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So, I saw an ad of a really hot provider in my eyes, but pictures show his polished fingernails, which is a turn off for me. How do I politely tell him that I am not into polished fingernails when I meet him?

Some context please! Are we talking clear nail polish or was it a color that you don’t like?

 

Some things an escort can do without much fuss “don’t shave I like one-day scruff”. The provider may have to spend time and expense to remove the polish and restore it after the meet - are you willing to compensate him accordingly?

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Some context please! Are we talking clear nail polish or was it a color that you don’t like?

 

Some things an escort can do without much fuss “don’t shave I like one-day scruff”. The provider may have to spend time and expense to remove the polish and restore it after the meet - are you willing to compensate him accordingly?

 

I don't like a dude to have a polished fingernails even if it is clear. How do I politely ask if you are a provider?

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I don't like a dude to have a polished fingernails even if it is clear. How do I politely ask if you are a provider?

Reach out, compliment him on his profile and pics, express interest in meeting and ask him if he is willing to change his appearance to suit your preferences.

 

If he responds back that he is willing, you can ask him for hands that are au natural. Avoid expressing any criticism about his current appearance, to be sure. ?

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Reach out, compliment him on his profile and pics, express interest in meeting and ask him if he is willing to change his appearance to suit your preferences.

 

If he responds back that he is willing, you can ask him for hands that are au natural. Avoid expressing any criticism about his current appearance, to be sure. ?

 

Or tell him you have a mime fetish and ask him to wear a pair of white gloves. ?

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So, I saw an ad of a really hot provider in my eyes, but pictures show his polished fingernails, which is a turn off for me. How do I politely tell him that I am not into polished fingernails when I meet him?

“Hi (name)! I’ve been admiring you on Rentmen and I’m hoping we can get together tomorrow. I’m a xx year-old guy, 5 foot 9 and 160 pounds, who likes BFE experiences with versatile guys. It may seem strange, but for some reason polished fingernails turn me off. If we can get together, might you consider natural nails for me? Please let me know your rates for one and two hours. I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks!

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“Hi (name)! I’ve been admiring you on Rentmen and I’m hoping we can get together tomorrow. I’m a xx year-old guy, 5 foot 9 and 160 pounds, who likes BFE experiences with versatile guys. It may seem strange, but for some reason polished fingernails turn me off. If we can get together, might you consider natural nails for me? Please let me know your rates for one and two hours. I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks!

Nice, I will credit you in my message to him. LOL.

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I am sure now (particularly in these times) if all you are asking is that he not wear fingernail polish he should not have a problem with it. It is almost nothing to take it off and takes about 4 minutes to put it back on if he wishes.

This was pretty much what I would have said. If someone is going to be offended by being asked to remove nail polish, they have way too many problems for me to want to see them.

 

Once a guy becomes a regular of mine, I generally ask them of they can hold off on getting a hair cut for a couple of weeks to a month before I see them. (I plan my fun times in advance typically.) I find guys with hair I can run my fingers through really hot and sexy. I have never had anyone say no since they can always plan a haircut for the following day.

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It’s possible that the high shine is actually just buffed in as part of a standard gentleman’s manicure. It usually clouds over with a few days exposure

 

Suggest he go and do some gardening or detail his car.

 

Or if it’s an important detail that he needs to keep, you might come up with activities during the meet up that can keep his hands busy and out of your sight line. (Detailing Your car?)

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I hate to even say it but my extreme is I want to know whether his ass/hole is hairy. It is just a predilection I have. Since I love to rim (and hoped that he loves to be rimmed) I really like smooth holes. In most cases the guys I get together with are fairly "hairless" so there is no problem there. But there are times when they are not and I approach them about using Wet and a nice razor to work magic on their hole. In the end, they get a much more enjoyable rim job because I am more willing to go deeper and wet up the area around the hole. Just one of those things. It certainly is a lot more than just taking off some clear nail polish but you would be amazed what a few extra bucks will get you.

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Check the date of when you saw him with this. It might not be too far fetched to think it was something he did once to be different and no longer looks that way. Otherwise, don't hire him. That's really not all that different from asking a bear to shave just for you this once, a tatted guy to have his designs go away, and then pay for restoration, or offering to pay an uncut guy for surgery, and restoration, LOL!

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“Hi (name)! I’ve been admiring you on Rentmen and I’m hoping we can get together tomorrow. I’m a xx year-old guy, 5 foot 9 and 160 pounds, who likes BFE experiences with versatile guys. It may seem strange, but for some reason polished fingernails turn me off. If we can get together, might you consider natural nails for me? Please let me know your rates for one and two hours. I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks!

 

That sounds good. In a perfect World. But only problem with that (and why I changed my like to a meh lol), it puts the cart before the horse. I don’t like when clients come with a list of things to change before even meeting me.

 

Those same clients could also be the ones saying, sorry I have to cancel, and “we didn’t make an appointment” when asked for a cancellation fee. Well, you just criticized my looks AND demanded I make special concessions for you... to hell you didn’t make an appointment lol.

 

It’s similar to when clients have asked me to shave my chest, or beard, or or don’t shave my chest or beard... before even meeting me. If polished nails are that much a bother, carry a bottle of nail polish remover (not poppers, the regular stuff lol) and pay an extra $100 in case the guy paid for a manicure already.

 

That said, in defense of non polished nails, I recently tossed out 2 bottles of clear nail polish that I’d been carrying around for YEARS lol. I used to really like those in the corporate world, but now I find I end up peeling them off, scuffing them. I also didn’t find it made my nails any more or less healthier. Most of my nail issues are with my cuticles, as I’m often digging into luggage and such.

 

 

or offering to pay an uncut guy for surgery, and restoration, LOL!

 

What he said lol

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I am sure now (particularly in these times) if all you are asking is that he not wear fingernail polish he should not have a problem with it. It is almost nothing to take it off and takes about 4 minutes to put it back on if he wishes.

Is that true? I was talking with my sister recently and she told me she stopped going to the nail salons because the polish was too hard to take off. She now does her own again Like when she was younger.

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Is that true? I was talking with my sister recently and she told me she stopped going to the nail salons because the polish was too hard to take off. She now does her own again Like when she was younger.

I suspect it depends on whether you are using tradisional polish or gel polish which is more durable but harder to remove.

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