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What happens when the client is having a great time but not so much for the escort? I know that we hire you guys for our pleasure, but how important is your pleasure and enjoyment in a session?

 

Client pleasure is my first and foremost priority even if that means I'm not enjoying my time. I've had times where I've been doing anal and the client is too big or the client wants to do bareback which I typically don't offer but to make him happy I've offered. Yes I've taken risks but in the end I want to make sure the client is happy since they are paying.

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Client pleasure is my first and foremost priority even if that means I'm not enjoying my time. I've had times where I've been doing anal and the client is too big or the client wants to do bareback wh

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They can post whatever they want.... I would suggest they also tip if they want the escort to cum.

 

You missed my point... it's not that they post about it, it's the idea of escorting bordering slavery and the escort MUST cum with someone he's not attracted too and possibly missing new potential clients the same day.

 

I have quoted them plenty of times. Hopefully they'll read this and comment too if they want to.

 

You're free to suggest whatever you want! ? ? ?

 

I make notes about my clients in my phone in their contact card. Usually, this is just specifics on how to enter their place, or things that are absolutely important for them. Nipple play, getting rimmed, etc. I take careful stock of the clients that pressure me to orgasm with them. As noted above, if I orgasm, it means I probably won't be up for picking up a client later - money lost. I'm here for your enjoyment, but I also have physical limits and for the clients that pressure me to cum, they get put on a second tier when it comes to my availability. I have to schedule them on their own day, by themselves, or at the very end of the day because I'm a one and done kind of guy.

 

Edit: I don't want anyone to think that this job is perfunctory for me. I enjoy having my dick sucked and fucking and getting fucked (and et cetera), but I'm able to have a complete, enjoyable sexual experience without cumming. Orgasms are nice, but it can take me upwards of 20 minutes to get off if things are focused specifically on me. And it can be stressful in and of itself to have someone focusing on your pleasure with a specific goal in mind that you have to live up to - failing to cum at that point is a letdown for everyone involved. If I get close, I go for it. If not, I'd really like to avoid being pressured to orgasm as due course for completing the act of sex.

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What happens when the client is having a great time but not so much for the escort? I know that we hire you guys for our pleasure, but how important is your pleasure and enjoyment in a session?

For me it is not important. My client's enjoyment comes first. That is the reason I am there for in the first place. If we happen to combine it with my enjoyment, then HEY! EVEN BETTER!!! ;)?

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What happens when the client is having a great time but not so much for the escort? I know that we hire you guys for our pleasure, but how important is your pleasure and enjoyment in a session?

 

SO important! Sex and intimacy is a dance. Obviously I prioritize my clients’ pleasure but truth is obvious and I know my clients will have a much better time if I’m also happy and enjoying myself.

 

Like others have said, communication is so important, in sex in general!

 

I think part of the service I provide isn’t just the sex or intimacy but a capacity to be attracted to and have fun with a wide range of men.

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The escorts I met always seemed to enjoy it, but I doubt it

This is my constant nagging anxiety. I want to believe they enjoy it when they say they like it. You have to wonder if that’s part of the act. I’m not faulting. Just saying where my anxiety goes.

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This is my constant nagging anxiety. I want to believe they enjoy it when they say they like it. You have to wonder if that’s part of the act. I’m not faulting. Just saying where my anxiety goes.

XYZ, you'll never really know if they are (truly) enjoying it or not. I'd like to think I've developed a sixth sense and can tell, might be true or I might be kidding myself. Either way, if the chemistry is good....ride that cowboy!

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I usually do like it when my paid companion enjoys himself too, at least a little bit, but there have been times when it is clear they "over-promised" their willingness to bottom, for example. Of course, I would never rape them, but if they are willing to complete the task that they agreed to, then that's on them. I'm very clear that I'm looking for a bottom and if they agree to it, I hope they are willing to complete the job. If not, then they don't get full payment (but again, I would never force them to do it). Ideally, they will let me know their likes in regards to sensitive nipples, kissing their ear/neck or whatever else they like. I do like to make them moan too.

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I'm a client as well. I know I've been with providers (some on here) who I am sure would have rather been in bed with someone else, but their professionalism was so great I could not tell. That is a mark of a great escort. He may not like his nipples done, but he'll seem to get into it. Yes, I want the escort I'm with to have the best time he can. But his job (and so many do this so very well) can convience the client they are having as much fun as the client.

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The art in acting is never letting them see your technique...

I met an escort who was not that good of an actor. The first time we met was fairly hot. At the end, he was moaning how he could feel me cumming inside him. Ok, well, I have had orgasms that were strong enough for the bottom to feel, but this was not one of those times. The second time we met (and the last), he said the same thing but with even less enthusiasm. haha While I appreciate the effort, it was too fake for me. :rolleyes:

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