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Thank you - I usually do follow my gut and you validated that instinct - appreciate it

I know what it means, but when pnp is part of “into” list, or if the ad says “party friendly”, how does one know whether or not he MUST have some in order to participate, or if he won’t already be tweaking when I arrive? Looking to avoid, and some hot guys refer in one or both of those ways. My instinct says move on with any mention, but there I imagine there are occasional users who will not if client is not. From your experience, would you just ask? and are the guys truthful when answering? (Meaning you asked them not to be on it or bring it, and they complied.) Or should I go with my gut and move on?

Baroque not my favorite genre (Strauss Mozart Puccini) but I like everything but the most recent New music (there are exceptions) I’ve witnessed some brilliant theatre with early music. In concert or audio recordings, baroque can lose me. When well-staged it can be glorious. But some bold dramatic risks succeed at the sacrifice of the music: (nudity alert must open in app!)

I love the Christie - agree about some overworked ornaments but the overall feeling is perfect. I’m a big fan of Voces8 - will have to check theirs out. (OMG The Biebl Ave Maria!!) Here’s a Messiah that is musically accurate, with a modern allegorical full-on opera staging. It’s pretty great: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LsZpitl-cI For the Beecham to make sense for me, it has to be in a random order playlist with any Boston Pops Holiday album, the Living Strings Spirit of Christmas, and my fave OTT extravaganza, Robert Shaw’s Many Moods of Christmas. You won’t have to adjust volume between tracks - The Beecham Messiah will come off as delicate. LOL

I think there are many guys who can do live interaction via OnlyFans or JustForFans accounts. Geographic desirability not a factor. (Nor is whether they have, in the past, provided in-person services for money, really...) Tell him exactly what you want, I bet you can get it. Good luck!

Haha! My dad’s were the two mentioned above (very unique, and irregardless) along with “as per”. Per doesn’t require the as. This message is brought to you by the Department of Redundancy Department.

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Despite the thirst as I shop the specimens discussed here, I am distancing very rigidly, so to speak. My only exposure since the Ides of March would be some freak thing from going to Trader Joe’s and I have tested neg 2x. Mid Nov I was ready to arrange something and text a new masseur I’ve done due diligence on. Then... Rona numbers in LA spiked, are still climbing. Not time yet. ?. Vaccine will help. Like waiting for nylons at end of WWII. As just one client, I find I mostly want the thrill of the new (about 75% of what I spend) but occasionally I’m wanting familiar male company where we each have some prior knowledge of likes. Personal risk assessment has said to me, “choose one” You know what? I miss chatting in person with strangers about random stuff, listening for what makes them laugh, or attempting to charm wait staff. I miss being alert to first touch, and discovery of new contours, and the rush of the reveal of new peen... In light of how the majority of us have been living for months, I may speak for many who’ve had nothing but “familiar company” for too long. So, in a way it actually is you, @Jarrod_Uncut (Not who you are... just who you aren’t) ?

Running from the inescapable can sometimes save your life, and other times just leave you winded, with cramps in place of your dignity Stay curious, expose yourself to what’s foreign, and try it. You may love it, and may even prove a good guide for someone else with curiosity. Buy fewer things, do more things.

The OP posted this in Spa and referred to masseurs. There is another market-related comparison that hasn’t been mentioned. When I really need a good massage, I compare fees between private advertisers, and also compare it to a full visit to a local day spa for the same length massage. If I have a gift card for a spa visit (friends know I love a good massage), that usually decides for me. When I visit my favorite spa I really like using the sauna and steam (not so much the jacuzzi). It’s a given there will be no happy ending to the treatment, but I find the calming ambiance, amenities, and dependably skilled service to be worth more in this instance. So, masseurs have competition in other private masseurs AND in fully licensed businesses performing similar services, with different pluses as trade offs. Most spas max out at 75m massage (a few do 90m, which is the length session I’ll book for a private, but that added 15m will include working the bits that the spa won’t.) With tips figured in, the total cost to me is pretty close! Federal income tax deduction for at-home business is based on sq footage used, at a fixed $5/sqft, rather than a % of rent paid. That may partially explain why there is less variation of hourly fee: less variation in work-related deductions.

Research materials (mostly books packed with photos and illustrations) for my line of work take up an enormous amount of space in my home studio. I am retiring during this lockdown, and have offered younger colleagues to take any they want. You know what? They. don’t. want. Turns out a laptop and WiFi gives them access to most of it, AND is easier to dust. So my well-used cardboard and paper sources of inspiration will be donated for as far as that gets me, then remainder in the dumpster. @Unicorn, you can do this! Excluding the temporary housing each year of college, I’ve lived in 4 domiciles of my own. Adding more stuff (discarding a little) with each move over 40+ years. So much stuff!!! Whittle away at it each day. Hiring an objective organizational professional might be a worthwhile effort to prevent sentiment from having more influence than it should.

Somebody will have to power up the Wayback Machine. RB shut it in 2017, and there has been a big turnover in providers in that time. (Along with a number of experienced providers who have suddenly updated their pics, a few looking very little like the photos they had been using.) The camera has no trouble flattering your subject. Very attractive and spendworthy. I wish you success in your quest. Report back - a number of Angelinos here might also be interested if he’s still pro.

The stories I loved to read as a youngster weren’t really...books, per se. I think they now call them “cave paintings”

I never host. The name I give them may or may not be my real name and I assume the same is true with them. I find I rarely hire from the lot whose name is an adjective (even if it is dimensionally accurate) I like the anonymity, personally.

A good actor exiting a scene stays in character until out of sight on the wings. The kiss goodbye is still part of the scene, not the curtain call. ?

Be confident in your cleanliness. Part of what you need to be able do for your enjoyment of the act, is to push as though you’re moving your bowels, While knowing there’s nothing that can come out as a result. Tell your top you need lots of hole foreplay - rimming, fingering, massaging. Not just spit - use lube. Your outermost ring will be relaxed from massage and touch, Use your favorite lube and let a couple of fingers in, to push lube in a couple inches. Clench closed, and then push out. Repeat. In between those two actions is relaxation. My relaxing is better on the inhale, yours may be on the exhale. Now you have all the tools to make sure you’re resisting the instinct to make yourself water-tight. That’s how most discomfort comes about - the resistance to being penetrated works against both pleasure and safety. Breathe. Relax. Clench release relax. Toys can be instructive more than you’d imagine, especially finding your breath.

I have worked on lots of big shows with lots of beautiful men. It’s likely that among them were some Providers, but it was before internet was the means of advertising, and the B&W photos in newsprint ads were small. It’s often hard in the entertainment biz to get away with the secret for too long, as some clients can move within the same circles, sometimes in casting/hiring positions.

Oh, yes... I know people who saw it (with Maxwell Caulfield, rather than Matthew) 1985 Off Broadway. Said the script was meh...Even the beauty that was the nude Max couldn’t save the play. (I worked with him in 2000 or so and he was still gorgeous and really funny and sweet - and wonderful on stage. He stayed mostly dressed.)

omg Omg OMG !!!!! why is everyone on the forum constantly talking about me???

I’d say the Best Masseur is the Provider who kept his business afloat for the past 10 months, and has verified negative Covid test results for himself and every one of his clients he will have seen through the end of the year.

No need to skip, very few all-female numbers. New York Shows can actually get away with same degree of female nudity in commercial productions that you see in Bares, so less of a novelty. Men’s nudity is usually implied - Even in The Full Monty you never get what the title promises.

@JoeMendoza it sounds like you are best off watching the Broadway Bares fundraisers via YouTube. Its combo of beauty and talent shows both in great light. Hope you also like boobs. No full frontal - down to floss and a small stage-worthy sock. Dancers butts: The best. Male full frontal nudity in live theatre is most often about one of two things: shock value (often comedic, but not always) and as an outward manifestation of the character’s extreme emotional vulnerability. Situational nudity (showers, dressing, or just before or after sex (seduction?) ) is usually brief and not really the focus of the scene, though depending on casting, can steal focus. Naked Boys Singing and Party were two successful shows that liberally used male nudity to acknowledge and laugh at most everyone’s discomfort with seeing unclothed men. There is a full video of NAKED BOYS SINGING, and you can find that online I bet. It has very clever writing and staging, some strong musical performances, and even some poignant moments about love. In a way, you eventually forget they’re all nude.

I’m not an impulse buyer. I do my research (including here) and have 2-3 providers operating in my city under consideration. When I know my availability for, say, the next week, I’ll text expressing interest and ask how much in advance they discuss booking. Then I go with that, and say “Thx, you’ll hear from me on Tuesday, then. Can’t wait” Some profiles say “book ahead” and mean one day, some mean two-three days. Some mean 2 hours. This step clarifies.

It’s very clear where the boundary line is, if you’ve already intimate with an amateur that turns pro. He’s just not into you, except with a deposit. He’s moved from FB to vendor. I think It’s fuzzier when your first or first few encounter(s) are professional and the natural rapport or chemistry invites social crossover - time off the clock. Messy, according to a few tales shared in these pages.