Jamie21

Interestingly although this seems a reasonable assumption there are instances where undercover cops have gone a lot further than a French kiss. The example is undercover cops in the UK who were infiltrating militant animal rights groups and other such organisations. In those instances the police infiltrated these groups over many years and even had relationships and children with women in the group. Quite unbelievable the extent to which they went to remain undercover. Of course sex work is legal in the UK (within certain parameters) so there’s no risk of being caught in a sting here in that respect. Buy without worry! But if you’re thinking of getting involved with subversive activities then beware because the cops are clearly very dedicated.

Yes his question hasn’t really been answered much. He’s most welcome to visit me. But I’m in London 🙂. For me the age of the client is immaterial (21 and above) what matters most is their demeanour. I’m no longer a spring chicken so I rather think the client might be more discerning of my age than me of theirs!!

I saw a client recently who was I guess around 65. He told me he specifically chose guys who said they welcomed all ages, or who he inferred from their advertising that that would be the case, which he said was the reason he chose me. He told me some guys have that look of disappointment when they first see him and that kills the mood for him which I found understandable. It’s that first impression that matters for him.

Always anxious about accidents if I bottom for a long time, especially if the position changes regularly. If I'm shooting porn then it’s ok because you can stop and start.

Be comfortable with the top before you think about positions. Once you find a guy you like and trust I agree with @misterhumphriesthat straddling him is best because you’re in control of the depth and angle and pace. Before long you’ll be on your back with your legs over his shoulders and begging for him to go harder🤪. I prefer to top guys like that because I can see their expressions as it goes in and kissing is possible.

I only work with guys I know. If a client asks me to arrange another guy I ask the client if he has a preference as to type and then I sort it all out with the other guy. There’s about 6 or 7 guys I’ve worked with who I know are good and who are professional, respectful and will stick to the brief. If the client wants us to interact together that’s fine, I then select the right guy. Usually though it’s 99% focus on the client. I get the other guys rate, add it to mine and quote the client the combined rate and afterwards the client pays me and I settle with the other guy. It’s simple and easy for the client. That’s what most people want: 2 guys who work well together, will do what the client wants, without drama and with a straightforward way to pay.

23 activities! I feel like some clients would have a clip board and tick each one off as it was completed to ensure they got value: At the end… me “how would you like to pay, it’s £735.23”. Client “oh…I didn’t get the rimming”. Me “ah ok I’ll deduct £40”. Client “and the cum in mouth was a little short on volume”. Me “well you had the breeding so…”. Client “ah…I thought you faked that” Me “ok let’s just say pay what you think it was worth” No, complicated menu options are not something I like to do. The price is agreed before the session and so are the limits. If it goes beyond the pre agreed limits that’s on me.

You do need a bit of response sometimes. I had a client who just lay there like a corpse… I mean you start to think ‘am I doing something wrong? Is he enjoying it? Is there still a pulse?’… That makes it difficult to get hard if you think there’s a problem. I had to really focus (and check his vitals). I asked afterwards “how was it for you?” (obviously using less cliched language) and he said he loved it. Well it certainly didn’t seem that way! Whereas those clients who give encouraging responses are so much easier to get up for.

There’s everything in London.

Check with them that they’re ok to work together. You’ll end up paying them both whatever their rate is for a duo session. Either directly to each of them if you book them separately or through the main guy if you ask him to arrange it. Their rate will be different for a duo session than if you just book one of them on his own.

He seems sure he likes straight men…given it’s mentioned twice. I need a decorator who gives oral but I’m not straight ugh. Where are all the oral giving decorators who are fine with gays?

Ha ha, yes. That’s lust though. King Charles knows what love is now…but he didn’t when he replied to the question about being in love with Diana “yes…whatever ‘in love’ means” in 1981.

Offering paid for services is prohibited on Sniffies under their terms. That doesn’t mean some will try. I’m on it but I don’t use it to find clients and haven’t used it recreationally either yet but if I’m travelling somewhere new and not working then I think it could be useful.

Sniffies Hookup site…

There’s no rules about what should or shouldn’t happen in an overnight or for how long it lasts. It’s whatever gets agreed between you and the client. If that includes sleeping time then why not? Some people like to wake up with a warm body next to them ready to play. Be warned though, I snore and I dribble in my sleep. I don’t charge extra for that……..Oh and I don’t do overnights as it’s too much hassle now unless of course he’s paying lots. Everyone has a price 😂.

Well as I share the studio where I work (in calls) then if there’s someone else using it soon after me then I do need to be strict on time (not so much with out calls). On this occasion the place was free afterwards so I was ok to extend and honestly on hearing his story I just couldn’t rush him. I just wanted to hug him.

I saw a client recently who was visiting London. A lot of my clients are visitors, usually from the US or countries where the cost of living is similar to here. However this guy wasn’t from the usual places. Before we start a session I do a short chat about their reasons for booking, any preferences, no go areas, injuries etc. Often it’s just a couple of minutes and all is straightforward. However this client shared with me some of his motivations and reasons for booking which were more in depth than usual. I won’t say what it was because it’s private and not so relevant to this thread (although it was very relevant to the session). By the time we’d talked (and he really wanted to share this with me so I didn’t try to curtail the chat) we were well into the hour and he wasn’t even naked! In the circumstances I decided to extend the session so he got the full hour of activity although I didn’t tell him, I just decided not to rush him to finish on the hour. Afterwards he shared with me that he’d thought long and hard about booking with me because in his home country the cost of my session is the same as what he’d spend on a month of groceries. (Note that when he booked he’d never tried to negotiate). However he said he’d decided to go ahead and treat himself and he was really glad he had because it was worth it. These kind of meetings are really where I get a lot of satisfaction in the work, and it’s a reminder that hiring isn’t exclusively done by those with plenty of disposable income.

Yes it’s more tax efficient to lease…

They do hire. Because they can. They buy everything with money: goods, companionship, knowledge, sex….in their world everything is a commodity that can be purchased. If they got it for free then they’d think there’s something wrong with it.

I agree with @soloyo215, why pay the deposit before all the details are agreed? I guess that because he advertises as offering the activities you wanted you probably assumed he’d be willing to do them, which seems reasonable. My guess is he’s willing to include those activities but selectively depending on the client. If that’s the case then you probably saved yourself a bad meet. The money sounds like it’s gone.

Very sad. He was unique.

Must admit I like it a lot when clients book me after having watched my content. If they are over the top gushing then yes there is a slight sense of “is he for real?” but I’ve never had a sense of there being a safety risk. If they say about how they like my work and are excited to book a session then actually that’s quite a big turn on, and I’m motivated to ensure they have a great time.

I have filmed with him. Lovely guy, intelligent, friendly and fun.

It’s £40 per month for me to advertise. Happy to advertise there if I get the first 6m free so I can see whether it generates business. I’m well connected in the industry so would make recommendations to others if it is a good site. @pvd901Contact me if you’re interested.

This one. It provides enough information for a response and then you can progress to more detailed discussion once you have a positive response from him. I always find the difficult enquiries are those where I get a long explanation straight off…it’s nice to know the client’s motivations but I don’t need a life story or a detailed breakdown of what kind of activities he likes and why. Or the other end of the scale…the “hi” or the “hi interested to hear more about your services” are the most difficult openers. It’s far too vague. I appreciate maybe they want to initiate the discussion somehow but I can’t really type a long answer to every enquiry like that so I say ‘have a look at my website and ask anything if you can’t find the answer there’. “Hi” usually just gets responded to with “hi”. What else can I say? So I think @APPLE1has got it nicely phrased and succinct. Once you have a decent reply to that opening then you can ask about rates and any questions that his advertising didn’t answer or was vague about. You’re right that a good provider should lead the conversation but only to the extent that you help him by being clear and succinct. He won’t be bothered to tease it out of you.