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I enjoyed my time with Joey. He does have a negative review in his old thread on this site. It sounded like a verbal altercation during the pre-screening process. However, I had no issues with him.

I have been with Joey (as part of a threesome with another escort). He's a lovely, fun guy. I think he's more attractive than his photos. Very verbal during sex, too. He lets you know he's enjoying himself.

Book him.  You won’t regret it

Had a session with Trey a few years ago. He’s legit. I’d guess he’s about 7.5”, which is still well above average. He used to live in Paducah, KY of all places. Haven’t seen his ad for a while.

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Chatted with him on SA 
like his vibe a lot 
 

I’ve been in contact, and he’s prompt and very sweet. He was sick when he visited Seattle, unfortunately. I’ll have to make a trip to ATL.

I've provided a face pic before, I knew they were new to the industry and figured they were just trying to be safe. Drew the line at a dick pic, felt scammy. They ended up flaking on me anyway, glad I went with my gut.

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You never need to provide a photo. A provider asking for one is indicative that they are new to the business, possibly unprofessional, or straight up want to monetize their sex life by picking and choosing whoever they would otherwise be willing to sleep with and charging.
When a client offers a photo unsolicited, I get a little wary because it becomes an invitation to comment on it, like the client is expecting me to affirm how attractive they are (even when they are very unattractive). Attractive clients are particularly problematic because they expect me to fall all over myself trying to make them happy, or expect me to offer them discounts or free services. It puts me in an awkward position because I either have to say nothing or lie to them, whether they be attractive or unattractive. I prefer to avoid the whole asking for validation component. I’m going to see the client regardless of how they look, so it’s really unnecessary.

Definitely no drugs. Definitely be clean (as in showered). These things aren’t unusual or especially controversial. 

It has a lot to do with the SESTA/FOSTA laws that were passed in the US back in 2018.  RM decided their best defense against US law enforcement was restricting US visitors from seeing rates and reviews.  It's also why the advertisers are "pornstars" and not "escorts".

People of Color have to work harder and for less money than their White brothers and sisters in most professions, not only in escorting. 

While it’s not the only thing that comes into play for rates, I feel like you are correct. 
 
sometimes I look at the way some providers of certain races are talked about here, and compare it to their rates and services, and I’m floored that they’re able to charge what they do.
 
And It can feel like I have to do more for less (for lack of better wording). 
 
granted I can’t speak for minorities of other races, but speaking as a black man you’re correct. 

Yes.
Don’t get wound up over this. You’ll waste time and energy if you overthink why a provider has reacted this way to you.
If, in the future, there's a point when you’d like to meet the guy again, send him a short message with your date/time. If he responds, you’ll know you’re no longer ghosted; you will become a client. If he doesn’t respond, move on.

Imagine if someone suggested that providers  charge extra for ugly clients.... The whinging would go on for pages and pages.
 

Work is work.
Somedays at work are easy. Somedays at work are hard.
It’s still work. 

No. 

Be on time

Look like your pics.

Tried booking two different guys two Fridays in a row, both canceled. The first one, texted 30 min before to say his stomach hurt and he couldn't bottom. Second, texted 45 min after we were scheduled to meet, said he was dealing with family drama. Both were booked a week in advance. Out the cost of a hotel room for both nights, and wasn't able to get anyone else last minute.
Any idea what I'm doing wrong? Just trying to not be alone, can't keep wasting money on hotels for nothing... 

Your intentions may be good but, it sounds stalkerish to me.
There was once an escort whom I had seen many times and felt very close to. I happened to find out that he and his boyfriend had a bad break up. I reached out and offered a friendly shoulder to cry on. It wasn’t well received. I learned my lesson, and now I never attempt to look behind the curtain.