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How would RM know unless someone complains, and how many clients actually do so? 
forget degree of misrepresentation, I have to say the vast majority of providers I’ve met have some detail or photo that didn’t match reality or at least aroused suspicion on meeting.
it’s so part of the culture now im sure the average provider can feel if they don’t embellish (at least) they’ll lose out to people who do …  

How would RM know unless someone complains, and how many clients actually do so? 
forget degree of misrepresentation, I have to say the vast majority of providers I’ve met have some detail or photo that didn’t match reality or at least aroused suspicion on meeting.
it’s so part of the culture now im sure the average provider can feel if they don’t embellish (at least) they’ll lose out to people who do …  

I think the average escort would also prefer to have a sense of who they’ll meet (for different reasons) so the request is likely something they’d gladly do (think of all discussion on here about do they have the right to reject potential clients) … as long as they don’t fear this could be a sting 

I'm pretty sure Venmo would close your account if they have reasonable evidence that you're using the money illegally, which technically hiring is.

I feel you on this one, happened to me recently. Voice my complaint to him and he offers to go out for lunch free of charge day after lol

They’re referring to -/ it’s harder to stay hard (they claim) when wearing a condom 
 

They’re referring to -/ it’s harder to stay hard (they claim) when wearing a condom 
 

I think many don’t even make it to sex. Just don’t get it. I’ve made the mistake of joking about it with one or two providers and unleashed lengthy descriptions engagement with their clients into this stuff - bizarre. 

I know we all have to practice tolerance and not judge others and live and let live and accept others for blah, blah, blah.......
but, holy cow.............I just gotta wonder how it all got to this point with him.......body dysmorphia?, emotional insecurity?, low self-esteem?.....the parents?!
even just going about his daily routine.......

There should be a trigger warning about clicking through to the rentmen profile.
I have seen things in that profile that I wish that I could unsee.

He/she/it likes to drain men to their last penny?
Perhaps.
But definitely not as much as he/she/it likes to drain the last drop of Botox from the tube to inject in those lips.
BTC

I just wanna know what is possibly going through the heads of guys that actually shell out all this money to him. I mean if you got an endless supply of it and just hire anyone and everyone I can see but there are so many better providers out there to hire.

Not my cup of tea…. Pass. 

Not seeing the appeal.

He'd have to pay me to want to be with him, and I'm probably 40 years older and 100 pounds heavier than him.  What's up with these fish lips?

I’m skeptical on the explanation often given “I rarely check RM messages” - why wouldn’t you check the source of the enquiry in the first place - how many other sources of business does the average provider have?

Not to bring up a topic that never seems to go well on here, but just because a provider doesn’t list PNP on their profile doesn’t mean they’re not doing it in their private life. I’ve twice experienced providers having reactions which I’m pretty sure we’re based on one of the liquid varieties enjoyed before I arrived and I had to deal with them being the only person around.
Many states have some kind of  Good Samaritan laws; in theory you won’t get in legal trouble or face questions as to how you got in the situation you find yourself if you call an ambulance for someone in distress (suspected overdose, heart attack, stroke etc)
 

Not to bring up a topic that never seems to go well on here, but just because a provider doesn’t list PNP on their profile doesn’t mean they’re not doing it in their private life. I’ve twice experienced providers having reactions which I’m pretty sure we’re based on one of the liquid varieties enjoyed before I arrived and I had to deal with them being the only person around.
Many states have some kind of  Good Samaritan laws; in theory you won’t get in legal trouble or face questions as to how you got in the situation you find yourself if you call an ambulance for someone in distress (suspected overdose, heart attack, stroke etc)
 

Re time allocated - check beforehand if a provider is including shower time, get to know you  chat time in the session calculation etc. Misunderstandings can occur. You can’t force someone to spend time with you in this business if they don’t want to, and it would hardly be pleasant if they felt forced, but the providers who have tried that stuff with me will never get rebooked so the long term loss is greater for them. 

For some the thrill of being with new providers and experiencing variety (if available in their market) is part of why they engage in the hobby vs seek out fwbs or partners if they have them. 

For some the thrill of being with new providers and experiencing variety (if available in their market) is part of why they engage in the hobby vs seek out fwbs or partners if they have them. 

I don’t need or want providers to climax - they can save it for another client or someone they actually want to be with. I often tell them this and it often provides some relief (of a different kind). I also want to avoid a situation where they’re done and they hate every remaining minute where they can’t trick themselves into feeling it’s enjoyable for them.
On a couple of occasions though they’ve actually wanted to climax during a session themselves - which surprised me. nothing  to do with me - more I guess moving from one situation to the next, not building up tension, if not seeing others that day trying to switch attention to other areas of their life perhaps … once I was surprised as given only a few seconds warning and asked where I wanted it, and on another was requested to stay a few mins to help the situation in what I thought was an attempt at upsell but apparently wasnt.
 

I hope this is the case …
My criteria is when I text and say “Hey how are you …” they don’t reply “Sorry, who is this?”
 

I hope this is the case …
My criteria is when I text and say “Hey how are you …” they don’t reply “Sorry, who is this?”
 

I hope this is the case …
My criteria is when I text and say “Hey how are you …” they don’t reply “Sorry, who is this?”