Bargara Leatherboy

oh i love underwear... i wear trunks and i love wearing a jockstrap too 
 

Love a man in sexy underwear - I like that bulge - even when I know what his cock looks like, tastes like, feels like, I like the hidden mystery of unwrapping or sliding those underwear down to discover the prize.
 
its great foreplay 

As someone who has been large most of his life, I had a period where I walked a lot and swam a lot and was very trim, but that did not last.
 
I feel good about myself , self love is important, but I also am smart enough to know its not attractive to some, and of course there are the health issues.
 
The heaviest I got to was 320 pounds and currently i am slowly loosing and at 275 today.
 
When i see a new provider I always send a description, in a email or text message,  “I am a 60 year blonde bear 275 pounds looking for …..”  and take it from there.
 
If someone says does not work for me  - I thank them for the honesty and move on.
 
I have a couple of great providers who make me feel great, and we have a fun time exploring pleasure.
 
I could go to a bathhouse, pay my $25 and wander around all night, maybe get lucky, maybe get rejected, maybe end up in a cubicle giving myself a hand job.
 
Or I could spend $300-$600 with a provider and have a wonder couple of hours .
 
A lesson there for providers who are looking to improve their business.
 
I reflect back on an evening i spent in a gay B&B which was closing optional.  I spent a couple of nights there, the middle night I was the only guest, the owners were out of town and they had a guy in who was looking after the place and me.
We had chatted briefly when he arrived, i did not take much notice, i was swimming and sunbathing naked, had a walk on the property and a swim in the river that passed thru their property, i had a long relaxing outdoor shower, and thought nothing of it.
I went into town in the late afternoon, had a walk on the beach and some dinner.
When I returned the host offered me a glass of wine, and wanted to see a pic of my husband, so i grabbed my iPad and found one, he came and sat very close to me while looking at the pics.  He then suggested a moonlight swim.
I dived in first, he joined me and of course he was very handsy.
We had a fun night, drank some wine, soaked in the hot tub, played, I particularly remember bending over the balcony as he ate my ass out.
he told me that what attracted him to me, was the way I just showered that afternoon without any self consciousness.
 
The really professional providers will see past your excess weight and will discover your inner sexiness and enjoy you as a sexual being and an interesting person
 
 
 
 
 

Not something I would find attractive or pleasant - However I appreciate knowing what the term is - so if some trade suggests it I will know to say. NO THANKS 
I don't like the idea of golden showers - so this is just worst in my book
 
However for those that find this activity exciting and fun - I hope you get to enjoy it with willing partners 
 
Just because something does not float your boat - no need to harpoon someone else's boat 

Not something I would find attractive or pleasant - However I appreciate knowing what the term is - so if some trade suggests it I will know to say. NO THANKS 
I don't like the idea of golden showers - so this is just worst in my book
 
However for those that find this activity exciting and fun - I hope you get to enjoy it with willing partners 
 
Just because something does not float your boat - no need to harpoon someone else's boat 

Not something I would find attractive or pleasant - However I appreciate knowing what the term is - so if some trade suggests it I will know to say. NO THANKS 
I don't like the idea of golden showers - so this is just worst in my book
 
However for those that find this activity exciting and fun - I hope you get to enjoy it with willing partners 
 
Just because something does not float your boat - no need to harpoon someone else's boat 

I get the your a public persona and how you behave reflects badly on the company you represent ....
 
BUT when you had a presidential candidate who spoke about grabbing woman by the pussy - and he got elected ....
there is an issue here - if this guy was white and straight - none of this would be happening 
 
YES it was not the wisest choice - BUT public personas are entitled to a sex life so 
 
in summary
His dismissal was racist and homophobic . 
 
End of story - 
 
sadly neither of those categories will save him as America has  a racist , sexist homophobic culture 

I get the your a public persona and how you behave reflects badly on the company you represent ....
 
BUT when you had a presidential candidate who spoke about grabbing woman by the pussy - and he got elected ....
there is an issue here - if this guy was white and straight - none of this would be happening 
 
YES it was not the wisest choice - BUT public personas are entitled to a sex life so 
 
in summary
His dismissal was racist and homophobic . 
 
End of story - 
 
sadly neither of those categories will save him as America has  a racist , sexist homophobic culture 

I get the your a public persona and how you behave reflects badly on the company you represent ....
 
BUT when you had a presidential candidate who spoke about grabbing woman by the pussy - and he got elected ....
there is an issue here - if this guy was white and straight - none of this would be happening 
 
YES it was not the wisest choice - BUT public personas are entitled to a sex life so 
 
in summary
His dismissal was racist and homophobic . 
 
End of story - 
 
sadly neither of those categories will save him as America has  a racist , sexist homophobic culture 

sharing a fresh cum kiss is amazing ......  I remember a long passionate kiss with a very hot provider after he had made me cum - and lick it all up off his fingers ......  he then kissed me very passionately for a long time.  

an absolute operatic treasure 

I have had a few, one with two providers in Melbourne who advertise as working well together - and that they did .  Both Tops - I had a delightful couple of hours with them.  Its best not to overthink it but to discuss what you want before and during 

I have had a few, one with two providers in Melbourne who advertise as working well together - and that they did .  Both Tops - I had a delightful couple of hours with them.  Its best not to overthink it but to discuss what you want before and during 

I have had a few, one with two providers in Melbourne who advertise as working well together - and that they did .  Both Tops - I had a delightful couple of hours with them.  Its best not to overthink it but to discuss what you want before and during 

Speaking of leather pants, a selfie today. It’s cold in the PNW!

Anyone not afraid to stand on stage and belt next to Freddie Mercury, is a Queen in my book. 
 
 

It can be a blessing and a hinderance.  Yes you get your time scheduled, some places like the Eiffel Tower are better if you prebook as you dont have to join a long line - but you are restricted to the hour that you book for.
We had tickets for Monet's Garden - the Seine was in flood and while the garden was not flooded they decided to close the garden, so we wasted time going when we could not get in - eventually we got a refund.
Places Like Buckingham Palace require a ticket - others like Balmoral or Sandringham you can just walk up and go in after paying the entrance fee
 

sharing a fresh cum kiss is amazing ......  I remember a long passionate kiss with a very hot provider after he had made me cum - and lick it all up off his fingers ......  he then kissed me very passionately for a long time.  

I get the your a public persona and how you behave reflects badly on the company you represent ....
 
BUT when you had a presidential candidate who spoke about grabbing woman by the pussy - and he got elected ....
there is an issue here - if this guy was white and straight - none of this would be happening 
 
YES it was not the wisest choice - BUT public personas are entitled to a sex life so 
 
in summary
His dismissal was racist and homophobic . 
 
End of story - 
 
sadly neither of those categories will save him as America has  a racist , sexist homophobic culture 

I normally use https://www.utopia-asia.com for Asia information.
Nahm in HoChiMinh city is amazing - hard to find but most taxi drivers will take you there - Hanoi also has some great spa experiences
Cambodia the same - both in Siam Reap and Phenom Penh. 
Thailand also but more focused on Pattaya, Phuket and Bangkok 
Bali is also good - 
Australia also has https://www.rentboyaustralia.com as well as the usual like massage guys and Rent Men 
 
 

I don't fly QF - and I do not like the lottery of upgrading - I want to know when I book that I have a confirmed seat in Business so I either pay for a business fare or use points for a business reward seat.
QF upgrades might not clear until 5 hours before departure - so it's a huge risk.  I normally book really early so can get the business saver seats - on Singapore Airlines - but never have an issue getting on the flight I want to be on 

Air NZ does have a IAH flight as well as an ORD and JFK as well as their standard SFO and LAX flights.  
Fiji only does NAN - LAX with add ons to AKL WLG CHC BNE SYD MEL ADL 

I collect credit card points avidly.  Along with the consumer programs that earn   points and status credits and are automatically transferred to your Frequent Flyer program.  
Yes the Australian market is different.
I always buy my domestic tickets and some short haul international tickets, in the class of travel I want to fly in.  I can do short haul domestic in economy - up to 3 hours - but anything past that I will always fly business.
So my point strategy is this :-
spending the money anyway - by using a branded American Express Card where possible (available in say 70% of transactions) and a airline branded Mastercard for all other transactions - I amass a decent number of points.
I then use them for confirmed business class tickets long haul.
For instance we flew Sydney to London and then Zurich to Sydney via Singapore on Singapore Airliners for about $278 in taxes and a bunch of points.  These long haul flights in Business were a pleasure. (if we paid cash it would have cost us $16 000 plus.
Our last trip was 2016 and I know have enough points to do another big round the world trip in business - and then some.
In my view we got the above trip for taxes - and the next trip for taxes - so the bulk cost is a freebie for being loyal and smart to maximise the program.
 
having said that I am also not adverse to flying on a LCC airline depending on the seating.  Air Asia is fine for short haul flights in Asia and their long haul flights in Air Asia X where they have a angled flat bed seat is great for a 9 hour day flight and passable for a night flight.
 
I have found that unless you are a very regular flyer status is not worth it - but if you manage to achieve it its a bonus, but do have a look at what you can achieve with points via credit cards 
 
 

I visited Japan in 1992 - yes many years ago.  At that time it was extremely difficult to get entry into many bars and certainly sauna/bathhouses.  At that stage there was NO document HIV/AIDS cases in Japan.  There may well have been but they were not commonly known about. 
So the venues had this policy of not letting gaijin (foreigners) in, as their rational was if there is not aids among the Japanese - if we dont mix with gaijin we will stay disease free.
It kind of makes sense - but it frustrated me at the time.  there were several bars and clubs that were welcoming of expats etc 
 
 

I visited Japan in 1992 - yes many years ago.  At that time it was extremely difficult to get entry into many bars and certainly sauna/bathhouses.  At that stage there was NO document HIV/AIDS cases in Japan.  There may well have been but they were not commonly known about. 
So the venues had this policy of not letting gaijin (foreigners) in, as their rational was if there is not aids among the Japanese - if we dont mix with gaijin we will stay disease free.
It kind of makes sense - but it frustrated me at the time.  there were several bars and clubs that were welcoming of expats etc