Jamie21

If I try to post an explicit pic to my profile the system rejects it. Those kind of pics have to go in my private gallery. I think the system must use some kind of AI to review pics because one or two slip through occasionally. It’s fair enough that the explicit pics are only available to subscribers because that proves they’re of legal age to see that kind of content. The site can’t put those pics on open display where children could possibly come across them. It would undermine the legitimacy of the site.

Key to this is that if the guy says he will definitely do something in the session and it’s part of his quoted rate then he should honour that in the session. No good to say you’ll kiss and then decline to do so or only do it for extra cost. That’s poor form. I do think that kissing shouldn’t be an extra cost thing but that’s just my personal preference. I agree with @keroscenefirethat kissing is kind of an essential. But of course for some it’s too intimate and might even be considered too ‘gay’ if someone is exploring their sexuality. If I’m asked will I cum in the clients mouth I’ll say it’s possible but not definite because I can’t be sure to do that (much as I’d like to cum on demand it’s not always possible especially if I’ve seen a few clients). However kissing is something that is possible and I’m always good to do that subject to the client’s oral hygiene. There’s two sides to this issue: if you want to be kissed make sure you brushed and used mouthwash. Similarly if you want to be rimmed make sure you’ve showered. If you want to cum in my mouth make sure you’ve been eating pineapple (well….maybe not that far but please don’t have eaten asparagus thank you)😂

I get a lot of enquiries via twitter DM. It’s quite good for advertising. I’ve two profiles on there which combined have about 40k followers so it has good reach. The trouble is there’s also a lot of misinformation and crazy people on there!

It’s not necessarily the booking length that is relevant. It’s the rate. You could book an hour but if he’s travelling all day to fulfil that hour then his rate will reflect that. Therefore if you’re paying a high price you might aswell book him for a decent length of time. Either way it’s going to cost you his full day rate for an out call. Maybe a better idea is for you to travel to him, make a day out of it, maybe stay overnight in your destination and take in some sightseeing alongside your session with the escort? If you visit him you can also get his in call rate, or have him come to your hotel if you stay overnight.

Yep, far too ugly for movies

What? Not mine??? 😳. (I’ve done a film with Blissbodywork - great guy 👍).

Possibly he knew and trusted the other provider. Also, sometimes if topping a client who might not be great a douching (perhaps it’s a new client or someone experimenting) there’s some er…mess. He might prefer to have a condom on just in case of that, especially if he’s large. Speaking from experience 😂.

It looks grim. Avoid!

Busy with other things! What could it have been? Tea and biscuits? Next time oral 🙂

Yes I agree with this. The occasions I’ve been asked to use a condom to give oral it’s been with guys who are straight and in relationships. They’re so scared of catching anything which is understandable. It’s not great to suck a condom cock but I love their enjoyment of it because often their gf or wife isn’t very good at it or won’t do it. The other thing these guys like is prostate massage and I have small finger condoms for that if they’re concerned about any bare penetration. They don’t get that at home either!

I’m surprised that guys forget to take it yet still do bb. If I wasn’t sure I’d taken it then I definitely wouldn’t do any bb. I just get into a routine of taking it daily, it’s easy. I get 6m supply free on the NHS and a prep check up every 3m. It’s no trouble. A client I saw recently who topped me bb told me afterwards that he wasn’t on prep. I told him I was, and had tested all clear (at a routine test) a few days earlier. He seemed happy to hear this but I said to him the prep is to protect me. He should get on prep if he’s doing more bb sex to protect himself. He didn’t seem to realise this which I found very worrying.

Weren’t listening..!

Yep, and the Crown Jewels, various islands here and there, the Commonwealth. English as the worlds language, time measured from Greenwich…

What??? You mean us Brits 🇬🇧no longer rule the world? No one told us.

This seems to be developing into a ‘mine’s bigger than yours’ discussion 🙂.

I require a deposit to provide my opinion on deposits.

I really struggle to piss with a hard on, and even more so in a social context…if you can call it that. If I’m standing at a urinal and someone stands next to me then I can’t start until he’s gone. As soon as I’m alone…out it comes. I’ve been asked to piss inside by clients a few times and I have to say sorry that's not going to happen unless they can expertly pretend not to be there which kind of defeats the object. It’s strange because I’ve zero inhibitions when it comes to having sex in a social situation. The more people present and the more incongruous the setting the better.

Me too…that’s an exchange I’d have given up on much earlier. Those kind of enquiries almost always are timewasters.

Oh like a party invitation. I guess they managed the ratio of tops to bottoms too. How civilised.

Really?? How did they check on arrival at the island?

There’s a fine, but distinct line between talking about the activities you like and your expectations and sex talk. The former is welcomed the latter is annoying and I close it down quickly. I like clients to share with me some of their preferences (not all…some of the fun is discovery) but sex talk is always indicative of him cancelling before the session. So ask, explain, share your likes etc but keep your underwear on and both hands on your phone when doing it. A good provider will appreciate that.

I don’t travel…I’m always and only available in London and yet I still get messages from guys in random towns in the US asking for an out call…

Sorry to hear the OP’s news. I get all sorts of reasons given for cancelling from the dramatic to the mundane. If it’s a regular well it’s no big deal, I believe them whatever they say because I know them. Even if they cancel for a different reason they gave me it doesn’t matter. All I need to know is they’re cancelling and I’d prefer to know that asap. All you need to say is “hi sorry but I have to cancel”. The only time I’d be glad to hear the reason is if they’re cancelling because they are too nervous to come, maybe it’s their first time or they are anxious about being with a guy or whatever. If that’s the case then I’d rather know than hear some made up excuse because if I know then there’s probably something I can do that will help them get over the anxiety. I can usually tell when someone books if they’re likely to be the anxious kind and often my hunch is correct and the night before their booking they’ll message saying they want to cancel with some illness or work excuse. I’ll reply giving them the opportunity to explain, something like “oh sorry to hear that I hope all ok. Let me know if you’d like to reschedule or if you have any questions or concerns”. That gives them the opening to share more, if they want to. But otherwise who am I to second guess why someone cancels or to disbelieve them? It’s their issue, I just move on. There’s always more clients.

Thank God he didn’t need a number two.

Me too. He contacted you unsolicited. There’s no reason to reply. Just delete his message and forget it. If he continues to leave you on the mailing list just block his number. I personally don’t use the ‘hey want to hire me again?’ approach because I don’t travel so I’m not able to use the I’m in your area excuse. Plus I don’t like the implied neediness in the approach. If they liked me they’ll book again, if not they won’t. It’s their choice. I’m not chasing business.