Jamie21

Yes exactly. It may seem polite to start like that but it’s really irksome when you get lots of those type of “hey how are you” chats. What I like is “hello I’d like to book an hour (or whatever) at x time on y date in call”. It’s simple, has all the info I need to reply and it shows they’re serious because they’ve done some research (as in they know my location, service, rates etc all of which can be easily found with a couple of clicks). Once I’ve sent back details then any further questions can be responded to. Clients that ask lots of questions, and especially those that open with “what’s your rate?” usually means they’re not that invested in meeting.

Well yes that’s true. It’s a great job. I love it.

At sex parties I’ve been in large groups where guys tend to drop in and out of the action. There might be a dozen or so in the bedroom in 2 or 3 groups and others will join or leave depending on what’s going on and the vibe over the party duration. People tend to spend time in a room where food and drink is where they chat, a bit of action goes on around the fringes but then in the bedroom(s) people have sex. You flit between the two or more locations as you wish. I think the largest group I was in is about 6 or 7 once it gets that size it tends to split into smaller groups. The largest party was around 100 guys but of course not everyone had sex. Some people stand around watching, chatting, drinking etc. And then some are ass up on the bed accept all comers lol.

Oh yes the smell isn’t good! That’s probably worse thing lol.

Not grating no. I don’t think that’s how I’ve felt when it’s happened. I felt awkward because sometimes you have to tell him it’s dirty and that’s kind of difficult. I remember one time I pulled out and it was a bit dirty so I wiped his bum as discreetly as I could but he said ‘oh is it ok?’ and I had to say ‘no it’s a little bit messy’ and he then wanted to shower and douche some more. That usually doesn’t work because you need to douche and then let things settle down before trying anything again. Other times I’ve felt sorry for the guy, because he’s usually embarrassed by it. The session often ends at that point because he doesn’t want to continue but I don’t mind if he wants to clean up and carry on doing things other than penetration.

Clean up, tell him it’s all ok and carry on in whatever way he wishes. In my experience if it happens it’s the bottom who feels bad and then prefers to play in other ways (if atall) thereafter. It’s something that happens sometimes and you shouldn’t make a big deal of it. Even if he’s experienced at douching things can go wrong.

I have a particular sideline as an Italian plumber and I frequent video arcades touting for clients who have a fetish for having their plumbing sorted out. Sometimes my step brother (😏) Luigi joins me.

Sometimes people don’t want their face and dick in the same pic. Could be that.

Yes but I don’t bottom for ages. I‘m just not that into long bottom sessions. I’m always hoping he cums after a shortish time!

He decides his rate, ask him. Then you decide whether or not you want to pay it. Don’t negotiate.

What!!! Not mine 😢. That twink is hot though 😉

You probably needed to be a little more clear with him about your expectations. Whilst I’d always recommend not being too choreographed about things I’d say that he’s not a mind reader so you need to give some hints. For the longer sessions I do I like to know what he’s looking for, is it chat? Is it cuddling, is it doing something sexually that he wants to try? Is it a bit of all of them? In my experience clients are often looking for things beyond the obvious, so if they don’t make their needs clear (most won’t) then you either need to ask them questions to discover it, or experiment. He should have been a bit more inquiring of you perhaps given that he knew you were inexperienced at hiring.

Probably not necessary since he was by the sounds of it a very willing and active participant so it’s as much his fault as yours. Also the equipment is his responsibility, if he’s going to encourage vigorous action then he should be prepared with suitably robust facilities! I’ve experienced equipment problems a few times. Once was at a sex party (I wasn’t there in any professional capacity) and the bed broke because there were too many people on it. It was some rubbish bed from Ikea. Everyone just carried on regardless, as one would expect. It appeared that some didn’t even notice… Another time I was an assistant at a sensual massage event (think 12 tables, 12 volunteers on the tables, 24 trainees and the teacher plus the assistant- me). The teacher demonstrates a not especially vigorous move on one of the volunteers and the massage table under her collapses. Fortunately no one was hurt and it certainly broke the ice. Another time I was doing a 4 hands at my studio. I have an electrically powered adjustable table. The head end can be moved up or down (as can the whole table) through a foot pedal. This time I was kneeling on the head end because the client wanted to suck me as I sucked him (69 position). The 4 hands partner was behind me also kneeling on the head end. Let’s not worry about what he was doing…I sensed that something was wrong when the client said “I’m slipping off”. (I’m sure he managed to say it with his mouth full too). I got off and saw that the head end was bent downward so that the client’s waist was well above his head. We thought the table hydraulics had broken, but fortunately it was ok. That would have been expensive…but my cost. Lesson learned not to overload the adjustable end of the table.

I’m happy to bounce around next to someone soaking. It will be my normal rate because technically they’re not having sex, I am. Plus I’m doing all the work.

Yes this is it. There’s considerable overlap between what masseurs will include and what escorts will include. It’s a blurred line. If I, who advertises as a masseur, suddenly find a client’s cock in my mouth an alarm doesn’t go off and the escort police burst in to redefine the session and me as an escort or insist that I haven’t done sufficient effleurage on his back to be called a masseur. Everyone is free to define themselves and their service how they want to because the work isn’t regulated or codified. Clients should check with their escort or masseur if they have specific requirements. I’ve had all sorts of requests! Some are ‘yes of course’ and some are ‘that’s not my thing sorry’. I’m glad to be asked. No judgement.

I’ve no problem sending my pics to clients if they ask. I’ve got pics on my website and where I advertise plus I can send them links to lots of videos of me on the web if they want to see. I figure that the better they know who they’re coming to meet the better the session will be. It’s pointless me seeing someone who isn’t comfortable and a waste of money for them. I don’t need or request pics from the client.

I’m an ‘it depends’ person. I love the reaction of guys to being rimmed so I enjoy doing it. I’ll rim someone who I know has showered, and once I’ve had a look but I’ll not do it after something has been in their hole, unless I’m filming and it’s with someone who I know has prepared properly. Then I’m fine with it including ass to mouth when you suck a guys cock after it’s come out of someone’s (or your own) ass.

Good question. I have a few preferred playlists when seeing clients. Usually Cigarettes After Sex or a classical playlist including Mahler and Albinoni. I’m not keen on that random ‘spa music’ that tends to get played. Music sets the mood, pace and atmosphere for the session. I find I can time things to it too. Occasionally clients comment on the playlist, or express a preference for next time. I once accidentally played Tchaikovsky’s 1812 overture which wasn’t really suitable to a relaxing massage but was ideal to get his climax to coincide with the cannons 🙂.

Come to London. It’s part of my massage if you want that.

That guy got me too. Ion Davidov …something about him, I can’t say what it is but he makes me melt. He could do anything to me 😂.

#7 yes could be, or language issues (I try to allow for that, not everyone speaks the King’s English 🙂). The opposite is the ones that open with ‘fuck?’ or ‘full service?’. I’m thinking could you not say “hello do you fuck please?”😂. But “hey” or something similarly diffident does usually imply that they’re not serious. It’s a red flag for me (as are the blunt examples I gave too). I’ll engage and see if their approach changes but if it remains casual then they’re almost certain not to book or be flaky. #10 yes they could have got the urge! But that’s exactly what I see as a red flag. It’s an ‘are you available now’ thing. On the few occasions I’ve done those clients there’s been problems. Sometimes they’re drunk or high. So now I decline anything in the next 2 hours, just not worth it. Yesterday I had a client book in the morning for same day (like at 9am for a 1:30pm appointment) and it was great. I don’t count that as being an impulse and I had availability so he was booked, no problem. So these are my red flags, after seeing many clients (4 figures). Others may have different depending on their model or aptitude for hassle!

This. I totally agree.

I agree it’s a legitimate transaction. Some clients like the money part to be minimised and almost a separate thing so that the meeting feels less transactional. I’m fine with that. These guys tend to just hand me an envelope at the beginning or they leave it visible on the side. I never count the money while the client is in the room unless he asks me to. Once he’s left I count it and only a couple of times has it been short. I have a clients leave their shoes outside the door (they’re in a safe vestibule). This enables me to count it once they’ve left in the safe knowledge that should it be short I can open the door and find them still putting on their shoes 🙂. It’s the little things that make the difference isn’t it…

It looks ok, but definitely not natural. He seems happy with it, which is all that matters. It certainly works nicely 🙂

I’m not usually a bottom but the first few inches are the most difficult, after that it really doesn’t matter…then we’re just talking how long it takes. I find girth to be more of an issue than length. I have a client who has had his cock filled. It’s so fat I can’t get my hand around it. I’m really pleased he’s not asked to top me.