Jamie21

I think it’s that with massage I use my body weight to generate pressure, and whilst I use fingers some of the time I also mix in use of heel of hand, forearms, elbows etc so it’s not all hand work whereas with tickling it’s just all hand work, or it felt that way. My hands got tired. Also I think it was mentally tiring because it’s not something I normally do so I was thinking a lot. When I do sensual massage I do it ‘in the zone’; I’m hardly thinking…just feeling and sensing if that makes sense. I get into a flow. So for me giving massage is relaxing I find it meditative whereas doing the tickle massage was hard work both physically and mentally. I think other masseurs would say similar, hence they’d charge more.

I did a tickling session for a client one time. He wanted a tickle massage. Tickle massage isn’t in my repertoire although I offer tailored massages to suit clients requirements (if it’s something I’m reasonably comfortable to include in a massage setting….think undressing rituals, restraints, toys, wrestling kit / clothing etc). So this client asked if I could tickle him during the massage. He didn’t want to tickle back, which I was grateful for. I like interaction but am not keen on being tickled. It all sounded quite interesting and so I agreed. The client booked an hour and everything was set up. On the day he turns up and is charming, sexy and excited. He strips, I’m in my shorts, and I start in by doing some breathing and head massage to relax him. After about a minute of head massage he asks me to start the tickling. This is kind of a little sooner than I had anticipated but fine, it’s his massage so I tickle his neck. He loves it. I apply oil and do some massage strokes but he wants more tickling. So I tickle him some more, in the usual tickle places. He responds enthusiastically. After some time ticking because my hands are beginning to tire I revert to normal massage but once I’d done a few long massage strokes he asks for more tickling. Now I’m running out of tickle moves. I’ve tickled all the normal tickle parts and I’m not sure if body parts like calves or biceps are ticklish so I just start to go off piste and tickle anything. I discovered that on this client everything was ticklish except for one part….his cock, which didn’t respond at all. Expecting he’d want to get off I started to work on his cock in the more ‘traditional’ way but he just asked me to go back to the ticklish bits. Honestly I’ve never worked so hard…. Tickling someone for an hour is exhausting, and without even the prize of a load at the end (he didn’t want a release). He told me he loved the session but I must admit I found it challenging. If asked again for a tickle massage I’d have to say I can do it for about 10 minutes and mix it in to a sensual massage but I’d not do tickle only. I salute anyone who could deliver that! I think you might find a guy willing to do it but they’d probably charge more than their normal rate.

I once met a client at the Park Plaza Westminster Bridge. I turned up nice and early and texted him to say I was in the lobby (necessary because the lifts required the room key). He texted to say that he too was waiting in the lobby….where was I? I gave a detailed description. He then messaged to say he definitely couldn’t see me. Was I in the correct hotel because there’s a Park Plaza over the road….called Park Plaza County Hall and he that’s where I should be. Turned out that I was indeed in the Park Plaza Westminster Bridge…which is a different hotel. So I had to go to the other hotel. Pity because the first hotel looked nice.

Or visit London 🤪 Masseurfinder isn’t good in my opinion but that might be because they refused my profile. They seem to be quite difficult about anything remotely sexual in the advertising.

I’m on Jock2go but I don’t get much business from it. Stick to the Rent… sites. Those seem to get most traffic. You’ll need to ask for rates. I’m surprised you’re coming up empty on Rentmen. Maybe it’s the location you’re in? Or are you looking for niche requirements?

Still works for me. One of my massage videos on there is still available to view 😉 https://xhamster.com/videos/another-four-handed-massage-session-xhil4oR

I don’t think anyone would mind. As a masseur I don’t care if I’m hired because someone let you down last minute. If I’m available (and that’s the challenge…last minute bookings can rarely be accommodated because I’m usually busy) then I’m happy to accept.

Yes it’s regulated by the Porn Executive, Network Indexation Standards committee. All performers have to register their member to be measured annually. They give you a Designated Index Classification Key which is the official description of size that can be used in a porn film or when advertising your services: 7 inches is officially designated as ‘hung’, 8 is “massive” and 9 is “ass destroyer”. 10 or over is “take it out it hurts…oh no wait …ooohh yes, ram it in …fuck me senseless…..”. If you see a porn film or escort / masseur where the description is anything other than the above then you know his dick hasn’t been officially classified and it could be a 6 incher pretending to be bigger.

Whereas ExBFE is disastrous company and amazing sex.

I’ve been in the middle of a massage with a client at a hotel when the fire alarm went off. We ignored it at first because we thought it was a false alarm or a test and because it was at a critical point in the massage if that makes sense! However the alarm continued so I stopped and went to check what was happening. I opened the room door slightly (couldn’t open it fully because I was naked) and saw people leaving. Then a member of staff passed by and said to evacuate immediately because it wasn’t a drill. We had to get dressed quickly, and leave for the muster point. I couldn’t find my underwear so I just put my shorts on and a T shirt. Client wore the fluffy towel robe that was to hand in the room, with nothing underneath. We waited outside for about 5 minutes before they decided it was a false alarm and we could go back in. Quite annoying because had the alarm gone off 5 minutes later I’m sure I’d have finished the client off, as it was the interruption killed the vibe so I had to virtually start again with him.

Was thinking more Achilles and Patroclus tbh…

Insights about what clients like or look for can be helpful but that’s not why I’m here. I just find the posts amusing and interesting on the whole. I think the discourse and courtesy is better here than other forums or places like Twitter (which I avoid any interaction on…I just post porn on there 😂). I’ve picked up a little business from it, which is welcome, but the main point of it for me is amusement at the stories and at the misapprehension of some commentators about how the business works.

And that you are erudite. All we need now is a classics reference to @Coolwave35’s story.

I’m always in London. Always. I never visit other cities (for work at least). There’s no need…London has enough clients to keep me busy. My website says I’m in London, my RentMasseur says I’m in London, my other adverts say I’m in London yet….I still get clients saying “can I book an hour this evening, I’m on 21st and 3rd downtown” or whatever (sorry I’m not good on generic US addresses!). Somehow they think I’m in their town. When I realise they’re not local to me I tell them I’m in London and they seem surprised! To be fair I do think that sometimes my number has been picked up by a website that ‘collects’ sex worker numbers to make it look like a lot of people advertise on there. It could be that but my number is clearly a UK number so I still find it funny they think I’m round the corner… I’m sure that when people see someone they like then they just forget to check whether they’re local.

I participate! But I do understand the point made by @DynamicUno. There’s an element of risk that potential clients might be put off by comments or views expressed here. I’m of the opinion however that if I’m being true to myself with opinions on here then anyone who is put off by that is probably a client I don’t want to see anyway because the dynamic wouldn’t work. Everyone wins that way because I don’t want to see clients who expect something different to what I do nor do I want clients to be disappointed. I want them to love it and come back.

It’s the price to pay for the gift. There’s always one guy who somehow makes you throw all reason and rationality to the winds. With me it’s a guy I first met when I started making porn films. We were not intended to film together. I was scheduled to film with a different guy. I’d turned up a little early and was waiting for my turn. The guy running the session was talking to me about his bad back (this was a massage porn film, we’d been discussing massage techniques) and in walks one of the models for what it turns out was an earlier session (but he was over an hour late). I looked around just as he walked in. In that moment he looked at me and smiled. As he walked across the room we kept eye contact. I knew in that instant we had to film together (and evidently so did he because he told me so afterwards). Fortunately the director noticed and changed the pairing so that we’d be together. He’s chaotic, has used drugs (not now fortunately) and is totally unsuitable for any sort of relationship. The actual sex is decent but I’ve had better, but the fun with him, all the build up to sex is amazing. There’s something about him that gets me every time. I don’t hire him (he’s stopped sex work) but I have worked with him (seeing clients and doing films / shows) and we come across each other from time to time. Every time we meet something happens that I’d not do normally. We know we are totally unsuited to each other but as soon as we kiss it’s like starting a chemical reaction.

It’s life. If the wrapping is so perfect, and he knows it, he doesn’t need to try once you’re looking to go beyond admiring his appearance. I bet there’s many like you who fall for his charms. I’ve done similar. You keep looking because surely there must be something substantial behind such beauty? But you find theres’s nothing inside, it is indeed all superficial.

I see what you are saying @robear. Whilst you appear responsible unfortunately many aren’t and they’ll download all the content and upload it to free sites. Some of the films on my justforfans are available for followers to purchase by downloading them. Most of them are viewable online through the subscription. It’s my income, it costs me to make the films (I have bought cameras and lighting equipment, I pay for editing, for locations and subscriptions to sites to promote the films. Plus there’s my time. If there’s no way of me monetising the films, at least to cover the costs and my time I simply wouldn’t do it.

I don’t hire other providers but I do arrange sessions with them if they’re up for that because I like to share ideas and talk with them about the work. It’s networking really. It provides an opportunity to talk with someone who understands sex work from a similar perspective. I find that only those who have done the job can really understand it. If the other guy has an Onlyfans or similar then the meet is also a collaboration and we film it for content.

I did a collab with him recently for my justforfans. He’s a great guy, totally professional. Great body, and really friendly.

I have an Onlyfans (and a Justforfans) and you’re correct that when you do a collab with a model you don’t pay them: it’s a mutual deal whereby you both get content you can monetise on your Onlyfans page. There’s an interesting dynamic though in that the ‘big names’ on the fans sites tend to collaborate with other models in their league in terms of followers and profile. You contact guys to collab with and if they think you don’t have enough followers they won’t collab with you because they won’t get enough exposure. You have to slowly work your way up the hierarchy by performing with models who are in your league or just above to build your presence. Luckily when I started I already had a couple of friends in who had a decent profile in the porn industry so I collaborated with them. Basically on the fans sites you fuck your way to the top (or bottom depending on your perspective). It’s very like real life 😂.

$499 is reasonable though. (just to keep this going…)

Or you lost out to someone who was more proficient at blowing. Always important to practice those skills, and swallow of course.

I once turned up to a client (hotel out call) a whole hour early by mistake. I think I’ve written about it on here previously. It was a duo session with another guy. Client wanted the other guy first and then me to join them after a couple of hours to ‘add some variety part way through the session’. All was agreed (I knew the other guy I was working with) and times arranged etc. I confirmed it back to them but somehow I still knocked on the door of the room a whole hour ahead of my scheduled time. The thing is I really struggle with time. It’s definitely a conscious effort for me to keep track of it and be on time. I couldn’t read a traditional hands clock until I was much older than my classmates. I still find it difficult to measure how long things will take. Anyway the client was fine about me being early, he found it funny (told me it wasn’t the first time he’d had a hire cum prematurely!). He still asked me to wait in the hotel lobby though until my scheduled time…

Huw Edwards did nothing illegal, the police have said they are not interested. Maybe he was unwise but who hasn’t been unwise? I don’t think it is any business of anyone else’s what he does with his money and in his non work time. He’s not a politician he’s a journalist so there isn’t really any public interest in it. As long as he’s doing nothing against the law then he can do what he likes. Including paying silly money for pictures of an adult. I’ll sell him some of mine at those rates 🙂. Unfortunately for him the desire of some parts of the media industry to destroy the BBC has driven them to publish something that is not worthy of the attention it is seemingly getting. I bet plenty of those high profile people who are lining up to criticise him secretly think ‘there but for the grace of God go I”…. I’m not surprised he’s suffering mental health issues because it must be stressful for him being the centre of this circus. I hope he gets good help and can come back to do what he’s good at.