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maninsoma

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  1. It's the slip-on shoes that tripped me up. No argument from me that Dolly's original recording (not later re-recording) of I Will Always Love You is the best.
  2. I'm pretty sure his bottoming scenes with Austin Wolf and Acrodave were without condoms. Austin came on his ass but not in it, and if I remember right the scene with Acrodave suggests he came inside John but it was probably a fake orgasm.
  3. Note to everyone in the USA: Just because the age of consent might be lower in a certain country, if you travel somewhere for the purpose of hiring someone who isn't old enough for you to have sex with in the USA you can be prosecuted upon your return. I only know this because I remember reading about some man who visited Thailand a lot for sex and ended up in jail after one of his trips due to his regular hiring of guys who wouldn't be of age here. Prosecutors had a lot of evidence on the guy's phone that demonstrated the purpose of his trips was sex tourism.
  4. I don't support banning phones in restaurants, but I certainly understand a restaurant having a clearly stated policy that they don't provide discounts or comped meals/drinks in exchange for social media marketing. Some of these "influencers" have an inflated sense of their power to persuade people to patronize a specific business.
  5. I really don't understand the confusion regarding DaddyPhoenixXXX. His ad specifically states he wants to be bred all night long. Even if a trans man has had bottom surgery, he still cannot ejaculate seminal fluid out of his penis. So his request for "natural born men" makes sense. If you want to criticize him for attempting to monetize his sex life (a discussion that's been had on more than one thread here recently), that's valid. You could argue that he shouldn't be looking for a certain type of sexual experience as an escort and it shouldn't matter to him whether the top can ejaculate or, for that matter, whether someone even wants to top him. But he's far from the only escort who markets himself as offering a specific type of experience. I just don't see the leap from someone basically marketing himself as a pig bottom to making him out to be anti-trans. He may have friends who are trans but just isn't into getting fucked by them because he wants his ass to leak cum after an encounter ends.
  6. I can certainly understand why you posted that reply. It's more than a little difficult to take that post at face value.
  7. I don't think stating "no drugs" is the same as expressing a pet peeve. I think of a pet peeve is something that annoys you that might not annoy a lot of other people. Someone expressing a desire to not be around people who are under the influence of something is just setting a limit or condition. As to the second ad, it sounds like he wants to be fucked all night long with the guy cumming inside of him repeatedly. Makes sense that he only wants clients who were born male if that's the kind of experience he has to offer.
  8. I think that's the way it's always looked for me. Note that it says "featured masseurs." If you search for your area, the layout should be what you are used to because then it will display a grid of all of the masseurs in your area.
  9. If you are using a Windows computer, use Chrome instead of Firefox. I couldn't get this to work with Firefox. Go to the site: https://hide.me/en/proxy In the box on that page, paste the URL of the escort you want to view, or if you just want to access the entire site, type https://rentmen.eu Note: You will likely have to click the acknowledgment button more than once to be let in the site. Now that you've done that, when you click the link to read all reviews for a specific escort, the text will appear along with the rating.
  10. I used to regularly send a naked photo of my backside to guys because I'd rather not have a top who cannot perform with me. I've since read here that some providers actually view clients sending photos as a red flag, so if I were still in an active hiring phase I'd probably not do that any more unless someone requested it. I also used to show my face to a lot of guys I contacted because I met many of them via Adam4Adam and my main photo was of my face. Maybe I just got lucky, but I never had a problem related to a provider having seen my face. One thing I've never done and wouldn't do is have a photo that shows both my face and my naked body. Back to an escort screening out clients based on looks, it might make him seem like a jerk to some potential clients but as a client wouldn't you rather know that someone doesn't want your business so you can avoid him versus wasting time contact him? There's a guy in my area who has an attractive main photo on Rentmen but his ad headline says he's looking for Asians, so I haven't even bothered to look at his full ad since I'm not of Asian descent. If I guy's ad indicates he's looking for athletically built clients, then I know not to bother contacting him. Rather than getting my feelings hurt, it's just easier to move on to the next ad.
  11. That first bouncing pec video doesn't even show guys with what I would consider to be man boobs. You cannot be as lean as those guys are (look at the lack of fat in their faces and their muscular arms) and have pecs that large that are mostly fat. Also, if those pecs were mostly fat they wouldn't have control over them in order to make them bounce like that. I'd guess that most of those guys just do a lot of exercises that build up their pectoral muscles, so maybe the question is whether there's a market for guys with over developed chests. Or whether you enjoy being with a guy who keeps bouncing his pecs instead of letting them rest so you can lick/bite/fondle them. That being said, I do follow on Instagram one guy who does porn and he has a bit of a man boob situation going on because he's clearly got a bit more fat everywhere on his body than most guys who do porn have. I follow him because I still think he's hot and I've enjoyed some of the scenes I've seen of him.
  12. I was not attracted to Tony Danza when I was in my teens or a young adult, but I recently stumbled upon an episode of Who's The Boss in which he's wearing only a swimsuit and I was captivated. That's not the first time that's happened to me, though. I definitely had much more narrow range of sexual attraction than I began to develop in my mid 20s.
  13. It doesn't look like he was banned, but his Twitter account does indicate it has been withheld in Germany due to a legal demand. Not sure what that means, and Twitters FAQ about this didn't clear up my confusion. I'm guessing that his account is active and his content is available to some people, though. I'm sure he has an active Only Fans account, so you could subscribe and send him a message through that. Who knows if he would see your message and acknowledge it, though. If you're looking to hire him, does he have a Rentmen ad or an ad on another escort site? I have no idea whether he escorts.
  14. I've only ever had a few "regulars" even though there are more men that I hired several times: 1. I hired one guy nearly once a month for years. 2. I hired another guy whenever he was in my area, which was a few times per year, for a few years. The next closest I got to having a "regular" was a very hot Latino masseur who, after me hiring him frequently for several months, left the business. I'm sure I would have kept hiring him had he continued working.
  15. I have mixed feelings about what you wrote. From a client perspective, if what you really want is a massage with maybe a happy ending, having a masseur try to upsell you to an escort experience might seem awkward. Is the guy basically saying he doesn't want to do what you hired him for? Is the guy simply trying to get more money from you? On the flipside, though, for a provider who has both massage and escort ads I imagine that a lot of guys hire them as masseurs and then expect a lot more from the session than what would normally be included in a massage. Without making those options clear, a client could be attempting to get more than he paid for, so to speak. I really do miss the Craigslist days, though, where I could hire someone who was just starting out as a provider. A lot of the times I'd be quoted a fair rate for an erotic massage and then the guy would initiate full on sex without any suggestion of additional payment. I think that was likely to limit their exposure to entrapment by law enforcement, and maybe I just turned on more of these guys when I was 20 years younger and had a hotter ass.
  16. I checked multiple profiles last night and still saw HIV status on all of them but no mention of Monkeypox or COVID vaccine status. Interesting that they would remove those now, particularly when I just read that there is a new wave of Monkeypox coming. Do Rentmen's owners simply think COVID and Monkeypox are no longer issues, or did they remove this information for other reasons?
  17. From a prospective client perspective, I think that attempting to work a regular bar (i.e., just hanging out somewhere, striking up conversations or being open to others striking up conversations with you) and then attempting to move the interaction to a mercenary one is potentially problematic. Suggest this to the wrong person and you end up reported to management or maybe even the police. As a sometimes client, I also wouldn't really appreciate someone approaching me in that manner in a generic bar. If I'm having a simple, friendly conversation with someone I don't expect that to turn into a "will you pay me" conversation. I don't care if it's sex work or it's a dentist fresh out of dental school looking for clients -- being hit up for money when you're simply out having a drink is just socially awkward. My personal experience with this: After many visits to Puerto Vallarta, I started mostly ignoring the locals when sitting in various bars because I had too many experiences where guys assumed I was going to give them money simply because we started talking. A lot of these guys weren't even attractive enough that I would have had sex with them for free, so the notion that I would want to pay them for sex just seemed ludicrous to me. It happened to much that I just realized that a lot of guys there were desperate for money, viewed tourists as a direct source of money, and thought it was reasonable to act in a basic, friendly way (simple small talk) while in their mind already having a meter running. Very bizarre and unwanted. Mind you, I did hire lots of guys I met there on the beach or at a hotel bar or at a strip club, so it wasn't that I was adverse to hiring. I just didn't appreciate the suggestion that I pay someone come up so frequently under circumstances where I thought I was simply having a conversation with a stranger. As others have suggested, I think it makes sense that a stripper could use that position to solicit clients. After all, a guy putting a dollar in a dancer's g-string is already beginning a "pay for play" relationship so suggesting you are available for more isn't going to shock anyone and is more likely to be a welcome suggestion, not something that just seems out of the blue.
  18. Bigger than it appears in his ad? I already don't think I could take it based on what it looks like in the photos!
  19. It's funny how I have changed my opinion about streaming over the past year. Because I kept reading about new Atmos mixes being released on streaming services that weren't available to buy on any physical medium, I decided to explore streaming more fully. I first tried Amazon's "unlimited" streaming service because the cost was low (free 3-month trial, inexpensive streaming stick). I was so frustrated. Even listening in stereo was frustrating because their service kept reverting back to lossy compressed files even though I had it set up to listen to the highest quality available. I'd hear two songs in full fidelity, and then the quality would drop back. If I skipped back to the beginning of the track, it would revert to full fidelity. I never could figure out why it did this since I certainly had more than ample bandwidth to stream high quality music. Worse, however, was Amazon's implementation of Atmos music. Basically they won't let you actually listen to Atmos on any system that's capable of actually playing discrete surround sound. You can stream it on your phone to stereo earbuds, or you can listen on a "smart" speaker where all of the drivers are built into one cabinet. You cannot listen to Atmos on an AVR that's capable of decoding it. I struggled to get this to work for a month, getting no helpful information from anyone at Amazon, until I finally got the answer from another customer on Amazon's forum: I couldn't get it to work because it simply would not work. To do what I wanted to do required buying an Apple device and subscribing to Apple Music. I've never owned an Apple product before. I cannot say that I love their 4K streaming device, but it does at least do what it says it will do. And I have been able to listen to Atmos mixes, some with great pleasure and others wondering who thought their mixing choices made any sense. Given my age I'll probably always prefer listening to physical media, but I cannot argue that streaming can be very convenient. But perhaps the best part of subscribing to a streaming service is the ability to listen to stuff in full to decide if I actually want to own it on a physical disc. I've definitely decided not to buy some things after listening to them that I previously would have just purchased, hoping that I would like them. In that way, the subscription sort of pays for itself.
  20. My first erotic massage occurred when I was in my early thirties with a hunky Asian dude who was maybe slightly younger than me. I don't really remember many details since it was nearly thirty years ago, but I think I actually started out draped. At some point, we were both naked and jerking each other off. I remember hiring him a few times after that, and that started my long-running interest in erotic massage. Back in the Craigslist days, I used to hire a lot of different guys for erotic massages. I'd say a lot of them quickly turned into escort experiences since a lot of these guys were really not interested in doing the work required to give a proper massage. I typically didn't mind as I was looking for the eroticism more than the massage, but my perspective has changed such that now I want a massage when hiring a masseur and will just hire an escort if I want play.
  21. I'm not a provider, but I've hired lots of providers visiting my area. I always assumed it was as easy as choosing a location, renting a hotel room, and then listing your plans on Rentmen and the like. I know that some providers travel with clients (i.e., take trips with them), but if you're just asking about working in a different area just advertise.
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