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There is something about #7 & #11
 
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Fishstix

There is something about #7 & #11
 
7 cum 11
 
Fishstix

His time is long overdue to have a thread devoted to him. A couple of mentions of his spectacular rear end, but no thread until now (unless he went by a different name I'm unaware).
He really does have the body of a Greek God, having seen him two years in a row at the Company of Men pool party, but have been way too intimidated to strike up conversation. He's a fun guy to be around, from what other party attendees have said - not to mention stupendous in bed.
https://www.rentmen.eu/CallMeGunther

I checked into a NYC hotel last week and at the same check-in  counter was a drop-dead-gorgeous man, tall, blond hair, great build. We got into the same elevator and discussed the rudeness of some New Yorkers. He said he was Swedish but now lives in Boston and that Bostoners can sometimes be rude, also. When I got to the room who is the first photo to come up on both Grindr AND Rentmen, our friend Mitch (I wonder if the "Den" means Denmark even though he said Sweden)? Yes, my friend from the elevator. I sent him several messages of a willingness to meet - but he never replied. He must be totally booked up or has enough demand to pick & choose whom he wishes to meet. Or, perhaps he didn't like doing business in the same hotel where he sleeps - who knows. Regardless, he seemed like a really nice guy, easy to talk to, and is absolutely beautiful. Luckily, I found several other super hot guys here in the Big Apple (with super fees, also, at least to someone from the boonies) so I'm not complaining. I admit that I had to stroll by some of the hallowed places in NYC of my younger years e.g. Stella's, Gaiety, etc. which brought back great memories but also a great sense of how quickly time flies.

I understand the impulse--I often develop a kind of crush on a provider while setting up an appointment and think "We're clicking so well, maybe he'd like to have dinner/go to a show/spend the night with me without charging me extra!"
Don't go there.
Unless the provider explicitly suggests that himself, always remember this is his job, and he owes you no more than what you agreed for the time involved. If you want to have a meal with him or spend the night, you should arrange that in advance, for an appropriate fee.
The idea that you'll "vibe" so well that he'll want to be your friend or fuckbuddy is tempting--a lot of us like to feel that kind of connection and affinity with the providers we choose--but always remember it's just a fantasy. 

Does being with someone shorter or taller than you turn you on or off?  Some of the porn pairings purposely put a really small or short person with a normal height or taller than average height person.  I find it distracting.  I don't mind being with someone close to my height.   Prefer they be taller than me.  But I try to avoid being with someone that is shorter than me by more than 4".  Height bias?  What is your preference?  

Considering the fact that I was 41 and  a total virgin-hadn't even french-kissed someone, and didn't want to be gay (something I still struggle with-but I'm more accepting now than I thought I'd ever be), hiring allowed me to lose my virginity. 
 
And since I didn't really want to be gay, but it was hard making friends with straight people as they were mostly married, hiring allowed me to enjoy some  weekend vacations without having to be alone on them.
Aside from the fun times with the actual escorts themselves, I can remember a mild sense of self-satisfaction occurring once when I was in a gay bar-possibly in Seattle-and I realized I had been with at least three of the porn stars whose posters graced the walls  
 
During my hiring career, I spent two consecutive Christmases with an escort. Now I don't celebrate Christmas in any way shape or form. But it did have a tendency to get me down as most everyone I knew was  spending time with family. But those two Christmases with the escort were the best Christmases I've experienced as an adult.  
 
But hiring for me had its bad side too. It frequently did a number on my self-esteem knowing that as nice as most of the guys were, they wouldn't be there if I weren't "employing" them. For someone who lived a pretty much solitary life except for times with escorts, that just reinforced the idea that I could only have 'paid for' friends. 

I won’t have as much money to leave my heirs. But they will only find out after I am gone. 

Next time you go simply ask:   If I gave you my phone number again, would you ever use it?   He could be coy and say something like, give to me and find out. Or he could just say yes or no.  If instead he asks why do you ask, be honest and say you would like to get to know him better.  Victory goes to the bold and so just ask and if the answer is no, you can continue to fantasize and if the answer is yes, well then give it to him and wait and see.  

It’s been quite a few years since I’d been to the Gay 90’s, but about a year ago I went back and immediately developed a crush on one of the bartenders. He looks a lot like someone I used to be attracted to. I’m pretty convinced he’s straight, but he definitely knows how to work a crowd and get tips. He’ll wear very revealing outfits, short shorts, briefs, etc.
The first time I met him, I tipped well and gave him my phone number. Nothing came of it, which I expected. A year later I went back and was shocked that he remembered both my name and my drink (Jack and Coke). Later I found out he had actually kept the note with my name and number by his station so he could remember customers. I assume he does that with other people too.
Since then, I’ve stopped in every few weeks. He always has my drink ready, remembers my name, and is very friendly. I tip well—usually $20 for a couple drinks, and sometimes another $20 on the way out. Not outrageous, but definitely above average.
Today something happened that completely caught me off guard. I was walking around Uptown and suddenly heard someone call my name. It was him on a scooter. He stopped, got off, gave me a big hug, and we chatted for a few minutes. He asked if I lived nearby, told me he was on his way to get a tan, and when we were done talking he said, “I hope to see you this weekend.”
Now I’m on cloud nine, but I’m also trying to stay realistic. He’s a very attractive guy in his 20s. I’m a guy in my 50s. I’m 99% sure he’s not romantically interested in me and that he’s simply friendly and appreciates a good customer.
What I’m struggling with is figuring out how to interpret the off-the-clock interaction. Bartenders remember regulars, but stopping, getting off the scooter, giving me a hug, and chatting felt different than normal customer service.
For those of you who have worked in bars or have been regulars at bars, how would you read this? Friendly bartender who recognizes a good customer? Something else?
Also, separate question: Is it inappropriate to ask a bartender whether he does any kind of private entertainment, appearances, or paid work outside the bar? I’ve had no problem asking dancers or strippers that question, but asking a bartender feels very different.
 

Agree, be very specific with activities, times, do & don't, how many times can you  top and or bottom with or without cum and somethings in common to discuss. On my second hire "overnight", the guy only allowed me to drill twice and he cum once.  Normally, after the first round, I enjoy kissing, cuddling, exam the pretty holes,  exploring en entire body, and that leading & warming into the second round. The transition can take hours onto other foreplay and third round. Morning activity is important, I love waking up with warm lips wrapping around my tool and to finish with heavy pounding to end the session. 

I wish the Rent Men providers would indicate their rate as most Rent Masseur providers do.
Another wish would be the Rent Men providers indicate if they can host or not. Some do but the majority do not.
Both these wishes would save a lot of time and effort before having to inquire directly with the interested provider.

These guys live a certain lifestyle and they are providing services to some really high end clientele who easily pay those kind of funds no questions asked. He and his partner travels a lot and most of the content they film seem to be in expensive hotels and resorts. So, depending on how well their content is doing, they might be running up credit card bills for those travels. Also, that 12K is probably footing the bill for two or three more content creators they are looking to film with or even pay air fares to travel to them. 
OnlyFans has really made it difficult to meet a lot of hot guys these days. 

At least for me an overnight is typically a set number of hours, like 10-12 hours.  Each provider is different and has different requirements but look at an overnight more like a date and have it planned out.  It typically works better that way, do something like this, meet some play, dinner either in the room or at a restaurant, come back some more play, at a certain point sleep, maybe morning play, breakfast and depart.  Just make sure expectations are known before setting the appointment in stone then its a lot better.

I try to mix up my hiring life whenever I can, hiring both tops and bottoms.  But when it comes right down to it, no service is deeper or more personal than when you hire an escort who lets you take that most intimate of liberties?
 
Who are the best currently working bottom providers in New York City? 
Taking into consideration aesthetics, anatomy, skill, personality, connectivity, reliability, attitude, breadth of menu. 
 
Also....
 
Any bottoms that you'd avoid going forward?
Usually for me, this one is based on providers who are guarded or reluctant to let you fully take over and enjoy their bodies fully as a top.  

I remember being with an escort last year who was a really hot, sexy Latino guy. Great body, nice personality. He told me he was 24, but I suspected he was older than that.  When we were lying in bed, I noticed the tattoo on his chest in Roman numerals said 1993, which made him 31. I ran my hand over his beautiful chest, and  said, 'Ahhh - your tattoo says 1993...so you were born in 1993, which makes you 31, not 24.'  (I mean why else would you have 1993 tattooed on your chest ?)
He got nervous (I guess not many people ever noticed or pointed it out before) and he stuttered, "No - that's the year my father was born."  I answered, "Really ? So your dad is 31 and you're 24, which means he was 7 when he had you ?"  He fumbled again, and said, "I mean that's the year my father died."  I responded, "Hmmmmm - so you're father impregnated your mother while he was 7 years dead ? She had sex with a ghost ?" Then he said nothing - he was at a dead end. I told him he looked great for 31 (he did), and there's no reason to lie about his age - he's a great guy, and not every client wants a 24 year old. He then laughed, and said "I should never had gotten the tattoo." 

Well.....??
(The queens are waiting for your response.)   😆

Yes and yes 

You almost couldn't be more gay than I am, and while I have a need for new relationships, I think in general I prefer more longterm relationships. While not monogamous by any means, my main escort friend for years was Mike Gaite. I realize my feelings for him were mostly if not all mine, but I even spent two holidays with him. They were possibly the best holidays of my entire adult life. It really saddened me when I could no longer hire anyone but especially him. 

I agree with what's been previously said - it seems likely that he's looking for lower volume and better fit. 
I think he's going to have takers, and a lot of fun - more power to him!

You're completely right. I think where I went screwy was in seeing his WhatsApp avatar face photo where he was beardless, necklaceless, and several years younger. It was the most appealing facial photo I had seen of him and that's the image I wanted to hold on to but it was not what I was presented with. As I said before, that rhinestone necklace to me looked like a chain in his ad photos. I'd say the main thing that turned me off was that he didn't impress me as masculine, and that plays an important role in my hiring practice. 
Anyway, if anyone else tries him perhaps they can report back here.