Jamie21

No!

I’d expect fresh flowers, somewhere to hang my clothes, some candles for atmosphere, music playing (something classical, I find Mahler or Debussy quite good for massage), Egyptian cotton sheets on the bed of course (not too high a thread count…I’ll judge you on that) and a phone charger should my phone be running low. Payment should be done discreetly afterwards (I find it awkward to ask so please offer it as I dress, in cash). Seriously though….all I look for with an out call is a clean and tidy room, space for my table (if I’ve bought it), no distractions and the possibility to shower afterwards. It sounds like you have all that and more covered!

If it’s an out call to his hotel I’m very happy to include a shower or bath together. It’s a great way to begin or end a session.

My tactics: visual inspection of clients, care about the kind of clients I take on (no last minute late night requests for ‘half hour’ sessions…that kind of thing), doxy prep occasionally, fastidious about regular check ups, vaccination (hep c, monkey pox), prep daily (obviously), mouthwash and pee afterwards, douche after bottoming (if practical), no drugs, no alcohol , no poppers (not for me anyway, clients can). But at the end of the day there’s risks with everything, I’m not going to be silly but I’m also not a monk…(happy to dress up as one and role play it though if that’s any client’s thing 😂).

This is an important topic and one which deserves serious consideration.Thanks for raising it! I guess I’m having a lot more sex with different guys than someone who doesn’t do sex work so one might assume that I’d catch things. Especially because the majority of the sex I have is condom less. Most people I see don’t want to use a condom for sex and certainly in the porn I do it’s never with a condom. I think what people see on porn is what they like or want to do in sessions so that ‘no condom’ thing transfers over. Those clients that might want to use a condom because of concerns about STD’s tend to go for action that doesn’t include penetration (oral obviously doesn’t count as penetration!). However, in the years I’ve been doing sex work I can’t think of any occasions when I’ve caught something from a client, and two occasions when I’ve caught something from another porn performer. It’s actually quite rare and in my check ups (every 3m) I’m clear. I think the chances of catching something are far higher when attending sex parties or sex clubs / saunas. The reason? People who do sex work are fastidious about sexual health check ups because if they catch something then they’re unable to work for 2 weeks. Guys that go to these parties and clubs are less careful and get tested less frequently. So whatI think is that if you see a professional then it’s probably a lot safer than if you see someone off a hookup app or at a sauna or club.

Run a mile. But next time you book, give him a time. Vague clients are problematic. I get messages like “Hi, are you available for massage?” Well…yes I am because that’s what I do but when?? Now?, later?, tomorrow?, next week?… Just be clear about when you want. If I can’t do it I’ll come back with an alternative.

No, he doesn’t get filmed

Yes, that’s me.

I’ve been filmed by him performing in his movies many times! And I do 4 hands for clients with him. Fabulous masseur.

I think that’s great. I go further with regular clients than I would if he’s a new client. Firstly with a new client you don’t really know yet what he’s comfortable with, and secondly I think for it to feel right one needs to know that the client is the respectful type. It’s also rewarding for regular clients. If he’s been a few times I know he likes my massage and my company and so that naturally leads to a better connection and then to a better intimacy during the ‘extra’ elements of the massage.

For me it’s also about pleasing the client. He really got off on me riding him and so that got me going too. He liked the visuals of it and of course that he could just lay back and enjoy himself 😂.

He’s being respectful of you. Thats to be valued. As a masseur I really appreciate the clients who aren’t demanding I fuck them or whatever. I suggest you take it slowly with him and if you’d like him fully naked for example then perhaps run your hand up his torso under his top when his shorts come down. He’ll get the hint and either remove his top, or your hand….

Hey thanks! Glad you liked it. 🙂

Fabulous! I played the active bottom role with a client today. I like that role.

Thank you! There’s a full version and many more on my justforfans 😉

I’ve performed in loads of massage movies but this one is one of my favourites. https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph62e0eaecf3ba8#1

It’s definitely part of my massage repertoire should the client want it. Of course I check the area (discreetly) beforehand and ask the client to shower first. I do think that the giver should really enjoy doing it for it to feel good. It’s fortunate that I love rimming, I love the reaction it gets and the eroticism of it. I’ll leave it to clients to decide whether or not my rimming is any good! They’re best placed to provide a critique.

Well why wouldn’t you..

Correct. I should have been clearer. It’s the unaccompanied “hi” or “hey”, then nothing. What’s even more strange is that if I do reply with “hello” often nothing then comes back. It’s as if they’re testing to see if your number is genuine.

I find to focus on your breathing as he enters you is advisable. He should enter slowly to allow your muscles to relax while you breathe deeply. Usually when I top anxious clients I say to them to breathe deep and long as I go in. Once it’s in, and they relax then it’s possible to begin a rhythm. If I’m bottoming I prefer to start in cowboy, because I can control the pace and angle it goes in, especially if he’s big. I think if you’re practicing to bottom with a dildo it’s like practicing to ride a bike by using a gym cycle. You need to get on a cock and practice. Use a top who will let you go at your pace and try different things. After you have practiced you’ll probably be fine. Then you can enjoy the pleasure of bottoming in all sorts of ways.

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session.

Here’s my take as a masseur. I get a lot of enquiries that go nowhere (although I do respond to all enquiries!). Many potential clients appear to be just browsing and from experience I get to know the likelihood of a booking from the tone and content of their first message. If they open with “hi” or “hey” it’s 99% certain they’ll never book. 100% certain if they open the conversation with a dick pic (in fact I lied, I don’t reply to dick pics, or ass pics etc). So if you’re getting lots of messages from clients, and perhaps you’re treating this work in a slightly casual way (as many do) and you have an Onlyfans that makes plenty in a passive income way (as many do) then how motivated are you to reply to someone who’s unlikely to turn into a client? Especially if he’s asking very open ended questions. I find it difficult to answer a question like “can you tell me about your service?” without writing a long response including the style, content, rates, availability, experience level, location etc. Often all of that is on my profile somewhere or on my website, which the enquirer may or may not have seen. In those open ended questions I usually just refer the client to my website if they have questions, which might come across as dismissive but all the info is there! The best way to maximise chances of a reply is to approach professional looking guys (don’t be taken in by thirst trap pics), look at the spelling and grammar on his profile, look at how long he’s been around, consider the reviews, look at the quality of the pics more than the content. Then ask direct questions: Hello, I saw you in RentMasseur (or wherever ) I’d like to book for x time on y day, please let me know your availability. If he responds then you can ask other questions.

Then there’s the power top, power bottom, and all sorts of other things!

I notice that because I’m large a lot of clients want me to top. The same applies when making films, I usually top. So generally in my professional sex (that’s what I call work sex) I’m a top. But for recreational sex I usually like to bottom. Perhaps it’s because it’s different. Overall to me though it doesn’t matter, I like both roles (even at the same time 😈). It’s just that sometimes it’s simply more practical to top, or even to do everything else but penetrate. One of the roles not listed in the OP’s survey was ‘side’ but I find quite a lot of clients would describe themselves as just that. Nothing internal but lots of cuddling, body contact, frontage, hand jobs and kissing etc. That can be a fantastic session without the ‘pressure’ to penetrate anything.

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