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I've thankfully never had an issue.  I do typically stalk them on RM for a long time to see that they've been around, if they have a twitter I look at that, which leads to IG, Tik Tok etc.  I think I can get an idea if they seem "normal" or not.  I typically hire athletic Latinos.  So if it's a bunch of photos of them on the beach with friends, family, hanging at the gym etc.  Plus if they have been reviewed here, even if it's not a great review I'm cool.  Good Lord, I'm the Magnum PI of this hobby lol. 

Thanks for a wonderful post that has inspired this lazy ass to get off his butt and back to the gym! I agree with others who have suggested focusing on balance as well as swimming. 

Thanks for a wonderful post that has inspired this lazy ass to get off his butt and back to the gym! I agree with others who have suggested focusing on balance as well as swimming. 

Thanks for a wonderful post that has inspired this lazy ass to get off his butt and back to the gym! I agree with others who have suggested focusing on balance as well as swimming. 

or even leave the house ever?

This is a great site to vet escorts on. I would never see an escort unless guys on this site with longevity as members vouch for them. This is not just to make sure you’re not walking into a trap, but even more so, to make sure that the escort is trustworthy and a fit for your wants.

I turned to Wikipedia to read about Pope Leo XIII and learned he was a remarkable pope at the closing decades of the 19th century.  He did a lot to modernize the CC as Europe was being transformed by social and political upheaval. 
Today we have similar upheavals so the choice of the name Leo by Robert Prévost may signal he also intends to play an active role in heading the Catholic Church. We shall see. 

It sounds like it possibly. There's really no harm in too much lube so remind your top to apply more lube often and see how that goes. 

It depends.  While size is not my sole criteria for who I hire, I am a bottom who is up for a challenge.  So, I do seek out well hung tops.  Who they were may be the subject of another topic.
I have been with some well hung guys and not been sore.  While with others, including smaller, I have been sore.  It may have to do with the lub and the top's skills.

I think all he is doing is collecting deposits.

He identifies himself as Ford...I would say "Bentley."  😛

A lot of hotels nowadays, you don't have to actually check out. Some chains will allow you to do it via the hotel's app. While others you literally don't have to physically check out the next day.
For the app check out, you could be at home to do it the next day.
Honestly, I don't think checking out is a requirement any more. Well at least for chain hotels.

I think it's very fair to say that as a provider,  my "sexpectations"  have been exceeded by reality.    I rarely have letdowns and what I have learned and experienced is far greater than what I would have expected.   No complaints.      Sure,  you can have a disappointment with a client, but use that to learn.

I appreciate this thread so much. I’m extremely nice and I consider myself very fortunate and remember how difficult life was when I was younger and was just trying to make it through the day without a catastrophe.
Because of this I have sent deposits to some providers and have almost always ended up being disappointed and left hanging. That said I have had a few who I actually know who not only made good but also made it a point to give me the best possible service and even a freebie for looking out when they needed it.
of course I’ve also encountered many a scammer/ trap artist and I have learned how to recognize them and block immediately. Some are really quite genius especially the ones in jail or in Africa.
 The way I look at it, if I make a gesture of kindness and it costs me a few dollars I am grateful to be able to do it. The karma comes back around and I can afford to give away what to me is negligible but to them could be the difference between paying rent or getting meds. I’m can’t be mad if I volunteered for it but I have a policy now that you can get a small advance if we have connected multiple times and if that’s the last I see of you then toodles and on to the next 

I got an apology from mine also for even asking.  There were several factors I considered when I lent him the money.  One, every session he goes above and beyond, second he travels an hour and a half everytime we meet (its been almost 2 years since we first met and he was my first ever hire) and finally he is just a nice person... not an ounce of ego even though he is smoking hot.  Not for a minute did I believe he would not be good for it, and if I was wrong then a hard lesson learned.  He is still my number one guy.

One of my hottest regulars once asked for an advance and I didn’t respond; whereupon he immediately apologized. When I was his age I too was often broke and asked a rich uncle for a loan, which was politely declined. In neither case was my relationship in any way impaired. I did give this provider an advance recently after a two-hour session which was originally slated to be an overnight. I knew he was counting on the honorarium so I gave him the money as an advance on a subsequent meeting, which worked out perfectly.
 

Make sure you utilize the forum and only hire providers with a good track record of providing a great experience for all regardless of their size.

Another thought is to befriend some guys who are already in the biz.  Sometimes a clients asks his escort to bring in a second (or a third or fourth...) and in that instance you may get included with no advertising at all.  The general contractor may be glad to bring in subcontractors who aren't publicly available, a win win.  I do it frequently.  Granted it wouldn't be all the time, but maybe a way to get your feet wet.
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Looks like those credit card fees have really been bugging him. 

I guess it depends on the person. I happen to have done work with the ex-offender population, and in that respect I see no difference between people with criminal records and people who don't have a criminal record. The first thing that come to mind is that there are people out there with no criminal record who deserve to be in prison; they just haven't been caught. Second, there's a difference between having a record and being a repeat offender. Then there's the type of offense that the individual has a record for. I wouldn't care if the person has a record for prostitution, for example.
If I can, I ask for details. I also am aware that hiring involves a level of risk in terms of personal safety.
That all means that to me, the simple fact that a provider has been to prison is something to maybe inquire about details, but not necessarily a deal breaker. I'm not into the "bad boy" fantasy, but I have seen how appealing being in prison has been to many gay men I know.

I’ve had a handful of providers make this happen, but only after we’d built a regular connection. Partners with whom I’ve been in relationships have also been able to do so. For me, it’s not about dick size—it’s about connection—a mix of chemistry, passion, and intimacy. That combination makes all the difference for me.

Since you decided to assume you know what I am… just to clarify on all accounts. Not in 60’s or 50’s , not overweight & I have had many encounters with younger & as hot or hotter than Darian. In fact, I have several young hot providers who are regulars that provide what they say they will & are very into it. 

If you had a good experience with Darian, that is great. I did not & simply shared my experience here because that is what the forum is for. 

Interesting how often this topic appears in discussions. When I was a twinkie in training in the 1970s, the subject was never brought up. Sure, sometimes there was a little brown when he or thee pulled out, but you chalked it up to a minor occupational hazard. Twice in my experience, once with one of my bottom FBs and once with a random trick, Mt Vesuvius erupted. Not pleasant, but rare, and just one of those things. Today douching appears to be de riguer. Have our diets gotten that much worse...or have we become more squeamish...or is it just with the internet we can have wide discussions that we previously couldn't? After going decades with never douching once, today I 100% do if I think I'll get nailed. And by the way, I happily use a "Du" brand enema bulb, made specifically for us, that has an air-gap back flow preventer so you don't pump yourself full of air. 

I agree it seems predatory to solicit day laborers for sex when they're out there looking for more conventional labor gigs. Sex work is not the same thing as hauling, landscaping, etc. It's a big leap, and gets into things like their sexual identity, family and marital status, etc.
I'd expect if a guy was hired for a conventional labor gig and was interested in providing sexual services, he'd make it known, especially if he knows the client is gay. But otherwise it's too much of a leap.
The other thing is I've found the guys tend to cluster together at the hiring sites. That's probably as much for their own safety more than anything. So it would be weird to go up to a group of guys to solicit.
This just seems more like fantasy fodder.

I have met Jay numerous times over the last couple of years. He's an amazing guy who never disappoints. He's incredibly sexy and skilled at what he does, as well as a kind and sweet personality. He radiates great energy when you are with him.