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Many old queers were once hot young twinks/studs.
There’s plenty of evidence of gay men who prefer a very worked-on face and body, and will use strong meds and frequent elective surgery to remain a certain age.
But most of us are like “gotta stay healthy, but here we are”
Officially I’m old.
By birth I am queer. 
Old queer?

 
 

Many old queers were once hot young twinks/studs.
There’s plenty of evidence of gay men who prefer a very worked-on face and body, and will use strong meds and frequent elective surgery to remain a certain age.
But most of us are like “gotta stay healthy, but here we are”
Officially I’m old.
By birth I am queer. 
Old queer?

 
 

Next level is a term borrowed from gaming, meaning achievement in the game where “levels” are a comparative measurement of skill before winning or defeated.
As applied to things being marketed, it usually means “noticeably better” and/or “ownership at our price point serves as the indication of your financial success” whether or not that’s actually true.
BS all around…😂
 
 

Like using a toilet, sometimes a hobby is something you just do for yourself. 

a reluctant bottom is a bad bottom - every single time.  desire is the necessary ingredient 

We are animal lovers - had cats for years, and later transitioned to dogs, for past 16, now.

Both are hilarious and love 💕to love🤩🥰

I’m so old that when I began having sex with men, there were no tops or bottoms. 
There were gay men. 
And recalling most 80’s dates and hookups, almost all were open to being versatile in general. During the encounter, it was ebb and flow, taking turns. In longer boyfriend situations, a pattern would emerge, but mine remained versatile.
AIDS brought more wariness to being the receptive partner, and more stigma to those who received on a more regular basis. Hence the elevation of TheTop. 
I prefer to think of top and bottom as verbs applied to actions, rather than nouns applied to the participants. That way, there’s never a shortage of one or the other in a society. It’s just being flexible about the ways to satisfy your partner as well as yourself. 
Age and medical issues aside, there’s likely few among us who never switch position. 
 

I think for most it’s a “we’ll see…” and committing to it ahead without personal chemistry established is rare. 
It carries the higher risk for the bearer of the tongue. 

It carries the higher demand of hygiene and honesty about health for the bearer of the hole. 
In porn, def a climax trigger.
In person I love it both ways. By nature and function, I’m bottom, but when I get into eating it, I get hard enough to fuck it, and/or come while feasting. 
I never present myself without being super clean and smooth. It’s fairly pale, and even after 40yrs of recreational use, my hole looks younger than my ass🤣
We’ll see.

I’m so old that when I began having sex with men, there were no tops or bottoms. 
There were gay men. 
And recalling most 80’s dates and hookups, almost all were open to being versatile in general. During the encounter, it was ebb and flow, taking turns. In longer boyfriend situations, a pattern would emerge, but mine remained versatile.
AIDS brought more wariness to being the receptive partner, and more stigma to those who received on a more regular basis. Hence the elevation of TheTop. 
I prefer to think of top and bottom as verbs applied to actions, rather than nouns applied to the participants. That way, there’s never a shortage of one or the other in a society. It’s just being flexible about the ways to satisfy your partner as well as yourself. 
Age and medical issues aside, there’s likely few among us who never switch position. 
 

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

Every now and again I go to a gay bar, usually when I am on vacation.  I enjoy people watching and checking out whatever attractive men are there..  I do not expect to pick someone up.  In fact, I am fine if no one speaks to me, but usually, someone does and I will have a fun, usually superficial conversation.  Certainly I find it more entertaining then heading back to the hotel after dinner.  So I am old. I am okay with my looks and my life and I find an occasional  night out at a bar checking out men I will never have, enjoyable.  I am actually someone you should aspire to be, an old man who has seen better days and also has seen better days than 90% of the younger, fitter gay guys at that bar will ever see.  When I leave the bar, almost always alone, I head back to a life I am happy to have.   

Yeah, Man in Full isn’t likely to win many awards, but Jeff Daniels does an amazing job. It seems like we “know” this character, but I just can’t put my finger on it. Real estate mogul? Anyone, anyone?

Off topic, but I loved Daniel's response-by-gesture to the final question about Academy Awards.
Interview has the show on my list to watch.

Colbert interviewed Jeff Daniels last week, which made me check this out.
Good acting of complex characters throughout, I thought. Timeless fable of the menace of the unchecked male ego. No one in it is the hero. Except for Pelphrey’s stunt cock. 
 

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

“And that’s a definite no to stamps”

Not happening at a spa in NYC
This ain't Thailand.

Die young.