Jamie21

I recognise this. I don’t use hookup apps (used to, but I got bored of it). But if I’m having sex outside of my work then I’ll usually bottom. When I’m working it’s mostly me being top. Doing work that is predominantly sex based does have an impact on your sex life. Even to the extent that sometimes if I’ve met up with a friend for fun I’ll be thinking ‘I’d have charged £x for that’, or I’ll decline a meet because I’m seeing a client later and I want to be ready for them. I’m fine with the work but this is one of the drawbacks.

I meant to add…I wouldn’t hire someone like me. Why would I want to hire someone good looking, great in bed, charismatic, great body, intelligent, versatile and massively hung? Definitely not hiring myself 😂😂😂

Oh dear this forum is becoming like twitter. You took my comment, rephrased it; “that’s like saying” and then critiqued your reinterpretation! What I said was have great sex with people you like. Look beyond the label that society gives them (gay, straight etc) and see the person and what attracts you to them. Personally I’ve found that the more I’ve explored the wider my taste has become. It’s like continually trying new things to broaden your mind. In the past I have let societal labels prejudice my opinion of whether I am attracted to someone, so I didn’t do anything with them. Now my mind is more open to different people and I’ve discovered that attraction is way deeper and more complex than I had believed when I was constrained by labels.

You missed the part where I said “with other people you like”. 🙄

Who cares! Just have great sex with other people you like, as many as possible, at the same time. Labels are so limiting.

A very few make huge money, most don’t. Some guys seem to think they’ll be able to retire in a year by just posting a weekly movie of them tossing themselves off in front of a mirror. They soon realise it takes more work than that. Then they lose interest. I have a justforfans. I’m in the top 3% of models on there. I make a reasonable return but I’m not retiring anytime soon! It takes work to build up a subscriber base. I probably spend 2 days a month working on it, and I have a business partner who I pay (from the justforfans revenue) to do the editing and social media uploads etc. He spends a couple of days too. He manages all that admin side and I do the performing and finding guys to collaborate with, and setting up film shoots. It doesn’t displace my massage work but it is a nice income stream to supplement that. I think to make having a fans site at least worthwhile you need to find a niche, film good quality content (good lighting, multiple angles, professional editing) and publish regularly. The problem is that it’s so easy to enter the fans site business that people set up a site thinking they’ll be rich… and now it’s saturated with average content produced by naive models.

I must have got it wrong. My recent elevator pic from a client visit was the view of the hotel atrium from the elevator 😬

Just watch my justforfans 😉. Around 100 full length massage movies. Here ends the desperate attempt at self promotion. https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim

My theory with names here is that nominative determinism works in reverse with providers. In the non provider world Mr Crook is a bit dodgy and Jim Trainer is a personal fitness instructor. However in the provider world Hung Dom XXX Ass Destroyer is a submissive bottom guy with a 3 inch cock and Slut Twink For Use is a 39 year old who thinks he’s bottom because he enjoyed the last time his doctor administered a suppository. Don’t go be the name, look at the description.

Unlikely. I wouldn’t do it. I’ve done training sessions with other masseurs where we share techniques.

I’ve a large penis. I needed support. I found it at LPSG. Now I’m reconciled to having a large one.

Ask yourself…do you really want to meet someone with that large a cock…sorry…that large an ego? I agree with @BenjaminNicholas, these guys are using their superficial attraction as way of monetising their sex life. Avoid.

Ha ha yes that’s not good. I did a 4 hands one time with another masseur who I’d not previously worked with. My style is quite intuitive and I prefer not to work to a strict plan, which is quite difficult when you’re doing a 4 hands and you need to coordinate with the other masseur. This guy I was working with suggested I turn up at his studio (because the client was his client) half hour before the session so we could plan it. I agreed to that although half hour seemed a bit excessive. When I got there he gave me a plan with the whole 90 minute session worked out down to the minute. As in Jamie - left leg 3 minutes etc. He had planned the whole time out in blocks showing who would massage what part and when. Then he showed me his iPad set up in the room so we could see the time. On the iPad he had each section counting down…so I could see I had for example 45 seconds remaining to finish ‘left leg’ before I was due to start right arm for 2 minutes. Thoughtfully he’d allowed 4 minutes for cock work…that was 2 minutes each. I said to him was it necessary to be so prescriptive with the timing and division of work and he looked at me as if I’d asked to suck his boyfriend off while we waited (actually his bf was hot, and was working downstairs). So I just went with the plan… It turned out ok, the client was one of those who doesn’t go ‘off piste’ and starts to suck you after 5 minutes. He just enjoyed receiving and seemed to be happy but I found it exhausting to stick to the plan. I could see the client liked having his feet massaged so I’d normally have spent longer there but since only 1 minute of foot massage was allowed then I had to stop after 1 minute on his left foot because my partner had stopped on the right foot. I did throw in a couple of unscheduled moves just to keep things interesting but it seemed to throw my massage partner off so I wasn’t able to go completely off script. Oh and yes, the client shot his load just before the 4 minutes on cock were up. Not sure what would have happened if the 4 minute deadline had passed and he hadn’t reached climax.

Ah, Good!! thank you for subscribing to it 😘

It depends. If he’s hung, and I’ll be in lots of different positions, or it’s a group session and will take a while then I prepare thoroughly (a few hours before, with a shower attachment and then a bulb douche half an hour before starting). If I know the guy is small or it’s going to go in and stay in then either a quick bulb douche is usually ok or nothing at all. My diet is good so that helps. I wouldn’t worry about it if I was you. Your guy knows his body so if he says he’s ready then I’m sure he is. He could already have prepared or it’s possible the overslept thing is a story and his earlier client has over run slightly….

Hey thank you for the recommendation 🙂.

Having a liking for feet is not uncommon. Mine are size 11 (everything in proportion 😉) and although I really don’t like my feet there’s a few clients who love playing with them. So I’m not surprised by masseurs showing sexy feet pics. It’s always fascinating to me what things get clients going. I’ve tried with some clients all different parts of their body with little reaction but then suck their toe and fireworks go off!

We’re in a long term relationship, it’s fine. My table is very supportive of me.

That’s exactly what I do! Except my portable table is a bit too large and too heavy to properly be described as portable. I like a big table because I mount it during massage but it’s not ideal for carrying. I keep it in my car but the problem with driving in London is the parking. Some hotels don’t have parking on site and street parking is random.

I do outcalls and I have a table. I offer the client the choice, bring my table, or use the bed. A few clients have their own table at home but most of my out calls are to the client’s hotel, so in those cases I take my table or they ask to use the bed. In some London hotels the rooms are small and there’s not always space to set up the table so the bed is the only option. Although a recent client I saw at a top hotel in Knightsbridge had a very large suite so there was plenty of space for dozens of tables!! He chose to go for the bed option which was useful because my table isn’t very portable. The logistics of me getting it around London are challenging especially if I drive. When I replace it I’ll get a more portable one. Massage on the bed is ok but I think you get a better massage if it’s on a table tbh. Bed is ok if you like the massage to have more body contact and it often develops into an escort style session. In my studio for in calls I can either offer the table or do a massage on the floor (on a Futon). I think if you’re serious about doing out calls as a masseur you really do need to have a portable table.

It sounds like a load of bollocks to me 😂.

No that was The Man With The Golden Cock. Or maybe I’ve misremembered that….

So true. Not much massage happens. I did one with another masseur friend who I’m very much into (and he’s into me). We more or less had sex with each other while the client lay there sensing it all going on around above and on him. It wasn’t a massage. He liked it but there’s no way you could call it a 4 hands.

Yes, totally I agree. Sometimes though people don’t get beyond the initial physical look. As in ‘he hasn’t got abs so I’m not interested’ approach. He has everything else but you never saw it because all you see is abs…or the absence of them. Doing sex work I meet lots of guys, of all shapes and sizes. Those with natural confidence, who know and accept themselves are definitely those who are the most attractive. There’s no correlation to physical looks.

I think often those negative reviews, where the client just takes the provider down and it’s not considered or constructive, the review tells you more about the client than the provider.