ericwinters

For me being OLD SKOL, I won't book with a provider unless the can make a call. Even if just to confirm time and place after text.

I just found out today that xtube is gone. 😭  It had a few of my all-time favorite videos, some years old.
I've peeked around a couple others (pornhub, xhamster, xvideos) trying to see if I could find some of these old favs. 
But they all have poor search capabilities, certainly focused on the latest, and pro, etc. Some seem to yield the same 400k+ results, no matter what I enter.
One video I'm looking for is B&W. Do ANY sites have a search function with color/b&w as one criteria? I haven't found a search like that... yet. 😥
And, as xtube was failing, was there a preferred site where people were taking their videos to? 

Posting an alluring nude pic to get attention…., you’re thirsty ( as in horny) and you see a mirage of an oasis offering to quench your thirst. That’s a thirst trap! 

Photos that are obviously sexual.
Typically - pants so low that he is  showing a bit of pubic hair or his ass or maybe a thick bulge showing through the fabric of his pants.

I'm clueless. What's a thirst trap? 🤔 😆 

I'm clueless. What's a thirst trap? 🤔 😆 

https://www.adonismale.com/gallery/album/60398-damian-effler/
Had excellent luck with this 

I don't like it at all.   Harder to track and follow.    I generally like upgrades,  but this one wasn't helpful.    Just to change your travel location is an effort.    It should provide ease of use.

I'll be the contrarian here.
I think there's a lot of justification/rationalization on this site regarding rates and quality.  I actually don't think that higher rates necessarily equates to a better quality experience.  Some of the worst erotic massages I ever had were from guys who charged the most.  One of my favorite escorts (whom I hired many times) was a college student who set his rates so low that I always tipped him very generously.  My other regular had rates that were average at the time.  I also used to hire off Craigslist quite a lot and had many good experiences with guys whose rates were on the lower end, and a few times I hired guys with higher profiles for a higher rate and didn't enjoy myself nearly as much.  One of the worst was a "porn star" who just seemed haggard and very well may have been coming down off a meth bender.  I'm not saying that I never enjoyed myself with someone whose rates were towards the top of the tier; I'm just saying that my enjoyment historically has had little correlation with how much I was paying.

I am gen x gay man. I started investing in my early thirties - mostly in ETFs, IRAs etc. My elder brother was my advisor. He is straight and financially savvy. In last 8-9 yrs he stopped advising me as my money grew. I work a tech job and make more than he does. 
I have always maxed my 401k contributions and have IRAs. 
As a left brained person, I have zero interest in financial matters. I would rather play piano, watch a movie or do something else than doing spreadsheets. If i were straight, I'd be the wife who leaves all money matters to the husband. But I am gay and on my own. I am getting increasingly worried that I am not managing my money well.
Over last 5-6 years i have relied on robot investment advisors like WealthFront and Betterment. 
Can someone here recommend a gay friendly financial advisor who understands my situation (unattached financially unsavvy gay man who makes a decent income but is not a superwealthy guy) . I live in Northern California. 

I'm in rural upstate New York...and I'm not sharing!!  😆
A reasonable facsimile:

Brooks Brothers comes to mind.

That said a lot. What happened? 

So over the weekend I went ahead and met up with Jonas. I can say that he looks as good in person as he does in his profile pictures  aside from that, I definitely would not be having a second encounter with him. I would most certainly find other ways of entertainment - like cleaning up the dog poop in the backyard with my bare hands. 

Looks like his ad renewed.
I asked what rates are and got back a number with no details... 
 

Looks like his ad renewed.
I asked what rates are and got back a number with no details... 
 

@glutes….I finally remembered this guy from long ago….I hired him. Remember? I believe we discussed him here. My RM review of him is from December 2018.
https://rentmen.eu/bigdickcuteface
 

Agree, please post link to the provider. The Deli is to discuss providers, including to warn hobbyists about bad news bears.

I would report it.  If you still have a link to the provider the police will have more info than usual and may be able to find him.  

it is crazy! 
I know inflation is real, but come on... And I know that the employees who make these hotels what they are do not likely cash in at the same level as owners and shareholders.

At Sofitel...
Our urban fee (or Resident Fee) is a nightly standard hotel fee of $36.56 that includes Unlimited High-Speed WiFi, Free Domestic Calls within the US, Local Shopping Discounts, Digital Newspapers & Magazines, complimentary package handling & storage, & free EV charging with paid valet parking.

it is crazy! 
I know inflation is real, but come on... And I know that the employees who make these hotels what they are do not likely cash in at the same level as owners and shareholders.

I stayed several times at the Chamberlain in WeHo, but I’ve not visited since the pandemic.
The hotel has several advantages: I liked the location very much; the rooms are large and quiet; a decent-sized rooftop pool; the staff were pleasant and efficient; and there’s a large garage which never charged me for visitor parking.
As for the OP’s concern about scandal/being seen with various hot young men, it was never a problem for me. There are several gay men on the staff. Once the man on reception congratulated me on my date; another time, when I told the Garage that my visitor was going to extend his parking to stay overnight, the response was Have a great time.

You could check out the London Hotel on San Vicente Blvd just south of Sunset Blvd. Very convenient to Weho Bars/Clubs. You could walk from the Ramada to the London.

For that amount of money they shoud let you walk an elephant trhrough the lobby no questions asked.