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  1. If someone is clean, it doesn't smell or taste bad. If someone doesn't clean thoroughly, then I don't want to put my face there. It doesn't need to be deep cleaned like it would in preparation for penetration by a cock or dildo because there's no way for me to stick my tongue in there as far as either of those things would go, but one should be able to probe a little without "shit" happening. I think some women don't like going down on men because pee comes out of there (and maybe some because ejaculate comes out of there). And some straight men probably don't want to lick a woman's pussy because of what can come out of there. Hell, some people have bad breath due to poor oral hygiene and I don't want to kiss them. Cleanliness is all that matters, to me anyway.
  2. If someone is clean, it doesn't smell or taste bad. If someone doesn't clean thoroughly, then I don't want to put my face there. It doesn't need to be deep cleaned like it would in preparation for penetration by a cock or dildo because there's no way for me to stick my tongue in there as far as either of those things would go, but one should be able to probe a little without "shit" happening. I think some women don't like going down on men because pee comes out of there (and maybe some because ejaculate comes out of there). And some straight men probably don't want to lick a woman's pussy because of what can come out of there. Hell, some people have bad breath due to poor oral hygiene and I don't want to kiss them. Cleanliness is all that matters, to me anyway.
  3. While for some it may be about domination or getting a bottom ready, as a bottom for me it's definitely not about that. I'm not sure why I enjoy rimming so much. I enjoy both giving and receiving, but probably giving more. One of my favorite regulars about 15 years ago was a very cute college guy who just loved being eaten. I spent more time eating his ass than sucking his dick, and just as he was ready to shoot he'd pull back and shoot in my mouth. Good times.
  4. I am not putting myself up as a medical or infectious disease specialist. I merely read another article where people who are experts rebutted Montagnier's claims. One that stuck out to me because it was easy enough for a layperson to understand is that his claim that this new virus had to be man-made because it "contains HIV" is akin to saying that one book contains another because they both have the word "hat" in them multiple times. Not being a genetic expert I don't know whether it's true but I don't see why the medical community wouldn't be supporting Montagnier's theory if it was legitimate rather than publishing articles that indicate the flaws in his logic. Unless you're a major conspiracy theorist it's difficult to believe that every person involved in fighting this plague that does have the educational background to understand things like this would rather throw Montagnier under the bus and let hundreds of thousands of additional people die rather than celebrating his findings and advancing on them to work on treatment or prevention. This reminds of me of Peter Duesberg, a doctor who has been claiming since the late 1980s that HIV does not cause AIDS and that instead drug use and poor nutrition were responsible for AIDS.
  5. Just because he has an important credit in his career doesn't mean he's correct with this theory. After doing some additional reading I would consider what he states to be highly suspect.
  6. It looks like I haven't shared my worst experience here (maybe I have in another thread), so here goes: I was black-and-blue and sore for a few days after a massage. I kept telling this guy (who was super hot, by the way) to back off the pressure because it was too intense for me, but he would immediately return to extremely deep work after a minute or two. I really don't like deep work on anywhere except my back, so I thought that maybe I was just being a little hypersensitive. In retrospect, I should have just left the second time he went too deep which was my warning that he wasn't listening to me. At the end of the massage when I told him I had never encountered so much pain during a massage, he joked that he's known as an "s & m masseur." Well, maybe some people knew that of him but there was no hint of that in his ad. I was aghast after I got home and saw how badly he had bruised me. I, of course, have a lot of stories about hotels in bad areas, smelly apartments, guys who didn't match their pictures, guys who did not deliver what they promised, etc, but the above is definitely the worst massage I had.
  7. When I copy the image location, it indicates it's just a .jpg file. Nothing out of the ordinary there. There are all sorts of tools you can use to open the photo and save it with a new name and/or file type, though. If you're using Windows 10, you can simply use the built in snipping tool to capture that area of the screen and then save it. When I want to manipulate photos I have on my hard drive, I open them with a free program called Irfanview and then save them under a new file name of my choosing (or overwrite the existing file if I don't care about keeping it).
  8. I don't think it's so easy to just "get a job" right now with millions out of work and a lot of businesses still shuttered or operating on severely restricted staff. That being said, with the federal stimulus package that did pass and get signed into law the guy should at least be able to collect enhanced unemployment benefits at this time. I know he lives in an expensive city, but the maximum unemployment benefit up there is more generous than it is where in California. I am not going to take the time to calculate how one qualifies for the maximum weekly benefit of $790, but assuming he was making (and claiming) a lot of income and he qualifies for that level of payment then in the short term he's getting $1,390/week in unemployment. I know that that still isn't a lot of money in an expensive city and that, at this point, that extra $600/week kicked in by the Feds is time limited, but it doesn't seem like the time to beg for more money.
  9. Definitely good looking, but it doesn't look like San Francisco is his "home base." It looks like he's just visiting for a month. Even though I think he's hot, I'm put off by the photo of him wearing a shirt that says "I'm hot." Confidence is great but a bit of modesty is even more sexy.
  10. At least with Just4Fans you can scroll through any account to get an idea of how frequently that guy posts and also what the posts are. Some accounts have previews you can watch and others just show a blurred image and a description, but I have managed to avoid subscribing to some guy's accounts when I realized that they posted so sporadically that it wasn't even worth $10/month to see their content. Having to enter a credit card to even see if there's anyone on OnlyFans I'm willing to pay to see is what's held me back from subscribing to anyone's content there. Just4Fans didn't get my credit card information until I decided I just had to have access to Rafael Alencar's videos.
  11. I would think that any provider wanting to remain a provider for well known people wouldn't be willing to post stories even if they omitted enough details that it wouldn't be easy to figure out who the client was.
  12. The IRS website was finally fixed a week or so ago to allow more people to verify their eligibility for a payment and to enter direct deposit information if their 2018 and/or 2019 did not have bank information. Those of you still waiting who gave up trying to use the website a couple of weeks ago might want to try again.
  13. If you mean hiring someone for a massage, receiving an actual massage, and then the session includes penetration? In my experience, that has happened with a very small number of men. Far more men, particularly in my days of hiring from Craigslist, advertised "erotic massages" where the massage was perfunctory and the rest of the experience is really what they were marketing. A much higher percentage of those sessions ended in penetration.
  14. Yes, black men should not bleach their hair blond. Just like natural blonds almost never look good with hair dyed jet black.
  15. Yes, black men should not bleach their hair blond. Just like natural blonds almost never look good with hair dyed jet black.
  16. This topic has been brought up before. While it might be misleading, I don't think one can make an assumption about sexual practices an escort has based on videos he shares. He might insist on condoms when working with clients but be willing to go without on porn shoots or in his personal life. Or maybe he actually will forego condoms with clients but, for some reason, still chose to select "safe sex" from the drop-down menu on RentMen. Who knows? I've even seen providers who vary their answer in that category; sometimes they are listed as safe sex and other times ask me. Who knows what that means? Obviously communication is key. Back to black cocks, I sure would like to meet Rhyheim Shabazz (escorted at one time, but I don't think he does any more) and DeAngelo Jackson (expired profile in Atlanta).
  17. maninsoma

    pay cut...

    The problem is that national tax laws in the United States never take in account the relative cost of living. Someone living in San Francisco making $99,000/year, the cutoff at which he received no stimulus check, is relatively poor given the cost of housing here when compared to most areas of the country. When a 1-bedroom apartment rents for more than $3,000/month, even the added $600 in unemployment benefits for those here who lost a job means that those people will struggle to pay rent and other expenses with the extra money and will no way be able to afford expenses if they are still unemployed after the extra stimulus money runs dry. Of course some people here have sweet rent deals due to rent control and others have mortgages that they can still afford, but the sad reality is that $54K in San Francisco doesn't go very far whereas in a lot of areas of the country that's more than enough to cover rent and other basic expenses. I sent an email to Nancy Pelosi about this and, of course, received no response. I wouldn't advocate for doing something that would be inherently unfair such as giving more to people who live in one area versus another, but I think the federal government could have created this pool of money going to states to enhance existing unemployment benefits such that the extra amount given to each person was based on the newly unemployed's person previous salary versus this one-size-fits-all situation where we have some people getting more money remaining unemployed and others who, despite the added benefits, are getting less than half their previous salary. I feel fortunate that I am still working. I already found out that I am not getting the raise I was scheduled to receive in July, and I won't be surprised to learn soon that my pay is being cut in exchange for getting more time off since that's what happened during the last recession and the current economic situation is more dire.
  18. As a teacher, you mean? The guy is young (looks his stated age of 27) but I don't even think he looks like a twink any more. I do think he's very appealing. Too bad he's visiting my area during this pandemic as I'm not inclined to meet anyone at this time.
  19. Things aren't quite as bad in the straight porn world as they were 40 years ago when almost no consideration was given to a man's looks, but I agree that there are a number of male performers in straight porn who aren't particularly attractive. That being said, I also find that certain gay porn studios seem to have a high percentage of unattractive (to me) men.
  20. Exactly. There isn't enough time in the day to watch all of the porn that exists already even if one chose to watch porn 24/7 for the rest of his life, so I don't think we have to worry about "running out." Now, being a porn-hound myself, there is something exciting about watching a new scene (very few scenes are hot enough for me that I want to watch them repeatedly) and a lot of what I sample doesn't do much for me so I imagine that from that perspective, someone might run out of previously unseen scenes that he likes.
  21. Not that there is no merit to the author's argument, but I have an alternate suggestion to her: stop paying so much attention to celebrities. I haven't even heard of some of the people she's complaining about. It sounds like she spends way too much of her time on social media. She would feel better about herself and the world in general if she lived a more balanced life.
  22. I don't know if the closure of See's is a corporate decision or a local government decision, but I assume it's the former. There is a specialty chocolate maker/seller near me that's still open, albeit with reduced hours. I think that any business selling any kind of food can still operate in California as long as the food is not consumed on premises.
  23. Isn't that a big assumption to make? Just because someone shows his body online, that means he values himself solely by his sexual capital? Isn't it possible that someone could enjoy showing what he has but also value his intellect, his emotional self, his kindness towards others, etc?
  24. I think many people are just not hiring or making themselves available to hire. Someone asked if clients would be willing to hire if they or the provider was wearing a mask and it seems like the overwhelming response is no. I would think that both parties are choosing to take a risk if the are still meeting others at this time, so I'm not sure it makes sense for a client to pay more any more than it would for a client to make a low-ball offer in the assumption that a provider is desperate for work.
  25. I went grocery shopping this morning and left my backpack at home because of the current ban on bringing bags into a grocery store. So much for that. About half of the people in line had their own bags, and the store was not prohibiting customers from bringing those bags into the store. While I was waiting for a bus across the street by Whole Foods, someone monitoring the line simply told their customers that they could not "shop into" their bags.
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