Is it just me?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

once more @MikeBiDude what did you find insulting? and to the moderators: do you want an active forum? if not I am very happy to leave. I expect an answer.

 

You need to not worry so much about an anonymous internet message board.

 

Demanding anything from members or admins is not the smart way to get an answer.

[caliguy]

@caliguy what did you find insulting in my post? I had enough of assholes marking everything I post as insulting for no reason.

"I have been criticised in this forum for saying it. There are not many good looking escorts"

 

I don't think I've interacted with you but you seem to be very open to inviting negativity. That was just a gut reaction since I just can't imagine saying things like that. It just comes off as smug. Sorry if it offended you.

Edited August 8, 2020 by caliguy

[caramelsub]

If someone can’t find an attractive escort in nyc or San Francisco, they won’t find one anywhere else. I can think of several guys in nyc that I would like to hire, but can’t since I don’t live in that area. One should be grateful they don’t live in a boring city like I do with only one page of escorts to choose from.

[The_Impeccable_G]

If someone can’t find an attractive escort in nyc or San Francisco, you won’t find one anywhere else. I can think of several guys in nyc that I would like to hire, but can’t since I don’t live in that area. One should be grateful they don’t live in a boring city like I do with only one page of escorts to choose from.

"I have been criticised in this forum for saying it. There are not many good looking escorts"

 

I don't think I've interacted with you but you seem to be very open to inviting negativity. That was just a gut reaction since I just can't imagine saying things like that. It just comes off as smug. Sorry if it offended you.

Fair enough but I still don't understand why I should not say what I see. Anyway water under the bridge.

[rvwnsd]

once more @MikeBiDude what did you find insulting? and to the moderators: do you want an active forum? if not I am very happy to leave. I expect an answer.

 

You need to not worry so much about an anonymous internet message board.

 

Demanding anything from members or admins is not the smart way to get an answer.

When my dad took me to see Willy Wonka back so many years ago this was my favorite scene:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pqsy7V0wphI:125

[+ keroscenefire]

I don't worry at all, but it is annoying to see the same people marking as insulting everything I write. Admins and whoever makes money out of this forum should worry. This is not the way to grow a forum.

 

The admins really don't make very much money from this site at all. It's mostly sustained through membership donations. And it's not like anybody is censoring your opinion on here. There are just people who are disagreeing with what you are saying. I think open, honest conversations like that are what make a forum stronger.

[+ Lucky]

@The_Impeccable_G I enjoy your posts. You make good contributions. That said,

it seems a stretch to generalize across the country about escort looks though. I do think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Why do you think that is rubbish? It kind of explains why you might find a guy beautiful when I don't, and vice versa.

[HoseMaster]

True. I don't want to name anyone and be a jerk, but there is one guy who started advertising within the past several months and I find his face so unattractive that I'm surprised anyone would hire him. His body and dick look okay in his photos, though, and I know some guys are more interested in that than a handsome face.

 

When I hire someone, the face is usually one of the last things I look at.

• Naturally smooth body (no beards either)? ✅

• Nice V-shaped torso? ✅

• Muscular body? ✅✅✅

• Abs? ✅✅

• 35 or younger? ✅

• Nice dick? ✅

• Handsome face? Not a deal breaker, especially if he’s a nice guy

• Personality? If it’s not good, it will probably be the only time I hire you

 

I remember in high school, I used to work along side a long-haired guy that I found not very attractive. Then one day, he took off his shirt off to reveal a nicely chiseled 17 year old body, with abs no less! I felt a little “chubbing up” down below, and my first thoughts were, “take me into the back room and have your way with me! I don’t care how ugly you were before!”

Edited August 8, 2020 by ffdave

[marylander1940]

If someone can’t find an attractive escort in nyc or San Francisco, they won’t find one anywhere else. I can think of several guys in nyc that I would like to hire, but can’t since I don’t live in that area. One should be grateful they don’t live in a boring city like I do with only one page of escorts to choose from.

 

Thank you! Great post, honest and direct as usual

[Rodrigo Suarez]

Please don't post x-rated pictures

Edited August 8, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[orville]

Hi! I don't know you and you didn't ask me but I can provide some feedback. If you find it offensive I apologize in advance.

what did you find insulting in my post? I had enough of assholes marking everything I post as insulting for no reason.

"Bombing" can happen when you encounter trolls (almost none nowadays thank God) or when your comments have clearly offended other members of this forum. In this case, it's the latest.

It seems you not only pointed out that there are no good-looking escorts in the US, but also that Europe is better but not so much.

Most of us have hired American escorts and some of them are valued members of this forum so you are basically insulting our taste choice and some of our friends / sex partners.

once more, what did you find insulting? and to the moderators: do you want an active forum? if not I am very happy to leave. I expect an answer.

Also, even though I appreciate people with strong opinions (I do have them) and no fear to express them, as I do; it seems that most of your comments come across as harsh, and soaked in negativity, superficiality, and criticism. I can guarantee you that rejection of such kind of comments won't be exclusive to this online forum but any other social space where you make such comments.

why don't you answer my question?

Maybe not addressing another forum member as if they are your children or as if they owed you something might get you some answers? Combativeness and arguments are not encouraged in this forum as we all try to conduct healthy/civilized conversations instead of heated arguments. Not doing so and further attacks could result in the suspension of your user account. I promise you that a change of attitude, making appreciative comments of the things you consider positive, and making polite observations (or just keeping silent) about things you dislike will change your experience. Remember that negativity brings on more negativity.

 

I hope this helped.

Edited August 8, 2020 by orville

[+ DrownedBoy]

The only prejudice I have in picking escorts (aside from the usual - they have to be more attractive than people I can get for free) is that they have no facial hair. Unfortunately, that knocks out at least half of all escorts on RM.

[Luv2play]

Several years ago I leaned toward clean shaven escorts but since the pandemic I grew my own beard and rather like it. I had one in the 70s but it was brown then. Now it’s almost white with a little pepper thrown in. So now I’ve adjusted my sights and hire bearded along with clean shaven. Sometimes together in a threesome. Then I get the best of both worlds!

[buckguy]

People stop dropping by and posting because the same questions get discussed over and over again. You just have to see the titles.

[Milo Farnsworth]

It has been my experience on this board the last several years that *everything* has been talked about at least once. There are not very many new topics when discussing escorts and escorting. I have seen posts going back to 2000. It is inevitable topics will be repeated or rehashed. The only difference are the current roster of escorts and those posting. Just my humble opinion.

[orville]

I have a hard time trying to understand some clients.

 

Statistically, gays make up to 5-10% of the population at most. So by default, we are already a reduced group where to find a sex partner.

Dating is already difficult: ageism, finding a mutual match, time and money invested, ghosting, scarcity of tops, etc.

We all have experienced the inconveniences above on Tinder, Grinder, Scruff, etc. so we move to hire escorts.

Most escorts, despite disparities, are on average better looking than most of us, clients.

 

So, a client who comes with that attitude of "I'm way better than you" or "You're not good enough for me" doesn't make any sense to me.

If you dislike most products in a store, do you stand in the middle of the floor and say "I don't like anything here!" before leaving?

Don't even look anymore, don't even complain or spread negative comments. MOVE ON somewhere else where you can find what you like.

 

I completely agree: If those clients are incapable of finding a man attractive enough or a good f*ck in NYC or SFO, they're probably just Full of it.

Edited August 9, 2020 by orville

[Gymowner]

With the advent of scruff, youtube, twitter, instagram, chaturbate etc I think less and less really hot guys are wanting to get on rentmen and label as escorts...ala... hookers. They are now...get ready...ehem..."social influencers" . Sooo many get hit up left and right for "services" I'm sure it's not even funny. Quite a few probably take the plunge and see clients. More on a part time rather than full time basis.

 

That being said I see many hot guys on rentmen. True, london seems imho to have the largest quantity of guys my type but the u.s. gets alot of the hottest from overseas nowadays. The days of caesar, zeb and the other "greats" is down but theses things do tend to swing like a pendulem.

[Enronnja]

I was saying the same thing about Seattle the other day, but I would take exception to New York. In fact, thats where I plan to visit next summer to get some satisfaction. There are pages upon pages of full packaged handsome fit looking men. But there are also pages of men that I have no desire in either, even some with beautiful bodies.

 

Coronavirus has certainly made things harder on top of the changing landscape of adult entertainment. When you can easily make $100,000 a year doing Only Fans and supplement that with a few regular high end clients who are closer to home, RM is likely a fading, no option platform for many of these guys. I also believe Instagram has become a new avenue for hiring by a certain clientele. Word of mouth is also eliminating the need to go through the rigorous process of building up reputation on RM.

 

Also, the what are considered to be hot guys are becoming selective. They are in a position to pick and choose who they want as their clients. Not just the rich, old, white guy on Park Avenue. They want clients that look them, so, maybe a professional who earns a good income, single, goes to the gym, likely works at Facebook, Apple or Google; maybe even goes to same gym.

 

What we are left with, are basically those who have been in the industry long enough to see no other options, just like doing it or obvious under the influence of something types. I went on Seattle Mintboys and it was an eye opener of how desperate some people are. And its not just here, its across the US. With the economic meltdown, more guys who you would never consider for a second are gonna be escorting, while the ones you truly desire are leaving or more strategic environments.

 

This not the end of escorting, but certainly will breath a new very picky generation of escorts.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Coronavirus has certainly made things harder on top of the changing landscape of adult entertainment. When you can easily make $100,000 a year doing Only Fans and supplement that with a few regular high end clients who are closer to home, RM is likely a fading, no option platform for many of these guys. I also believe Instagram has become a new avenue for hiring by a certain clientele. Word of mouth is also eliminating the need to go through the rigorous process of building up reputation on RM.

 

Can you please explain where you heard this?

[Enronnja]

Can you please explain where you heard this?

A guy I follow on Twitter who is from Venezuela posted his income for the year back in December thanking his fans for their support, it was something like 86,000 in earnings.

[marylander1940]

A guy I follow on Twitter who is from Venezuela posted his income for the year back in December thanking his fans for their support, it was something like 86,000 in earnings.

 

Agreed but not all pornstars can make that much and is also taxable.

 

Austin Wolfe stop escorting because of Onlyfans.com was more fun and money!

Edited August 9, 2020 by marylander1940

[marylander1940]

I have a hard time trying to understand some clients.

 

Statistically, gays make up to 5-10% of the population at most. So by default, we are already a reduced group where to find a sex partner.

Dating is already difficult: ageism, finding a mutual match, time and money invested, ghosting, scarcity of tops, etc.

We all have experienced the inconveniences above on Tinder, Grinder, Scruff, etc. so we move to hire escorts.

Most escorts, despite disparities, are on average better looking than most of us, clients.

 

So, a client who comes with that attitude of "I'm way better than you" or "You're not good enough for me" doesn't make any sense to me.

If you dislike most products in a store, do you stand in the middle of the floor and say "I don't like anything here!" before leaving?

Don't even look anymore, don't even complain or spread negative comments. MOVE ON somewhere else where you can find what you like.

 

I completely agree: If those clients are incapable of finding a man attractive enough or a good f*ck in NYC or SFO, they're probably just Full of it.

 

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[+ BenjaminNicholas]

When you can easily make $100,000 a year doing Only Fans...

 

Making true six-figures on OF is difficult, even tougher in the States where the income is automatically reported to the IRS.

 

Then there's the 20%+ that OF takes from creators off the top. This isn't even factoring in costs for SEO, video editing, time it takes to cultivate subscribers from social media and paying third-party marketing services. The biggest earners on OF do all of this.

 

Everyone thinks they're going to be a hit on these platforms, but rare is the performer who has the combo of looks, skills and smarts to keep people from canceling their sub after a month or two.

[Trick]

Please don't post x-rated pictures

 

What’s the definition of an x-rated picture? This is a serious question

[+ keroscenefire]

What’s the definition of an x-rated picture? This is a serious question

 

Guy has it pretty explicitly (no pun intended) laid out on the Gallery thread:

• No Erections!
  
• No Assholes!
  
• No Penetration!
  
• No Masturbation!
  
• No Simulated Sex!
  
• No Pedophilia!
  
• No Necrophilia!
  
• No Bestiality!
  
• No Xylophilia!