Nightowl

If you’re up for a drive, head south to Newport/Laguna Beach.

If they’ve put your nude pics behind a paywall you should get a cut of the profits.

When I saw the subject for this thread—OF @hungskater—I imagined OF videos of a naked ice skater spinning on the ice, his manhood flying outward as he spun. I was so disappointed when I saw he was a skateboarder…

Shoot for the moon!

I for one understand. You’re in good company.

Nothing wrong with respecting the provider and his business. For me it’s a double-edged sword. I can be too respectful when it comes to asking for what I want, particularly in a massage situation when I don’t know if the guy considers himself to be primarily a masseur or also a sex worker. I opt for caution and respect, sometimes to my own detriment. Respecting his time and his privacy are always givens though.

As others have said, it varies. If the provider remains attentive, it can be nice to lay together for a while (if there’s time). If the provider immediately picks up and starts scrolling through his phone, it’s time to go your separate ways. I have one provider who really gives a great erotic experience but is somewhat awkward when it comes to conversation afterward. I usually just get dressed and leave while he scrolls through his phone.

Is it improper to moan during the exam? Asking for a friend.

Goodfellas. Absolutely hated it.

Nope.

I think you’re on to something. I’ve noticed the absence of a couple of very frequent posters as well.

When are the Mr. Planet, Mr. Earth, and Mr. Blue Marble pageants?

I’m just the opposite. Not usually horny when I book since I do it weeks in advance, but raring to go when the real situation rolls around!😂

I do the same thing. I also am more inclined to give my business to providers who use their own numbers unless I know something about them from another source such as this site.

Well, I did start my comment with “I doubt….”

If he has an OF or JFF site, I doubt that the provider would let *you* record the session since the whole point of making the video is to make money for *him*. He would most likely want to control what happens with the video. I think he’s either looking for willing guys to film and make money off of on his own OF/JFF site or not-so-subtly putting himself out there for potential porn hiring offers.

4. Thought I was a 3…

I probably wouldn’t hire someone I see often on the outside. There’s a certain appeal in seeing someone only in situations where we are going to be together. Seeing him at the gym would destroy that. I also keep my “normal” life and “hiring” life completely separate. I don’t think I would want them to overlap.

You could try showing him the video on your own device when you meet him. That way you wouldn’t compromise/infect his devices with malware. In your initial outreach to him you could just say there are some things you’d like to do with him that you’ll show him when you meet.

This is what I love about CoM. You can compliment another man on his attributes after actually having seen them.

This makes sense, though I wonder whether attraction has anything to do with it. Faced with years behind bars with no access to sexual partners of their own choosing, a lot of men would probably end up in sexual relationships with whatever is available.

The only question about orientation I’ve ever been asked was whether I was a top or a bottom 😀

A lot of guys will claim to be straight because they are reluctant to admit to themselves that they might be otherwise.

Mandy Patinkin

I’d recommend working out with a personal trainer a couple of times each week and ask him/her to build a companion program that you can do in your home gym on your off days.