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Estonia has a small population. About 6 years ago, when I was single, I met 3 young men from Estonia, courtesy of GayRomeo and Craigslist in the space of 6 months. All were tall, muscled and submissive. One, the most muscled, had serious Daddy issues and needed to please me several times each day. I endured the attention...

So maybe "baby boy" sees that uber hot guys are a dime a dozen. And not being 23 anymore and reality hitting him in the face is where it's at. Tsk tsk. Grow up booboo

I'm disgustingly pragmatic about this topic.  If one is "fat" and happy with ones appearance and someone makes a nasty remark the response is simple.  Flip that person off and tell them to go fuck themselves.  Now, if one is fat and unhappy with ones appearance one needs to do something about it; diet, join a gym, look into bypass surgery, etc., etc., etc.  In the end one can hopefully control ones self.  One, cannot, however, control the people around oneself so STOP trying and move on. 

Interesting question, but who the fuck cares?
I blocked your ass for a reason!

Buffdaddy agrees. But that may change with the new IRS tax laws. All that income must be reported. Many of these guys have no clue. They have no knowledge of what the laws are. If any of you are familiar with the Findom scene many of the Cash Masters as they are called are trying to circumvent the new IRS law on third party ways to send money. Cashapp, Venmo,Zelle, PayPal etc. Some are looking to get paid in Amazon Gift Cards, others believe it or not are now looking to do real meets. Let's see how things shake out this year when Uncle Sam comes calling. I just talked to a very Hot muscled kid from Long Island. Trying to recruit him for Club work on Long Island. He said he makes 6 thousand a month on Onlyfans and selling his videos, why should he work in a club make less money, have guys touch him. 
I said to him have you been reporting your income to the IRS  the answer was why should I.
Then making private videos and selling them online is another red flag. You just can't make porno and not abide by the law. Yes some of these guys are just posing and flexing. 
Give it some time but I think they will return. They are a greedy bunch that don't like to share their money. 

I did see him and had a terrific time.  I highly recommend him. You can PM me for details if you have any questions.  

Well, since I have never had sex with a woman I do qualify as a virgin, right?? 😉  And I do step out of the shower, fresh as a daisy, twice a day!! 😂
 

"not a bimbo Brazilian party boy"....fantastic line!

I truly enjoy the BFE so for me, it’s fresh white bedlinen every time I had a date. I find it pleasing in much the same way as I find it erotic for a tanned muscleboy to sport a pair of tight white briefs in my bed. 
If the guy was going to be topped while flat on his back, I would put a pillow under his butt and cover the pillow with a fresh hand-towel. I always preferred my guys to swallow my load too, so there was very rarely any mishap. 

I just lay a flat sheet out before the games begin. I‘m not a messy person and my regular guy likes to swallow so there’s really no mess. 

More like…."damn, that moron has shitty aim."
Rumor has it they’re paying for his defense, so I guess "moron" runs in the "family".

Make sure he doesn't demand first-class airfare!  Have you met him before?  I presume you've already discussed sleeping habits, alone time, eating preferences......

Thanks for following up. Right now, I would say that I’m taking things one day at a time and not piling on anymore commitments. My plate is full and I’m trying to figure out a path forward. I appreciate all the advice and letting it all digest at the moment. 

Various recent travellers to Brazil have reported (on this site and on gayguides.com) that the rate is R150-200 currently. 
 
As ever, the rate will depend on how well you negotiate, what you require and whether you’re trying to hire a “gym-god”.

When I hired, I always kept in mind CAVEAT EMPTOR.
 
So, as @Epigonos and @glutes suggested, I always checked every detail ahead of a possible date.
 
I also insisted on checking the two of us were compatible by saying how limited my skills in bed were (“I’m only a top, and I’m selfish and lazy”) and saying precisely what I enjoy (“I need you to suck me off to completion”). 
As a result, some hirings never resulted in a date. But overall, my success rate was high. Over the years, I only had dates with 2 scammers who obviously just wanted to get paid the maximum for doing the minimum. 

Times have changed how you meet hustlers, but how you deal with them hasn't changed.

I had that happen to me 2x over the years. Once I was accommodating and the eventual date was so-so. With the second man, I took your approach @ButchAtl and said ‘if you have to postpone, I understand but I’ll have to see you another day’…and as you related, suddenly it was fine to go ahead as planned and we had a good date.

When I hired, I always kept in mind CAVEAT EMPTOR.
 
So, as @Epigonos and @glutes suggested, I always checked every detail ahead of a possible date.
 
I also insisted on checking the two of us were compatible by saying how limited my skills in bed were (“I’m only a top, and I’m selfish and lazy”) and saying precisely what I enjoy (“I need you to suck me off to completion”). 
As a result, some hirings never resulted in a date. But overall, my success rate was high. Over the years, I only had dates with 2 scammers who obviously just wanted to get paid the maximum for doing the minimum. 

The English version is attributed to a famous cricketer who, being teased in the changing room about his big butt, said “You need a big hammer to drive a big nail”

Thanks for the link @KrisParr It’s always good to witness how Leo maintains his avowed ‘straight’ status 😊

Well said @nycman For me, the lack of interaction meant it was unerotic. Reno seemed to be a little into it, while Leo just looked bored throughout. Given Leo changes his surname often, maybe Leo Lacklustre could be his new moniker 😐

The English version is attributed to a famous cricketer who, being teased in the changing room about his big butt, said “You need a big hammer to drive a big nail”

Since the FLA gathering is over….
Can we start misbehaving again?
grin 

An influx of eager American homosexuals, perhaps? 😎