Storm4U

Rates will not go down.

To add to this, our costs, just like yours, are also skyrocketing. We have to operate in nice desireable areas (you probably wouldn’t come see me if I lived in south atlanta) and our rents are increasing 30-40% YOY as well. 
 
to think that we are immune to the factors affecting society just because we are providers is misguided. 
 
that said, I don’t know what will happen to business in the future. We all thought it would go away in the pandemic but the amount of requests I had changed very little. 

A lot of variables go into that equation (traveling to somewhere you've always wanted to go, bringing in others you'd like to meet, do you have a natural rapport with the client or is he high maintenance...) but a good starting place is what you'd make on those days if you weren't to do the trip then adjust up or down based on those other factors.
Kevin Slater

Overnights aren’t for everyone, but some love them intensely. I have clients who literally only book me for overnights. That being said, in addition to the physical component, what you do during overnights is no different than what you do with a lover, boyfriend, partner, companion, i.e. conversation, dine, watch a movie, hold hands, cuddle, jacuzzi together, or whatever it is the client likes to do. 

Overnights aren’t for everyone, but some love them intensely. I have clients who literally only book me for overnights. That being said, in addition to the physical component, what you do during overnights is no different than what you do with a lover, boyfriend, partner, companion, i.e. conversation, dine, watch a movie, hold hands, cuddle, jacuzzi together, or whatever it is the client likes to do. 

Demeaning people for their race is bad whether done in a sexual context or in the real world. It is not a "fetish." It is a sickness.

I've been asked by black guys to do race play scenes.  The first time anybody asked me I gave it some thought because I was curious whether I would find it sexy or not.  After thinking it through, it seemed that you can't unsay those things or disclaim them, even when you don't mean them and you are only accomodating someone's fantasy who is, after all, a willing participant.   But more so, I realized I adore black men, and wouldn't want to demean them even in jest.  I told the guy that I wasn't comfortable with it.     

"kind of problematic" is an understatement
Any fetish based on a) someone's race/ethnicity that involves b) demeaning them is completely dehumanizing them. @NYMassageAddict has a real problem

Yes,  ive had 3, and it’s one of the worst parts of the business.

This is what I wore on Saturday 

I'm not sure if this is petty, but if they have poor grammar, then I'm not dating them.

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That is a good old-fashioned Flake in my opinion. But what I can say with absolute certitude is that when somebody REALLY wants and INTENDS to see you, they will see you and they won’t waste your time with the back and forth that will lead to nowhere, and they wont bother messaging you unless they know they have availability to schedule with you. They will contact you knowing exactly when they can see you. Me personally, I feel like you can always tell when somebody is a flake or non-committal based off of what they say in their first one or two messages and when I sensed that they were a flake, I made myself unavailable for them altogether and Blocked them. Saved me a lot of time!  Problem solved. I think your time and attention are better spent on guys who know what they wanted and know how to make it happen. 

That is a good old-fashioned Flake in my opinion. But what I can say with absolute certitude is that when somebody REALLY wants and INTENDS to see you, they will see you and they won’t waste your time with the back and forth that will lead to nowhere, and they wont bother messaging you unless they know they have availability to schedule with you. They will contact you knowing exactly when they can see you. Me personally, I feel like you can always tell when somebody is a flake or non-committal based off of what they say in their first one or two messages and when I sensed that they were a flake, I made myself unavailable for them altogether and Blocked them. Saved me a lot of time!  Problem solved. I think your time and attention are better spent on guys who know what they wanted and know how to make it happen. 

That is a good old-fashioned Flake in my opinion. But what I can say with absolute certitude is that when somebody REALLY wants and INTENDS to see you, they will see you and they won’t waste your time with the back and forth that will lead to nowhere, and they wont bother messaging you unless they know they have availability to schedule with you. They will contact you knowing exactly when they can see you. Me personally, I feel like you can always tell when somebody is a flake or non-committal based off of what they say in their first one or two messages and when I sensed that they were a flake, I made myself unavailable for them altogether and Blocked them. Saved me a lot of time!  Problem solved. I think your time and attention are better spent on guys who know what they wanted and know how to make it happen. 

Make ground rules….and stick to them. 
“If you’re going to be more than 10 minutes late, I expect a text.
If I haven’t heard from you at the 10 minute mark, I will continue my evening without you."
”If you’re more than 30 minutes late or any reason, consider the meeting cancelled."
The provider is free to accept the appointment with the conditions, or not. 

I'm the opposite, or used to be. An old roommate was insufferably cheerful in the morning; I'd be waking up over coffee, he'd bounce downstairs with a cheery "Good Morning!" and a look that expected the same vivacious response, rather than the grunt I responded with.