Simon Suraci

I preemptively booked a whole week in a deluxe pool view room at InnDulge for next year 4/7/25-4/14/25. That room type has a better shower, more clear floor space for my massage table…and more room for various extracurricular activities. Maybe I will set up a sling 😈 

I preemptively booked a whole week in a deluxe pool view room at InnDulge for next year 4/7/25-4/14/25. That room type has a better shower, more clear floor space for my massage table…and more room for various extracurricular activities. Maybe I will set up a sling 😈 

I preemptively booked a whole week in a deluxe pool view room at InnDulge for next year 4/7/25-4/14/25. That room type has a better shower, more clear floor space for my massage table…and more room for various extracurricular activities. Maybe I will set up a sling 😈 

He sounds like a jerk.

As a gay only child, I just assumed it was a case of great good luck.

He sounds hot.

I don’t believe there is any correlation. I’ve known too many gay men that are oldest, only children, have sisters, are twins, etc. 

Not in my case (gross). I have an older brother who is a hardcore Trunp supporter, retired Army Captain, and has children all over the world. I guess I just didn't want to be him. My two youngest brothers, one of them came out to me (only me) as bisexual. He says that he likes men, but he loves his wife and son with down syndrome more than venturing getting involved with men, but he talks to me about men he finds attractive and things alike, and I'm happy that he has me to feel safe talking about it.
I have heard of similar stories about gay men having older siblings, but I also know many gay men who are only-child in the family, or who are the oldest in the family.
Personally, it's good to research and study, but I don't need any scientific explanation for me baing gay. I am, and I love it.

Maybe it's because you grow up with your older brothers using you as a cum rag ? 🤔..and you learn to dig it.

When I’m in Europe, as I am now, I usually walk at least 8 miles a day, often more. I really do walk fast, especially in the morning, unless I spot a hot young German man! Then I slow down a bit.
Appreciate the responses!

Hysterical.
And I'm happy to know you're keeping so fit. Bravo.

OMG!! So, sneakers are straight-people shoes??

When I sort through my city (a suburb of Los Angeles) I wish I could filter out providers NOT based in my search zone (i.e. “will travel to”) and only show me providers based in the area I’m searching.
Sometimes there are other factors I wish I could search via Boolean/not to filter out profiles I’m not looking for.

I know what you mean! There is an option to see only visiting providers in a city which show guys like you said either going to be visiting or have the near travel selected to that city. There is no way though to select and see only the guys who have the city set as their home base. When I am doing a search of a big city it'd be nice to weed out all the guys who aren't there and truly see only the guys available.

I find to focus on your breathing as he enters you is advisable. He should enter slowly to allow your muscles to relax while you breathe deeply. Usually when I top anxious clients I say to them to breathe deep and long as I go in. Once it’s in, and they relax then it’s possible to begin a rhythm. 
If I’m bottoming I prefer to start in cowboy, because I can control the pace and angle it goes in, especially if he’s big. I think if you’re practicing to bottom with a dildo it’s like practicing to ride a bike by using a gym cycle. You need to get on a cock and practice. Use a top who will let you go at your pace and try different things. After you have practiced you’ll probably be fine. Then you can enjoy the pleasure of bottoming in all sorts of ways. 
 

As others have said.... Dildos are nothing like the real thing.
I've taken hundreds of cocks off all sizes.  I've hosted orgies and gang bangs.  But what I won't do:  is use a dildo.  Dildos gives me no pleasure, only pain.
Try switching to a small, narrow, smooth vibrator.

It's always best to practice with another human first!
Seriously, though, doggie was the last position that felt comfortable for me.  Try either on your back in missionary (in a sling helps) or mounting as a cowboy while the top lays on his back.  Cowboy is probably the best position to learn because it puts the bottom in control of speed and position.  Doggie is probably the hardest at the beginning; but, it is the most fun once you've mastered the feeling and have become a true slut with your ass in the air!

I like Cascade Spa.  I've never had an erotic massage there but $75 for 60 min is an amazing deal.  I haven't been in several months.  I used to ask for Alan.  It was always very clean and the intake person is the owner.  Nice people.  I would walk there, and I imagine parking can be difficult. They do have parking somewhere nearby - ask when you make your appointment.  
SERVICES | Cascade Spa
WWW.CASCADETHESPA.COM  

I've had lots of parking options both times. 
Oh, I did ask him about the escapism and pleasure part of his ad.  He was very gracious and said (via text), "I'm not a judgemental person and this is an open-minded question:  Are you looking for extra services?"  I told him I wasn't (I really wasn't), and he said that part of his ad had caused confusion. He's removed that part.  I also let him know about another typo, and it looks like he tried to but didn't quite fix that. 
One reason I like to go to gay massage therapists is because I stay hard and leaking during a massage, even a therapeutic one, and I feel like gay massage therapists are less likely to be offended.  I asked him after this last session if I made him uncomfortable in any way.  He said no and said he was glad I'm his client.  

Can’t wait to see him!

I had another appointment with Chen.  I booked 90 minutes same day but he gave me 2 hours.  It was an amazing therapeutic massage again.  I was draped with a very light cloth when I was face up.  He charged $140.  When I paid with Venmo, he actually told me I was tipping too much (it wasn't a huge tip).  Anyway, he's very sweet and very professional.  I still recommend him for a fantastic massage, even if there are no erotic elements.  

Hot! 🔥 I'm looking for flights to Dallas now!

I've been to Dann several times and the sessions have been excellent in all aspects (I've used him as an aesthetician). However, I probably won't schedule him again; he's added bareback daddy porn to his resume with multiple sites. I'm not really a prude, but it sort of skeeves me out.

Dann is my absolute favorite massuer in Dallas.  I last saw him in March 2020.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37362/
When I decide to return to Dallas, it will be for 3 things:
1. Dann the massuer,
2. Steak 🥩 (meat just tastes better in Texas), and
3. The Tin Room 
 

I preemptively booked a whole week in a deluxe pool view room at InnDulge for next year 4/7/25-4/14/25. That room type has a better shower, more clear floor space for my massage table…and more room for various extracurricular activities. Maybe I will set up a sling 😈