jeezifonly

I'm a top who very selectively rims, but has zero issue with oral. 
Bottom line, rimming is far riskier than sucking dick, especially if either party hasn't had their hep vaxes.
Also, a lot of guys can keep their cock clean, but don't have a clue when it comes to hole maintenance.

I can’t help but think some guys advertise just to see their selfies.

Many old queers were once hot young twinks/studs.
There’s plenty of evidence of gay men who prefer a very worked-on face and body, and will use strong meds and frequent elective surgery to remain a certain age.
But most of us are like “gotta stay healthy, but here we are”
Officially I’m old.
By birth I am queer. 
Old queer?

 
 

A girl-friend of mine was told by her mother, “Judy, never ever shower with a man. 

You’ll forget to wash.”

Outside of politics, no two assholes are alike.
Some women can vaginally take dicks of great size with deep thrusting. Others will (painfully) damage their cervix if they even try that. 

The nerves that transmit pleasure and pain in the anal canal are in clusters that can vary from body to body, moment by moment. 
Hunger (physical, mental, emotional) varies as well.
So, maybe your alignment of individual factors ultimately don’t result in pleasure, and it’s not for you. 
Until sometime when it may be. 
 

An escort friend told me: "the 2 best things about aging are the accumulation of money and the increasing number of young/er guys". 

The flip side of this topic….I wish more posters put a provider’s city/locale in the topic of the post. i.e. “411 on HotOne in SoCal” rather than just “any info about HotOne?” 

Had two bed-massages with different providers. 
It’s neither pleasant at the time, nor effective as therapeutic work for my body.
No table, no thanks. 

Had two bed-massages with different providers. 
It’s neither pleasant at the time, nor effective as therapeutic work for my body.
No table, no thanks. 

I myself am not an impulse shopper, and I bet I’m in a small minority. But when you’re in a hurry, I guess this place gets confused with Yelp!

Had two bed-massages with different providers. 
It’s neither pleasant at the time, nor effective as therapeutic work for my body.
No table, no thanks. 

Loved this show - one of the best on television. 

No, just a worn out pansy.

Many old queers were once hot young twinks/studs.
There’s plenty of evidence of gay men who prefer a very worked-on face and body, and will use strong meds and frequent elective surgery to remain a certain age.
But most of us are like “gotta stay healthy, but here we are”
Officially I’m old.
By birth I am queer. 
Old queer?

 
 

Many old queers were once hot young twinks/studs.
There’s plenty of evidence of gay men who prefer a very worked-on face and body, and will use strong meds and frequent elective surgery to remain a certain age.
But most of us are like “gotta stay healthy, but here we are”
Officially I’m old.
By birth I am queer. 
Old queer?

 
 

NETFLIX - The Diplomat
A new look at work-based relationships set against the highest levels of Foreign Service at a tricky time. 
Well written, well cast and has just enough humor. She’s been working a long time, but Keri Russell seems almost new to me in this part. Great chemistry with Rufus Sewell (like that’s a chore…) and I recommend it!

Outside of politics, no two assholes are alike.
Some women can vaginally take dicks of great size with deep thrusting. Others will (painfully) damage their cervix if they even try that. 

The nerves that transmit pleasure and pain in the anal canal are in clusters that can vary from body to body, moment by moment. 
Hunger (physical, mental, emotional) varies as well.
So, maybe your alignment of individual factors ultimately don’t result in pleasure, and it’s not for you. 
Until sometime when it may be. 
 

Many old queers were once hot young twinks/studs.
There’s plenty of evidence of gay men who prefer a very worked-on face and body, and will use strong meds and frequent elective surgery to remain a certain age.
But most of us are like “gotta stay healthy, but here we are”
Officially I’m old.
By birth I am queer. 
Old queer?

 
 

Many old queers were once hot young twinks/studs.
There’s plenty of evidence of gay men who prefer a very worked-on face and body, and will use strong meds and frequent elective surgery to remain a certain age.
But most of us are like “gotta stay healthy, but here we are”
Officially I’m old.
By birth I am queer. 
Old queer?

 
 

Next level is a term borrowed from gaming, meaning achievement in the game where “levels” are a comparative measurement of skill before winning or defeated.
As applied to things being marketed, it usually means “noticeably better” and/or “ownership at our price point serves as the indication of your financial success” whether or not that’s actually true.
BS all around…😂
 
 

Like using a toilet, sometimes a hobby is something you just do for yourself. 

a reluctant bottom is a bad bottom - every single time.  desire is the necessary ingredient 

We are animal lovers - had cats for years, and later transitioned to dogs, for past 16, now.

Both are hilarious and love 💕to love🤩🥰

I’m so old that when I began having sex with men, there were no tops or bottoms. 
There were gay men. 
And recalling most 80’s dates and hookups, almost all were open to being versatile in general. During the encounter, it was ebb and flow, taking turns. In longer boyfriend situations, a pattern would emerge, but mine remained versatile.
AIDS brought more wariness to being the receptive partner, and more stigma to those who received on a more regular basis. Hence the elevation of TheTop. 
I prefer to think of top and bottom as verbs applied to actions, rather than nouns applied to the participants. That way, there’s never a shortage of one or the other in a society. It’s just being flexible about the ways to satisfy your partner as well as yourself. 
Age and medical issues aside, there’s likely few among us who never switch position. 
 

I think for most it’s a “we’ll see…” and committing to it ahead without personal chemistry established is rare. 
It carries the higher risk for the bearer of the tongue. 

It carries the higher demand of hygiene and honesty about health for the bearer of the hole. 
In porn, def a climax trigger.
In person I love it both ways. By nature and function, I’m bottom, but when I get into eating it, I get hard enough to fuck it, and/or come while feasting. 
I never present myself without being super clean and smooth. It’s fairly pale, and even after 40yrs of recreational use, my hole looks younger than my ass🤣
We’ll see.