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This is fucked up. You should delete it. I’m an SA survivor and you equating a lazy escort to me being held down and face fucked under threat of violence is disgusting. It’s offensive to SA survivors and @Mydavid who had an unpleasant but CONSENSUAL experience. 

At the end of the day, the deposit issue is a bit of a gamble for both the provider and the client.
For the provider, the deposit gives a form of “insurance”, increasing the likelihood that the potential client WON’T flake.
For the client, the deposit, gives a form of “liability”, increasing the likelihood that the potential provider WILL flake. 
The provider’s time is precious, and the client’s money is precious, and both are trying to ensure they don’t waste either. 
However, if a potential client flakes on a provider, that provider can recoup the time wasted by booking someone else, or revising his schedule. 
if a potential provider flakes on a client, takes his deposit and disappears, his financial loss is pretty much set, and he can’t recoup his loss. 
 
 

I think I market  myself pretty well. There’s always gonna be flakes no matter what . 
 
 
 
 
 
 

*Googles happy baby yoga pose*

There were more providers listed as positive undetectable in the past but a lot of them now left the health status section blank.

There were more providers listed as positive undetectable in the past but a lot of them now left the health status section blank.

There were more providers listed as positive undetectable in the past but a lot of them now left the health status section blank.

The reality is that you need to be on a form of PrEP if you're fucking or being fucked by another man.  It's readily available almost everywhere now.
Both escorts and clients alike lie to themselves and each other about their sexual responsibility.
Only you can protect you.
 

There were more providers listed as positive undetectable in the past but a lot of them now left the health status section blank.

I am a fan of Russ. But I would not hire someone for 2 days unless Ive seen them for a shorter period (usually 2 hours) so we can figure out if we will get along. My 2c.

i should have reported back again - i met him a second time a couple months ago and can reconfirm he's great.  super skilled as a top & bottom, and intimidatingly sexy in person - tall with that crazy ripped body. also cool to talk with, we chatted for a while and he was pretty candid about his RM work & onlyfans work. it was interesting to hear some stories and experiences

This is meta-level trolling 👍

If anyone wants me to read any more posts in this damn sequence of replies about deposits (they have their uses), the colour (correct spelling 😉) of cars and whether providers are competitive (we’re not) then I’m going to require a deposit. A large one. 

In my experience that's the case with latinos with some African blood....

Just talked recently with an acquaintance who lives in B’more. It can be tricky but nice neighborhoods still exist in the city. You may need some trusted locals or a dedicated realtor. 

Just talked recently with an acquaintance who lives in B’more. It can be tricky but nice neighborhoods still exist in the city. You may need some trusted locals or a dedicated realtor. 

For me, it is either one-and-done, or a long-term regular. 

Yes but not as a provider. 

In my long hiring career (30+ years, now interrupted, but that’s a different story), I had what I called  “anchor escort(s)”, that is long-term regular(s) that I hired frequently even if I occasionally tasted other waters. I found it very reassuring to come back to familiar mouths, dicks and asses between adventures. More than just regulars, they were my comfort zone. 

One of my longtime regulars never showed his face in his ad and only took cash 😂. He is model handsome and has a well paying job.

Or vaguely notorious. That’s what I am. 

Some clients are just notoriously vague. I think it comes with the work. I don’t like it, it’s frustrating, I agree with @Jarrod_Uncut . Some clients are just window shopping or indulging themselves in an ‘I might hire’ fantasy. 
I tend to work from a studio in central London. I don’t live there but I’m often in the vicinity and I see clients there or at their hotel or home if it’s reasonable travel distance. Many times I finish my day, make my way home or to do something else and a potential client will message “hi, are you available this evening?”. Too late…I left the studio. Had they asked earlier I’d have probably seen them. 
Others message about availability in coming week. I provide days / times and hear nothing back. Then they message on the day and ask to book. Too late! I made other plans or took another booking because they didn’t take their opportunity when it was there.
What do these potential clients think I’m doing? Sitting around all day waiting for them to make their mind up? I’m sorry to have to decline them of course, but I do think that if you want a good experience with someone decent then it’s highly unlikely they’ll be available for you at the drop of a hat. 

 

My response depends on multiple factors….
1) How far off the photos are:
In general, I’ll forgive 5-10 lbs and 3-5 years.
Beyond that you risk having the door shut in your face.
2) How horny I am:
Obviously, the hornier I am the more forgiving I am.
3) What town I’m in:
 NYC or London? Too many fish. Bye!
Boise? What choice do I have? You could look like my Uncle Phil and I’d probably still fuck you.

If the provider doesn’t respond with a couple hours, it will not progress toward anything or anywhere 😂 

If the provider doesn’t respond with a couple hours, it will not progress toward anything or anywhere 😂