Jamie21

I’m in London. Visit London.

Thanks @Martin M I’ve got some stories about my experiences on my blog on my website sensualtouchco.com. When I stop doing the work I’m going to write a book.

That’s how I do it with virtually every massage if given the option to do so by my client. I don’t start naked, they start with a towel on. It begins just like a therapeutic only massage. For example if it’s a two hour session (the best duration to do a proper job) the towel is still on him after 30 minutes, I’m still fully in shorts and top, no oil has been applied, no touch has been made to his bum or cock or anywhere near and we’re already 25% of the way through the session…..that might sound like nothing erotic has happened but that’s such a misunderstanding of the situation! There’s all sorts of cues and hints one can do to build the sexual tension 😉. Everything has happened…in his head because I’ve put it there. This, in my view is the best kind of session because I focus my attention on his biggest sex organ, his mind… and there’s so so much one can do there. Most guys might have had what I call a rub and tug style ‘sensual’ massage. It’s an average therapeutic massage with a jerk off. I think the majority of providers advertising do that kind of session. It’s like fast food, briefly satisfying and can serve a purpose. Sometimes clients want just that, a quick massage or even to climax in the first 10 minutes and then relax into a nice therapeutic style massage. I do those kind of ‘happy start’ sessions for a few guys who just can’t wait and can only relax once they’ve cum. However when clients experience a proper sensual massage over 2 hours, where the masseur works their body and their mind…well that’s gourmet and after that they don’t want to go back to fast food.

He doesn’t seem to be getting much sympathy. I think it would be better if he’d survived the shooting but injured…. and had his insurer refuse to pay for his treatment. Our healthcare in UK is rationed. There’s effectively unlimited demand and limited resources. Wait lists ration the treatment and work to reduce demand (people die waiting). If you don’t like to wait for treatment free at the point of use then you can buy treatment outside of the NHS either via insurance or pay directly. All the debate is about how effective the state provision is. In any system, private or state, the government needs to regulate the market. Whether it’s a state market or private market there will be incentives by the actors to use their power against the best interests of the customers. That could be profiteering, cartels, union power abuses. All the kinds of things that governments are supposed to prevent happening through good legislation and governance. This is a failure of government.

The trouble is, clients say they just want a great therapeutic massage, but then they try to make it into a HE style during the session by either pressing their hand into my shorts, caressing my leg, or asking me to remove the towel on them and opening their legs etc…. If you’re not paying sensual massage rates please don’t try and get a sensual or erotic style massage on the cheap…even if it’s a ‘last 5 minutes jerk off’. It’s happened too many times for me to offer that kind of massage so I stopped offering it and now do sensual/erotic only. Clients still get a great massage of course but at least the rate I’m getting reflects the content of the session.

The only info on clients I share (I’m not saying where) is if he’s violent, refuses to pay or is a serial time waster (no shows). I’ll share his number and the name he used. The number of clients I’ve seen is in 4 figures. The number of those who fall into the above category is 2. That’s because I screen them out but also because it’s pretty rare to get a client who is worth reporting. I’m never going to share details of those clients who may be a bit annoying, who are challenging to see, who like unusual things or who share condfidences with me. All of those things are 100% between me and him. I certainly know clients who visit friends of mine who do this work because I’ve referred them to him or he has referred me to them or we’ve both seen the client in a duo session. However I never discuss with my friends what happens in my sessions with the client. We talk ‘shop’ of course but without naming clients. It tends to be on things like hotels we visited, whether it’s busy, where to advertise etc. I think when you do this kind of work you realise that anything that happens between you and the client is specific to that situation. The client could behave differently with another guy. I had a client I could have sworn was 100% bottom but when I did a session for him with another provider the client topped us both. He was like a different guy. That’s why I think references have limited value. If you’re thinking of hiring they give you an idea but the dynamics of the guy you’re hiring and you are only ever going to be particular to the two of you at that time and moment. If one person has a bad experience sometime it doesn’t mean you will.

I have thoughts on this. If you’d like them my charge is $10. Sorry @TallMuscl37 but I couldn’t resist. I mean it kindly.

In any situation the person with the greatest flexibility in thinking is the most likely to succeed. Think about that in the context of the debates above.

I’ve done a collaboration with him. Great guy. It’s available on my justforfans 😉: MassageForHim

I agree, lots of red flags. Also, you could have been his first ever client. I remember I was very nervous when I saw my first client. I was lucky to get someone who I think knew I was inexperienced at the work and so he was patient with me. Also, if he didn’t look like his pics then he’s probably put up pics of someone else. Most of the pics visible could be anyone, and there’s only one private pic. I suspect the guy you saw is someone pretending to be a porn star escort and he’s used at least 1 pic of someone else. No wonder he was nervous!

Sometimes you just can’t. I’ve had it happen and of course the more anxious you get about it the harder it gets (or the softer it gets to be accurate 😂). Also, it’s nothing to do with the attractiveness or otherwise of the client. That’s a common misconception. It’s much more likely to be that he has other things on his mind, he’s seen other clients that day, or the client is doing something that is irritating. Sometimes clients can be quite clumsy and that can mean one struggles to stay hard. I saw a client recently who wanted me to shoot in his mouth (this after fucking him) so that happened..but then about 5 minutes later he wanted me to fuck him again. That simply wasn’t going to happen (plus time was nearly up). In massage sessions it’s not such a problem although if it does happen I can sense the client’s disappointment. But in sessions where the client expects to get fucked it can be a problem! If you’re a client the worst thing you can do is make a big thing of it because then nothing is going to work. Best to hide any disappointment, focus on all the other things that two guys can do together… and what you’re likely to find is before long he’s hard 🙂.

I can be there in 2 hours…

Oh! I think I over sold it 😂…. (but be assured. I don’t eat asparagus). No plans to visit Florida unfortunately.

Mine tastes like Ambrosia and feels like hosts of angels dancing on your tongue as it spreads silkily around your mouth. Just sayin’

Yes that’s what he implied. Before he’d cum he wanted it…as soon as he’d shot and I’d positioned myself to kiss him with a mouthful he changed his mind 😂. I think you’re not alone in that ‘instant switch from 😈 to 😇 mode’. I had to spit it all out.

A recent client shot in my mouth while I was sucking him. Earlier in the session we had been kissing. After he’d shot I asked him if he wanted to kiss me with his cum still in my mouth and on my lips. He declined. It’s my experience that cum swapping/ cum kissing is quite niche. Most clients aren’t really into it. Pity because I like it. I find it extremely hot.

Oh!! Update: I checked with my guy who does all my editing and managing my content…turns out he published them there! So they’re not pirated 😂.

Thank you 🙏

Hmmm, that one is one of mine, so is the second one on the post below. Both seem to have been copied from my justforfans 😕. Not happy about that.

In my bum pic clients can see all the goods in one picture 😂

It’s code. Stands for ‘Let’s Order Nice Drugs”.

My subscribers use credit card to subscribe to my justforfans. I’m not aware of any issues with it.

Yes it is. Some sources are more prone to it than others, especially social media which enables all sorts of people, usually anonymously, to publish their opinions which appear to have equivalent value to those who have objectively validated qualifications and experience. It’s why I stay on X, I like to be reminded of how bad actors try to manipulate populations. You have to keep close to your enemies to understand them. It helps defeat them.

I told the clinic, how am I supposed to make hot porn if I have to use condoms? Not to mention the continuity issues when an unsheathed cock suddenly appears with a condom on when it’s going in and all the waste disposal issues with non biodegradable condoms and wrappers. So they prescribed prep taken daily which means I have to have bare sex every day to make sure the NHS gets value for money.

I mean oral prep. That’s free. This often happens with new drugs: they do a cost / benefit analysis. It’s public money.