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Regulations for reviews have been loosened up here in the Deli. An honest explanation about why he is a "scammer" should've been included in the original post.  A respected forum member has endorsed him and now this provider's reputation is being questioned without explanation. Not fair!!

Never met this provider but he has many 5 star reviews and only a couple of negative ones. Also one of our other members, Despardo, gave him a 5 star. It's not fair to trash him without giving a reason imo.

Odd that he left money at an unattended front desk, and in front of a bullet-proof glass window. 

Who cares.  

You do not get thanked or praised enough for keeping working links in front of us. 

Not really a cause for “beware”? Maybe rude, but two sides to every interaction like this.

“beware” is a huge and unfair overreaction to someone you’ve never met. Seems like a rush to judgement. You aren’t entitled to a provider’s time, attention, or photos.

Do you know for a fact that he hasn't kept client photos confidential? 

Suicide and the mental health conditions that underlie it strike me quite hard.  Even those who seek treatment often struggle.  Imagine finding life so much of a struggle and yourself so miserable that continuing to live is not your perceived better option.  Often, depression, anxiety, and a sense of helplessness are compounded by financial and emotional insecurity. 
I grieve his loss, and for his loved ones.

I agree I didn't need to say anything about the person above me's age. It's just crazy that civility just disappeared. Half the stuff I read on this forum and Twitter people would never say to the person's face. 
If you PM me I'll give you more details I'm not really sure of the rules of what I can say on a public forum. 

I appreciate the positive reviews all that met me in person so that says that, some odd ones especially all of those who assumed and not have met me in person, so that explains a lot. Meet me in person and you’ll see. 
 
AnthonyFlex 😎
NYC Based
 
 

Tristan, your are a mensch.

Tranny
“Tranny” was originally a term used by transgender people to refer to themselves.
However, over time it started to be used differently - by people who did not consider themselves transgender, to refer to transgender people pejoratively.
As a result, it is now normally considered a slur and to be offensive, but some people who adopted the “tranny” identity in the past still use it. Others have also attempted to reappropriate the term by using it to describe themselves positively.
It is strongly recommended that you do not use “tranny” to describe other people unless you are absolutely sure they are happy for you to do so, and that other people around you will not be upset by it
https://genderkit.org.uk/slurs/

Being able to communicate in English (speak and understand) doesn't mean high proficiency in writing.  If poor syntax, misspellings, off conjugations, etc., meant one couldn't speak English, a substantial minority of adults born in the U.S. couldn't claim to speak English even though there is not other language they speak.
 

Stop digging.  You came across poorly, to him and to those of us who've read this thread.  You wanted to take his pics, he (politely) declined.  That should have been the end of that particular issue, but you became obnoxious and agressive by suggesting  he must have been burned and that he was dismissive.  That interpretation says tons about you, and nothing about him.
 

I doubt his preferred pronoun is "it"

If the meal is not what you ordered, request the one you did.  As for rushing you, it's rude to occupy a table for a lengthy post-meal hangout without ordering.  If you need a lengthy post-feeding digestive period to be able to have dessert, that's on you.  If such is the case, either forgo dessert or find a way to compensate for tying up the table. 
The point here is you can't have your cake intact and eat it too.  If you eat the meal, you owe what it costs.

If the meal is not what you ordered, request the one you did.  As for rushing you, it's rude to occupy a table for a lengthy post-meal hangout without ordering.  If you need a lengthy post-feeding digestive period to be able to have dessert, that's on you.  If such is the case, either forgo dessert or find a way to compensate for tying up the table. 
The point here is you can't have your cake intact and eat it too.  If you eat the meal, you owe what it costs.

If the meal is not what you ordered, request the one you did.  As for rushing you, it's rude to occupy a table for a lengthy post-meal hangout without ordering.  If you need a lengthy post-feeding digestive period to be able to have dessert, that's on you.  If such is the case, either forgo dessert or find a way to compensate for tying up the table. 
The point here is you can't have your cake intact and eat it too.  If you eat the meal, you owe what it costs.

I have met IvyleagueMrBig and can swear to you he is real and his clients are real.  IvyleagueMrBig is everything he says he is.  I have met him several times - in LA, in San Diego and in New York.  Each time was amazing.  I have provided my phone number to Radiobob and Kevin Slater and am willing to do a video chat to prove who I am.  I am happy to post in his defense as I have found him to be a great person and incredible in bed. HE is in a class by himself.  No other provider comes close. My first session with him went an incredible 10 hours!  I have sent him a deposit for a full weekend coming up in April.  He is the real deal.  The reviews that were deleted are real; IvyleagueMrBig does not need to defend himself.  I, like his other cients, do not post often on these forums.  Because of that, I believe you think it is him.  His clients tend to be of a wealthier group and are very discreet.  How do I make sure my posts about him will not be deleted? I want you to know that the user posts you deleted are not from the provider and StarGZ and VictorX are real clients. I have met them through IvyleagueMrBig.

so kind! what a great way to participate and engage in the community. 

That must have doubly frustrated you!

Or they're just comfortable with their sexuality enough to do stuff with other men... I'm completely gay, have no interest in doing anything with women, but if someone gave me enough money, I'd consider doing something with a girl. Does that make me straight, bi, or confused? No, I just know what I'm comfortable with doing.

Stop digging.  You came across poorly, to him and to those of us who've read this thread.  You wanted to take his pics, he (politely) declined.  That should have been the end of that particular issue, but you became obnoxious and agressive by suggesting  he must have been burned and that he was dismissive.  That interpretation says tons about you, and nothing about him.