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Have to agree with glutes. It was really strange and uncomfortable... he had zero energy and did the absolute minimum. He didn't ask for money upfront for me though.

What strategies do you or your clients use to indicate you're looking for a paid experience, without getting banned?

His photos on RM are accurate, he's a young lean/skinny twink. Dick isn't bigger than average but it's nice-looking, really nice ass and looks great in a jock. He's young and new to this but eager to please. I have and will continue to repeat.

I've met up with him a few times, what would you like to know?

He was happy to provide a face pic in private when I reached out directly, you should just ask him.

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As in, he is still super fit huge pecs strong arms nice ass, just doesn't have well-defined abs. Not like he's in bulking season or anything like that, just not like super shredded. We didn't do much talking but I didn't get the sense it was very strong.

I second @FredyRay, he is the guy just not nearly as lean as the photos. Very strong and muscular. Rate was $250/hour.

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TBH I suggest you sign up for a month, message some guys, and get a feel for it. Be careful and watch out for scams, and don't directly discuss specific amounts of money or transactional sex on the site. I keep all my photos private, message them to get a vague/gut feeling for what sort of arrangement they're looking for, and then if it sounds like a match I'll share my photos and either my snapchat account, a google voice number, or my real number depending on how confident I am that they're legit. Then off-site I talk specifics + expectations.

The thing about Seeking is that there's absolutely zero consistency in expectations. Some guys want a serious long term relationship (I assume so you write them into the will and then they push you over the side of the yacht, if the TV show White Lotus is at all accurate). Other guys are interested in more of a casual BFE-type situation. And you can't really rely on the "I'm seeking" section; they just put what they think you want to hear e.g. romance and "mentorship". Personally I avoid anyone who wants to take things "slow", that's usually a good indication they believe their presence+personality alone should be enough for you. It depends but typically no, these are mostly guys looking for serious money. Some want a consistent allowance-type situation though and that might work out in your favor. Some of these guys have completely unrealistic expectations, others are in more fraught circumstances and will accept any offer.

@ProDriver Did you get any sense of whether he prefers to top or bottom?

The best guys I've met by far have been from Seeking (https://seeking.com). The downside is that most of these guys aren't looking for a typical RM-style transaction so it can take months to find and filter out arrangements I'm not interested in. Many of them are looking for long term high-value arrangements with travel, they want to take things slow, or it's some sort of scam. It's important to be very clear about your expectations but note that seeking doesn't allow discussion of explicit exchanges of money for sex so I talk about looking for something casual and then if there's interest I take the conversation to another platform like snapchat. Alternatively, as has been discussed on the forum previously, some mid-tier onlyfans creators and instagram models are open to this sort of thing if you reach out to them privately on X/Twitter or Instagram. I've never had luck with that however.

I took the leap—very energetic guy, eager to please.

Yeah no issues there.