash at home? It actually was body wash another guy I see on the reg picked out when I took him shopping once. I don't think I ever explained how it went missing to him when he noticed it was missing.

 

The "straight" guy is coming over tonight. I'm inclined to not say anything at all as I don't really care about such a minor thing, and don't want to ruin the good thing I have going with him (and yes, he's paid well when he comes over). Usually, I shower afterwards with the guys. But I have two guys that prefer to shower alone (he's one) and I usually go to the livingroom and let them shower and dress in peace. Should I stay in the room? Should I mention it? Do I frisk him when he leaves? He knows if he needs anything

I Am not being funny but BBW does have long ass lines to get inside. Or maybe he just loved the scent lots .

 

I would not say anything just go with it until something actually worth more goes missing

[+ poolboy48220]

He’s in love with you. Having his body oil at yours and your body wash at his is like a mutual transitional object agenda. He probably imagines you doing wicked things with his dildo after it has been deep inside him but left in your care. In future, watch out for your panties as they can be easily bundled up and spirited off as the next trophy level.

Visiting one of my old roommates, I noticed a sweatshirt of mine hanging on the back of a chair at his house. I asked him if that was mine, he said he'd wanted something of mine to remember me by.

[+ Hoover42]

That’s not stealing.....that’s taking out the trash.

 

You should thank him.....and get real adult bath products.

 

Grin

May I suggest Aēsop Geranium Leaf or Citrus Melange Body Wash?

[+ Pensant]

If any of my companions mention that they like something in the bathroom, I ask them to take it.

[+ Lucky]

If any of my companions mention that they like something in the bathroom, I ask them to take it.

So that's why you lost your fancy bidet!

[JayCeeKy]

Maybe I'm just old fashioned, but I would feel very uncomfortable with someone taking ANYTHING from my home without first asking, and I would be very hesitant to invite that person back again. But, that's just me.

[+ nycman]

May I suggest Aēsop Geranium Leaf....?

Be still my beating heart.....I think I just fell in love!

He even got the thing over the “e” correct.

Total elitist bathroom product nerdgasm!

[Luv2play]

Visiting one of my old roommates, I noticed a sweatshirt of mine hanging on the back of a chair at his house. I asked him if that was mine, he said he'd wanted something of mine to remember me by.

That’s what happened in Brokeback Mountain.

[marylander1940]

Of all the years I have had guys over, never had a theft. I have a "straight" guy that comes over every few weeks and I am his only client. At my house, he keeps a bottle of oil he prefers us to use and he keeps a dildo here he uses in the shower to loosen up with before our session. The last time he was here a few weeks ago, I noticed when he left I was missing a half-used bottle of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash. I certainly wouldn't take it to any other bathroom or do anything with it myself. I did see him have some clothes bundled up in his hands when he left but didn't think anything about it. What an odd thing to take. Do you think he just really liked it, or needed body wash at home? It actually was body wash another guy I see on the reg picked out when I took him shopping once. I don't think I ever explained how it went missing to him when he noticed it was missing.

 

The "straight" guy is coming over tonight. I'm inclined to not say anything at all as I don't really care about such a minor thing, and don't want to ruin the good thing I have going with him (and yes, he's paid well when he comes over). Usually, I shower afterwards with the guys. But I have two guys that prefer to shower alone (he's one) and I usually go to the livingroom and let them shower and dress in peace. Should I stay in the room? Should I mention it? Do I frisk him when he leaves? He knows if he needs anything

 

if that's all he took from you... stick to him!

 

Straight guys doing gay porno or escorting are way more likely to think they deserve more, hurt their gay clients, blackmail them, etc.

 

as of now you got lucky!

[+ friendofsheila]

If you want to do **something** to let him know you know:

 

you could buy another bottle of the same stuff, put a bow on it, and leave it where he will find it in the bathroom again.

[Guy Fawkes]

Buy two bottles of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash. Wrap one and give it to him and say: "Merry Christmas."

 

Of all the years I have had guys over, never had a theft. I have a "straight" guy that comes over every few weeks and I am his only client. At my house, he keeps a bottle of oil he prefers us to use and he keeps a dildo here he uses in the shower to loosen up with before our session. The last time he was here a few weeks ago, I noticed when he left I was missing a half-used bottle of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash. I certainly wouldn't take it to any other bathroom or do anything with it myself. I did see him have some clothes bundled up in his hands when he left but didn't think anything about it. What an odd thing to take. Do you think he just really liked it, or needed body wash at home? It actually was body wash another guy I see on the reg picked out when I took him shopping once. I don't think I ever explained how it went missing to him when he noticed it was missing.

 

The "straight" guy is coming over tonight. I'm inclined to not say anything at all as I don't really care about such a minor thing, and don't want to ruin the good thing I have going with him (and yes, he's paid well when he comes over). Usually, I shower afterwards with the guys. But I have two guys that prefer to shower alone (he's one) and I usually go to the livingroom and let them shower and dress in peace. Should I stay in the room? Should I mention it? Do I frisk him when he leaves? He knows if he needs anything

[DallasClient]

Maybe I'm just old fashioned, but I would feel very uncomfortable with someone taking ANYTHING from my home without first asking, and I would be very hesitant to invite that person back again. But, that's just me.

 

I understand that. I wasn't uncomfortable. I thought it was such a silly thing to take and I would have let him have it or more likely would have told him I would get him a fresh bottle.

[marylander1940]

I understand that. I wasn't uncomfortable. I thought it was such a silly thing to take and I would have let him have it or more likely would have told him I would get him a fresh bottle.

 

maybe he thought it was a tip after "feeding" you...

 

(I'm saying it based on some of your many posts) ;)?

[GTMike]

Of all the years I have had guys over, never had a theft. I have a "straight" guy that comes over every few weeks and I am his only client. At my house, he keeps a bottle of oil he prefers us to use and he keeps a dildo here he uses in the shower to loosen up with before our session. The last time he was here a few weeks ago, I noticed when he left I was missing a half-used bottle of Bath and Bodyworks Noir body wash. I certainly wouldn't take it to any other bathroom or do anything with it myself. I did see him have some clothes bundled up in his hands when he left but didn't think anything about it. What an odd thing to take. Do you think he just really liked it, or needed body wash at home? It actually was body wash another guy I see on the reg picked out when I took him shopping once. I don't think I ever explained how it went missing to him when he noticed it was missing.

 

The "straight" guy is coming over tonight. I'm inclined to not say anything at all as I don't really care about such a minor thing, and don't want to ruin the good thing I have going with him (and yes, he's paid well when he comes over). Usually, I shower afterwards with the guys. But I have two guys that prefer to shower alone (he's one) and I usually go to the livingroom and let them shower and dress in peace. Should I stay in the room? Should I mention it? Do I frisk him when he leaves? He knows if he needs anything

 

I feel your pain and dilemma. I had a similar situation with a long time SA dude as well that was/is a good situation. I'm not 100% sure but would put it in the 85% to 90% sure category that he lifted an expensive bottle of cologne after one meet up. I honestly think that particular evening however he feared and wasn't sure if I had been indicating that I wanted to end the arrangement completely (versus taking a small break which i had been contemplating). In any case in subsequent conversations i made it a point to mention a couple times subtly that i was missing a bottle of cologne without directly indicting or blaming him as again not 100% sure he did take it. But i did also then affirmatively decided to take a break for a few months. (Perhaps passive aggressive but it wasn't something dicky or out of the blue or vindictive). But i think he got the point and certainly in the end it wasn't worth it to lose a few months for that.

 

We're cool and picked up again after a bit as if nothing happened. I do although make sure in advance not to leave anything i really truly value laying around and easily accessible just in case. It eases my mind that i don't have to worry about anything including him feeling like I'm watching him like a hawk at any time or there's any over anxiety regarding a lack of trust.