NikoLeto

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Wow, that was a wild trip. In the end, I think it's just that there's a biological interest - the pleasure that comes from the action of getting fucked - or a mental interest - as a sub myself, I know the intense ... euphoria that can come from being tied down and physically "stimulated" - without an emotional interest. For pay4gay guys, they're really just in it for the money, no attraction whatsoever. They fuck, they get fucked, and it might feel good, but there's a piece of the connection that makes someone "gay" or "bisexual" that just isn't there. Sure, from the outside, it looks, objectively, like gay sex, but it's not. Let me try another way: Real cocks feel better than dildos, right? Well, if you are a straight guy that likes getting pegged, then getting fucked by a guy is going to be doing all the same things, but it's going to feel better, because it's a real cock going in your hole. In the same way, Navy seamen get put out to sea for a long-ass time. In those kind of extreme situations, the possibility for straight sex just isn't in the cards. Prison comes to mind, too. These are all extremes, mind you. It's completely possible people put themselves into these kinds of situations on purpose and like you said rationalize that they're still "straight" even though, again, it's objectively gay sex they're having. Anecdotally, I've only been deployed on land, but we only had three females on our FOB, one an enlisted (like me), one an officer, and one a civilian. Technically, I could've shacked up with the civilian girl, because there's no UCMJ that I'm aware of that strictly prohibits servicemembers from engaging in sex at all, but I could be mistaken. Sex between me and the enlisted girl would have gotten us written up, and if she'd gotten pregnant that would've been a HUGE problem. I think it would be written up as "damaging government property," as I'd rendered another servicemember unfit to server in a theatre of war. I said all of that to say that it would've been easier for me and the boys, who all shared bunks, to pound out a load and get off that way. To be clear, the farthest I got was with a curious straight guy who jerked off in the shower with me once. But if there's a gay guy in the barracks who's begging for cock and you've wanted nothing but sex for 8 months, you'd probably close your eyes and just enjoy the ride, then go back home to the wife and kids without batting an eyelash.

The prostate gets massaged by a dildo or finger. The guy isn't sexually (or romantically, perhaps both) attracted to guys. There are all types in this world. I know a guy that had a daddy who would buy a dominatrix for him and fuck him that way (The dom, not the daddy. He and the boy had a weird, plutonic relationship). The boy was heavy into bondage, basically whatever happened during bondage didn't register as "gay" or "straight" it was just sex. He was just in it for the punishment. The daddy pushed the envelope and blindfolded him and brought me, another guy, and a dominatrix in to fuck the boy, but he only found out that there were real dicks involved when the blindfold was removed in the moment. Curiously, he started getting very verbal and self-degrading, where before he was fairly quiet. He has since broken it off with his daddy to go live in CA with his girlfriend.

I think the topic here got a lot derailed, but as an escort, I figured I'd chime in. Like @Jarrod_Uncut, I structure my fees around what's expected of me, not what the client can pay. I can't see this being a successful strategy. Unless you bring incredible things to the table, or are gifted in pretty specific ways, you'll lose the client to someone charging local prices.

I kept track of a run of approximately 12 months 1+ years ago and have decided to restart the practice to have a better understanding of how much income I'm making beyond my day job and make financial planning for the distant future more accurate. I'm curious what it is you track for your revenue. I think it's unlikely that it's just the total number. I take down this data: Nickname - name saved to number, may or may not be legal name Account - phone number, usually Amount - compensation Tip - amount above and beyond expected amount Date - date of meeting Time - time of meeting Day - day of the week the meeting takes place Location - incall/outcall Booking - expected function, to include timing of how many hours "Function" - keyed words for use in analytics later, possible examples could include "massage," "wrestling," etc. Notes - notes I may have about the encounter, future expectations of either party, difficulties finding the place; notes. Anything you track that I don't?

It's my practice that the client picks up the receipt, but the cost of a 'regular' hour is not expected. I could've been eating somewhere else, enjoying my private time, but also, likely, enjoying food of a lesser calibur. The trade-off seems quite straightforward to me. They're getting my time by providing me a service I needed anyways - everyone has to eat. Though, I'm not trying to talk shop with my clients about whatever it is they do during dinner - just casual conversation. Were I interested in talking specifics, I'd make it clear that there was no expectation for them to pay for my time or my dinner. The value generated from the conversation would be worth the expense.

I hope he meant throat culture. Been doing this many, many years now. I've gotten STIs from clients, but only recently have I ever passed an STI to a client. I was mortified. He was actually very understanding... I wish there were better solutions to STIs. Prophylactics, like PrEP for gonorrhea/chlamydia would be a game-changer. Ah well, whatever. Edit: I have a poor habit of forgetting to make a point until I edit my posts. The point I meant to bring up was that people just need to be honest and communicative. Catching an STD is, in most cases, just like catching a cold. It's hard for you to pick up whether you have it until you're already presenting symptoms, and there's no way you'd purposefully catch the STD, so you just have to assume that other people are also like that and that if they spread it to you that it wasn't in malice, but from being unaware.

This would be a huge turn-off. In the past when it's been a "surprise" (seriously, how do you orgasm and not make noises?!) it causes me to sputter/choke/gag.

I have to be in the right headspace to swallow. I don't swallow for most. I kinda need someone to push things into a Dom/sub space. I dunno. ?‍♂️ Edit: If you want me to swallow, take control of the situation. Make me swallow.

I think the onus is on the employed to determine where they will and will not labor for their money, regardless of whether they are destitute or not. To suggest that sex work is exploitative by nature on a board dedicated to the act is ... willfully ignorant? Not in good taste? Exploiting people by driving them to do anything when they would not otherwise do it is offensive. Sex work, by necessity, should be done only by the willing. Anything otherwise is a form of rape. The people being discussed at length don't meet my criteria for "coercion". They enter into the bargain willingly when other avenues exist. And as discussed in points across the thread, there's no way for you to verify "how" coerced they are in the matter. You don't live inside their head. The only thing you can do is enter honestly into the agreement.

Shout it from the rooftops! Hearing this repeated kills me. Cops are 100% allowed to lie in the pursuit of their duties. How else would they stay "undercover"?

Video game designer. My very first passion. I would love to be in charge of a team with a big ol' budget to realize this one game idea I've had and improved upon since I was a child.

I've had several experiences where I could feel that I was REALLY close to getting off, but with a dick in me, it just doesn't happen. Interestingly, it's almost better if the top is just playing with my asshole itself, and not penetrating. That seems to be the most successful when another person is involved and I'm the bottom. As a top, I can usually get off fine. Sometimes the anatomy of the bottom just doesn't jive with my dick and I have to finish myself manually, but it's infrequent. I've found that my orgasms are at least 50% mental. I have a little fantasy that I play out in my head when I want to 'focus on me' and orgasm. Still chasing after that hands-free orgasm. At this time, I've been the cause of more than a dozen, but never had one myself. /lament

If you're being bound and a significant portion of your body (an arm, a leg, your hand) falls asleep - STOP NOW. Untie the harmed part and make sure blood flow is restored before moving on. It takes roughly 10 minutes of lack of circulation for cells to start dying en masse - definitely not enough time to finish whatever fun you want to have and take everything off. What I'm talking about is the restriction of blood to an area. You have a bunch of blood vessels, capillaries mostly, that carry blood around. They're hard to see, on, say, your arm, but easier to see on the shaft of your dick. Ropes pressing against the skin using even modest pressure will stop those capillaries from delivering blood to surrounding areas and restrict blood flow, but your arteries and veins should still be able to deliver the blood they carry to and from the heart. Places where blood flow is restricted become colder, respond poorly to stimuli, etc. This pretty much always happens on skin, though holding a joint in a difficult position for a long time can cause the same kind of pain and difficulties. Once the ropes are removed, blood rushes back to these areas with stagnant blood in them, and some of the blood vessels have shrank due to poor blood flow. This all combines to cause a symphony of discomfort, especially if you rush it. I've learned that the best way is to force my body to hold the same position I'm in when I'm relaxed against the ropes. Typically, my shoulders are further back as my hands are bound behind my back. When the ropes are removed, I hold my shoulders in that position. There's a bit of discomfort as blood comes back, and then I need to work on the compromised joint as it has been immobile or supporting weight in an odd way. Simply relaxing into a 'comfortable' position feels like it causes additional stress and pain by asking these places like skin and joints to work like normal, despite depriving them of precious resources in the blood (like oxygen). That is definitely the most I've ever used the word "blood" in one sitting...

Having been tied up dozens of times, I know that feeling of pain-as-blood-returns-to-an-area that he's "ooh-ahh'ing" through. Something about it nice though, or I wouldn't keep coming back.