Buff Daddy

Derek is part Irish, and I'm sure there will be others 😀.  🤣

Come Celebrate St Paddy's Day Sunday March 17th 🍀  at Buffdaddys.  HOT 🔥 new Studs Cobra,and Chase  from Philly, plus many of your favorite NYC guys and our growing Latino Fan Club Dancers. Email us at Buffdaddysparlourusa@gmail.com  to get on the email list. 

Come Celebrate St Paddy's Day Sunday March 17th 🍀  at Buffdaddys.  HOT 🔥 new Studs Cobra,and Chase  from Philly, plus many of your favorite NYC guys and our growing Latino Fan Club Dancers. Email us at Buffdaddysparlourusa@gmail.com  to get on the email list. 

Hi guys it's Buffdaddy. This kid contacted me last week. Saying he needs more work in NY. The place where he is working isn't doing it. I asked him to send me pics. And it's the ones of him all smooth no hair. Then last night a customer sends me his pic with him having a hairy chest and maybe it's me but looks like a different person 🤔. Again maybe it's my eyes. Has anyone actually saw him and had a lap dance?. He also told me he is leaving or has left for Paris . 

Hi libro85
We have a Event for Sunday March 17th 🍀  in Manhattan 
Buffdaddys Lap Dance Parlour.  You can email me at buffdaddysparlourusa@gmail.com 

Back in the day we had Stella’s, the Savoy, Gaiety, Kings, the cock and so many other spots where you could always find action with no drama except maybe the occasional bar fight. That’s not even the tip of the iceberg when you consider how incredible some of the sex parties, back rooms, movie theaters, bathhouses, bookstores booths and tea rooms. I met one championship top in the bathroom at penn station newark. He just stood next to me at the urinal whipped out an uncut dick that hung literally down to his knees. Within a half hour he was balls deep in this and I will never ever forget it either bwahaha
this city- and our culture in general- was much more interesting when we weren’t all normalized into cishetero judeo-christian institutionalized bland complacency and miserable self loathing numbed by chemical, religious, sexual, financial, physiological and egotistical distractions to the point that we are talking about it here rather than out there doing it.
 It was an act of bravery and defiance when we were unapologetically sexual by the very definition of our shared identity and it was so much fun! making eye contact with someone and fucking them five minutes later - it was like a shared secret language that hadn’t yet been co-opted, exploited, gentrified, whitewashed, studied in institutions of higher learning or turned into memes and tropes.
there was a certain level of danger just being in the city back then, and being openly queer meant accepting being under constant threat of discrimination, violence, harassment and abuse in many different forms. But it also meant freedom from fear of being found out, which freed us up to take risks - especially when we were watching so many of our friends die young and often assuming we were next.
I love that younger queer people don’t have to contend with as much of that bigotry anymore but I also feel sad that they won’t ever get to experience that feeling of freedom. At least not in the same way.
I think there are still several spots where things go down and I know there are lots of parties - and if i were younger I’d probably go, but I have what I need and- like clubbing and X, and too much alcohol - I already experienced it when it was at its best and choose to let those be enough

The owner posted that Bronco left after an hour citing anxiety as the reason.  

Thanks, but I’d rather go to the Bronx zoo.

I've hung out with a friend or two on occasion, but I prefer to go solo. For me personally, I like to be on my own. I go specifically for the dancers, so I don't want to feel like I'm deserting a friend when I engage in extended, um conversation, yeah conversation with a dancer or if I take off for a lap dance or three. Usually friends don't seem to care, but I did have one that said I was rude by ignoring him when a hot dancer came by to hang out. (Update, I don't hang out with that friend in the clubs anymore.) It depends on your priorities when you go out. If you want someone to hang out with & talk to in between tips & lap dances, go with a friend. That's just not what I'm going to those clubs for.

On the contrary, Long Island suburban English is very much a noticeable strong accent 😄

Yes. So many men so little time. We would lock 🔐 the front door when the porn stars started the show. During the course of the night we would close all the lights so the dancers could do naked lap dances in the dark. Good times👍

I wish everyone did that Vegas. Yes we are getting fewer and fewer. You know what I have found in all the years I'm doing this. When a place closes those that complain the loudest usually haven't patronize the club. Trust me what I'm saying. Then they wonder why Clubs have let in ladies. Ladies 🍷 drink 🍻. Yes they are annoying but a club can't survive on selling bottles of water and lurkers in the back of a club looking for a free show.🤷‍♂️. I hope Matt and Johnson's makes it. But Tampa is a tough market. You don't have the East Coast I 95 clients. Last weekend I had Axel Rockham and his BF Damien in Philadelphia doing my private party. They worked Johnson's the week of coming to Philadelphia. It was tough for them. But if they wanna work Ft Lauderdale they may have to take a trip to Tampa now and then. 
BTW. Who remembers Cupids Cabaret in West Palm Beach. I co managed with Andrew Cross in 2007-2008. Those were good days😘. 

Oh yes take it from Buffdaddy. The minor league players dont make much money.I had two Florida minor league players from Sarasota work back in the day. Both  worked  at Showorld in Babylon NY . Only had them when not playing  Baseball.  

Oh yes take it from Buffdaddy. The minor league players dont make much money.I had two Florida minor league players from Sarasota work back in the day. Both  worked  at Showorld in Babylon NY . Only had them when not playing  Baseball.  

Oh yes take it from Buffdaddy. The minor league players dont make much money.I had two Florida minor league players from Sarasota work back in the day. Both  worked  at Showorld in Babylon NY . Only had them when not playing  Baseball.  

Oh yes take it from Buffdaddy. The minor league players dont make much money.I had two Florida minor league players from Sarasota work back in the day. Both  worked  at Showorld in Babylon NY . Only had them when not playing  Baseball.  

Oh yes take it from Buffdaddy. The minor league players dont make much money.I had two Florida minor league players from Sarasota work back in the day. Both  worked  at Showorld in Babylon NY . Only had them when not playing  Baseball.  

Buffdaddy here. I do a private event in Philadelphia and NY once a month. Bars in Philadelphia. Try BarX, Stir.There are a few in the Gayborhood. You can email me buffboyzzentertainment@gmail.com. I will try and help you out more.

I spoke with Felix last Fall 🍁. I tried to get him in to do video work and appear at one of my events with Justin Case. The timing wasn't right for him. Maybe I will try again. 

I wish everyone did that Vegas. Yes we are getting fewer and fewer. You know what I have found in all the years I'm doing this. When a place closes those that complain the loudest usually haven't patronize the club. Trust me what I'm saying. Then they wonder why Clubs have let in ladies. Ladies 🍷 drink 🍻. Yes they are annoying but a club can't survive on selling bottles of water and lurkers in the back of a club looking for a free show.🤷‍♂️. I hope Matt and Johnson's makes it. But Tampa is a tough market. You don't have the East Coast I 95 clients. Last weekend I had Axel Rockham and his BF Damien in Philadelphia doing my private party. They worked Johnson's the week of coming to Philadelphia. It was tough for them. But if they wanna work Ft Lauderdale they may have to take a trip to Tampa now and then. 
BTW. Who remembers Cupids Cabaret in West Palm Beach. I co managed with Andrew Cross in 2007-2008. Those were good days😘. 

Let's not forget why we really went to the Gaiety for. The punch bowl and pretzels or chips  lol. The  boys would all stand in the telephone ☎️  room. Pay telephones  how ancient.  You could make a call or most would wait for a incoming call. They did business that way as well. The Gaiety was the best before the Pakistani guys were hired as baby sitters. Thanks Mr Guilliani.  I use to wait by the Howard  Johnsons  to make sure I didn't see anyone I knew,  before  climbing those stairs. My first time there was I believe  October of 1976.What a terrible thing that we actually had to socialize with other  Gay men in real time those days. 

Let's not forget why we really went to the Gaiety for. The punch bowl and pretzels or chips  lol. The  boys would all stand in the telephone ☎️  room. Pay telephones  how ancient.  You could make a call or most would wait for a incoming call. They did business that way as well. The Gaiety was the best before the Pakistani guys were hired as baby sitters. Thanks Mr Guilliani.  I use to wait by the Howard  Johnsons  to make sure I didn't see anyone I knew,  before  climbing those stairs. My first time there was I believe  October of 1976.What a terrible thing that we actually had to socialize with other  Gay men in real time those days. 

I remember someone called nyobserver (I think) used to post the line-up at the Gaiety on Mondays, along with comments about the dancers.  It helped me decide if I would travel to the city for the weekend. Happy memories from that place. 

If anyone is interested you can scroll back and read our old reviews. They were really good if I say so myself. We worked pretty hard on them. We had to do a lot of research. Not easy but we enjoyed our jobs. We didn’t get any freebies btw. 

Let's not forget why we really went to the Gaiety for. The punch bowl and pretzels or chips  lol. The  boys would all stand in the telephone ☎️  room. Pay telephones  how ancient.  You could make a call or most would wait for a incoming call. They did business that way as well. The Gaiety was the best before the Pakistani guys were hired as baby sitters. Thanks Mr Guilliani.  I use to wait by the Howard  Johnsons  to make sure I didn't see anyone I knew,  before  climbing those stairs. My first time there was I believe  October of 1976.What a terrible thing that we actually had to socialize with other  Gay men in real time those days.