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Being an extraverted introvert (which means I won't go out of my way to go out)... my routine won't change much once quarantine is lifted ?

Agreed! I usually do this for a potential overnight. But I still don't have the client show their face... I mostly want them to see that I'm a real person. ? I think I'm too trusting? Haha. But after doing this career for some time, I've gotten a LOT better at trusting my gut instinct. Trustworthy clients are easy to spot out now ?

I'd second @TruthBTold. Rhyheim does a great job (@SRhyheim on twitter)... but he also works like a maniac ?. He tells me he's lazy but I really admire his work ethic. I think like anything else, what you put in is what you get out. I don't think onlyfans (or any social media for that matter) can be done casually... at least... if one intends to achieve 'career' level income with it, then it takes a 'career' amount of time investment (at least, that's my current running theory). That being said, it is a lot less time than a 9-5 ?. And a part of it involves sex! Mine is doing OK ?

Frye boots!! I'd love to receive a pair of those... and I'm not great at receiving gifts ? This sounds like a quality idea ? That is, if he likes to shop

? Oh gosh, I’m embarrassed Yup! I will definitely be attending the weekend this year. Its been on my bucket list for awhile now. I hope so! Yes ? I really only offer bottoming (as far as anal goes) and thats really because I’m the same in my personal life (you get the same guy ?) Thanks RJD! We had an awesome time together. Plus lots of cuddles and good food ?

Aw, thank you! ??

Yeah... this is a big fantasy for me. Hence me trying to get bigger and more muscular ??

Wow I love the description bite sized ? YES! Chicago is definitely on my list of trips to plan ?

Thanks very much ??

Be better at playing sports (at which I suck) So... cue joining gay sports leagues and finding a guy to teach me (after or before having fun with me ?)

Tops! Knowledge Ive gleaned from many escort friends. I mean... in a practical sense, a cock is a cock but an ass can vary a lot more in terms of whether it turns someone on ?... just my (un)educated guess ? Personally, physical appearance is not very important to me in terms of attraction to somebody ? Ive heard this from a lot of my vers escort buddies, even though they get hired as a top much more.

I’ve definitely had “straight” inquirers... but those calls/texts don’t usually go anywhere. Ive had plenty of clients who are still married, often with kids. Some know what they want (sex!) But Ive had a client or two that just wanted foreplay. Maybe because of a mix of inexperience and lots of caution ? This I definitely agree with and encounter frequently enough.

Oops, I used my lurker account to reply ?. @jjkrkwood thank you!! @Epigonos actually advised me to advertise my cock more @dutchal @BuffaloKyle I’m looking forward to planning a trip to NY soon, just nothing planned at the moment. I just need a gym to be open! ??

@thedanNYC too funny ? I’m a loud and proud XXXXX so I haven’t encountered anything like that. If I did... I don’t live in a small enough town for that! We don't use that word on the message-forum.

Yes! Thank you for finding it ?. I'm incredibly excited about it. I definitely intended to escort and did NOT intend to get into porn, but my foray into it has been a BLAST! And I have a feeling getting to the East Coast is just around the corner! Thank you! I cannot wait to get to NYC ?

He did! ? ? Not at all! I spied you too, I went "oo, a handsome gay man!" It was great to meet another escort and connect ?. Nice finish to my day in LA.

Gosh. Thank you so much for the compliments ?. It doesn't get old ?, I feel very lucky. You're making me blush haha. I'd be very excited to see you in Palm Springs, not to mention its a great vacay spot (imo). Fuck. That is a very hot idea. ?

I can't wait to get out to NY! Thank you for the welcome ? Thank you! I was extremely excited to see that ?

Hey thanks a lot! ? He was super kind to write all those things about me ☺️

SO important! Sex and intimacy is a dance. Obviously I prioritize my clients’ pleasure but truth is obvious and I know my clients will have a much better time if I’m also happy and enjoying myself. Like others have said, communication is so important, in sex in general! I think part of the service I provide isn’t just the sex or intimacy but a capacity to be attracted to and have fun with a wide range of men.

I think this kind of thing is inevitable, afterall a good escort will want their client to feel amazing. Plus sex is a gateway to deeper connection. But this is also where I think being business-headed is important - afterall its a transaction for a service. Sometimes the escort may be giving it their “all” and isn’t like that normally. Or an escort could be blinded by money, since its heavily linked with feelings of caretaking. So basically in my opinion, boundaries are important! I actually love escorting because I can put in 100% intimacy and I know the session has an end. Whereas I have to be careful with hookups because people can get attached quickly when neither party means to.

In any case, congratulations!!

I mean that any relationship is work, trans or not. Being trans certainly comes with its unique set of baggage and insecurities, that you have to remember are not yours to fix.

Probably in spirit ? confident bottoms!

Communication!!! Probably the most key factor. Good communication in setting up the appointment and discussing expectations / likes / things to avoid - makes for a much easier and comfortable session. Eliminates guess work! Then the escort AND the client are more at ease and happier.