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In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks.  Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since.  Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it).  He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete).  Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise).  I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly.  To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with.  And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries).   I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.

In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks.  Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since.  Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it).  He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete).  Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise).  I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly.  To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with.  And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries).   I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.

In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks.  Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since.  Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it).  He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete).  Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise).  I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly.  To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with.  And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries).   I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.

In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks.  Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since.  Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it).  He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete).  Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise).  I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly.  To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with.  And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries).   I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.

In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks.  Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since.  Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it).  He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete).  Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise).  I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly.  To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with.  And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries).   I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.

In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks.  Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since.  Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it).  He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete).  Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise).  I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly.  To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with.  And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries).   I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.

Went to NZ pre-COVID, was in NZ 3 nights as part of a larger Tahiti/Australia/NZ trip.  Have friends who link in Auckland who played tour guide for us, which was great.  I honestly cannot recite details of exactly where we went/what we saw, but generally (1) NZ is stunningly beautiful (2) NZ is sleepy - not a lot going on (3) Auckland, their largest city, is small, sleepy and not that much to do.  If you are an outdoorsperson, NZ is a paradise.   If you like vibrant city life and culture, not so much.  I hear NZ is a lovely place to live, I'm sure I could adapt to living there and slowing down my pace and expectations......in time.  Enjoy your trip!

I'd pay $5000!

Jimmy Garappolo for sure 😛😛😛

The way you describe your siblings, they seem to have some level of mental illness (addictions, etc.).  Does not change your course of action, but this is more complex than someone just making bad choices and acting like a teenager.  I lost my brother 2 years ago to a lifelong battle with alcoholism, and I had similar struggles over the years with him (not about money, there was none....just about his behavior and how that impacted his life and the family).  Still, with addiction there is literally nothing you can do until the person is willing and able to help themselves.  
My father too had some sort of difficulty with money.  He had a successful career and a generous retirement, but he never had any money - ran up credit cards, payday loans, and asked me for money a few times.  I think he had a gambling addiction, the closest I ever got to an admission was that he played the lottery.  The last time he asked me for money I said no but offered to help in other ways (like set up a budget, hire a financial advisor, etc).   I did this after drawing up a "contract with myself" of what my baseline principles were for helping, and what I was and was not willing to do.   For example, I would not allow my parents to be homeless or hungry.   I also would not put my own money/retirement at risk.  I would not enable my father's destructive behavior.  I did buy my dad a used car (10k) and put it in my name so he could not borrow against it to ensure he had transportation.   I also helped twice with refinancing of their mortgage to provide some relief with monthly expenses (just helped with the paperwork, dad was in his 80's by then).
I hope the mental illness angle allows you to come at the situation with some compassion, while not sacrificing your principles.  Consider writing up that "contract with yourself" - it will provide you clarity as you face decisions over time.  If you have some flexibility with how the trust is administered, you may be able to set up structures which pay for basic needs and nothing more - ensuring he will never be homeless or hungry, while protecting your assets.  
Good luck, this is a difficult situation and I hope you find a pathway to peace.

Jimmy Garappolo for sure 😛😛😛

"Dork appeal" LOL 

Hello, I met with Damien during my recent trip to LA, and all I can say is this boy is FIRE 🔥.  Short, built, asian, tatted, submissive.    Checks all my boxes!    All this at a non-premium rate 😎

Hello, I met with Damien during my recent trip to LA, and all I can say is this boy is FIRE 🔥.  Short, built, asian, tatted, submissive.    Checks all my boxes!    All this at a non-premium rate 😎

I just continued with the session trying to make the most of it; but feeling disappointed and cheated during and after.
I took it as a lesson learnt for myself for next time! Do better research, trust your gut and don’t think twice to shut it down if there are red flags that come up during the discussion / set up stage.

Jordan from BrandtsBoys.   Is there anyone sexier?
 

Bottoms who experience an "anal orgasm", and bottoms who cum hands free while being fucked are both major turn-ons 🐷

I'd pay $5000!

Bottoms who experience an "anal orgasm", and bottoms who cum hands free while being fucked are both major turn-ons 🐷

Bottoms who experience an "anal orgasm", and bottoms who cum hands free while being fucked are both major turn-ons 🐷

Bottoms who experience an "anal orgasm", and bottoms who cum hands free while being fucked are both major turn-ons 🐷