Simon Suraci

Welcome @Ethan Woods. Would you mind posting a link to your ad(s) in your signature? I’m sure everyone is eager to get to know you, especially @TallMuscl37 Something tells me your home market is a lot closer to his than anyone realizes just yet. Perhaps you will change hearts and minds together. Heads up to help everyone avoid confusion: @Jarrod_Uncut updated his handle to @TallMuscl37

Thanks. Helped me dodge a bullet.

UPDATE I have been chatting with Scott about a group session and he told me he is disabling his RentMen profile soon because of the election. He didn’t elaborate, but I assume his concerns are to do with the direction the new administration is expected to take with regard to enforcing laws pertaining to sex work, human trafficking, and related issues. No comment on politics here. I just figured you might all like to have some screen caps to reference for when you can’t find him on RentMen anymore. He is still working and available through his phone number, just not advertising in the usual places any more once he takes down his ad. I’m not posting his phone number as I believe that would violate the site rules, but you can get his number while his ad is still up. https://media01.rent.men/public/photos/big/165/642307_1701572429_2tdu2mztx8.jpg https://media.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2024_11/IMG_0412.jpeg.3cb491cdc36e926df6b428b537030126.jpeghttps://media.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2024_11/IMG_0414.jpeg.e3b1b55875d765026f5e9ac9ad305bb2.jpeghttps://media.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2024_11/IMG_0415.jpeg.5f530229a802ca8bf0bcbab62b887287.jpeghttps://media.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2024_11/IMG_0416.jpeg.3a207f31339da3fff0cdb731dd7accec.jpeg

Of course I would! I want my clients to feel valued and cared for. I wouldn’t be taking that many escort clients in a day anyway. If I can’t offer quality service, I won’t take the appointment, period. The donut meme upthread is funny, but frankly it’s a myth. I’m not having sex with every client, and of those, chances are I’m topping. Honestly it’s mostly massage, and that’s my strong point. I’m great at sex, but you have way hotter options around in NYC for sex and fewer men who can give a high quality massage. That’s where I shine. Delivering a quality experience is very important to me, whether for massage or escorting. That’s why I tap out at 5 or 6 massages in a day, and of those appointments, only one or two, if any, would be escort clients. Plus I am washing my hands up to the elbows like a medical professional and/or showering between clients. Hygiene is not the issue here, nor my energy level. I have quite a bit of stamina but I know myself well enough to notice my massage quality goes down after 6 clients. That’s why I cap my daily max and stop taking clients. I deliver quality. So no, whatever you have in your heads about being the sixth client of the day probably isn’t a fair or accurate picture of what’s actually happening when I travel. I do a good job. I’m responsible. I can’t say that for your other hires, but I can confidently say this about the way I operate.

To clarify, you mean providers who have already taken one or more loads in their ass not long before they start an appointment with a client, correct? Or moreso in general for hookups? In my mind, they are two different things, with different norms and expectations around each. In my experience clients are divided on this. The minority really love the idea of a guy being pre-loaded, the more cum (volume) and the greater number of loads, the better. The majority are grossed out by the thought, either from a risk management standpoint or just generally the idea of their man not being “clean”, or being someone’s leftovers or sloppy seconds/thirds/etc. No judgment from me. I’ve entertained the whole spectrum as a top and as a bottom and get into it all from clean and virginal to slutty and multi-loaded. Cum is the best lube IMHO. Default scenario is for me to be squeaky clean, or if I’m topping for the client to not have any activity before meeting me. It would be quite unusual for a client to request me be pre-loaded or for the client to be pre-loaded, but I know this is a thing. I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts and see if my pulse on client sentiments is correct or off. I imagine most of you will not be into it, but a few will really like it. I’m guessing some won’t be bold enough to share their preferences in favor of raunch here so openly because they will probably experience some level of disgust or judgement from other members. Please everyone try not to yuk others’ yums. It’s ok to like raunchy things, and it’s ok to not like them. Neither is right or wrong. In a sex positive place like this forum, there’s plenty of space to celebrate the whole spectrum of interests. I hope ya’ll respect that space and one another on this thread.

Me too!

Care to share?!

Same here.

Bump. One of my clients is interested in hiring him for a group. Any information besides speculation about age and photo upload dates? Like…stuff that matters way more to the overall experience than if he’s 30 something or 40 something. Who cares! As long as he looks reasonably similar in person to the way he advertises… Is he reliable? Does he perform well with his clients? Charm? Personality?

One of my clients hired him for a group. I tried to steer him away from this guy because I knew something was not right, first with the ad and then once I started communicating with him. My client insisted, but then in person my client was sorely disappointed and asked him to leave before our time was up (and paid him). I didn’t even find this thread until after the fact, but the stuff you guys bring up were all red flags to me too. Yes, there is certainly some serious exaggeration going on in his photos. He’s a normal looking guy in person. Not a bodybuilder type, and not as striking as his pics suggest. Not a bad looking guy, but definitely not as advertised. Lower your expectations a few notches. He does not speak English well enough to have a conversation in person. I don’t fault him for that, but it did make things quite difficult. That confirmed my suspicions when leading up to the meeting his only responses were “yes”, “ok”, and a number indicating his rate. Never mind the language barrier, he wasn’t very interested in pleasing the client. He went to the bedroom and laid on the bed alone while the rest of the group was socializing over a drink in the living room. When we did get to the bedroom, he kind of just…laid there. We did things to him, but he was not very engaged with the client. It would have been a better group session without him, to be honest. I wish the guy well. Photos aside, I don’t think this is the right career for him. Save your pennies, boys, for the many other worthwhile men out there.

^ I second this. I just had a group session with Joe. He’s charming, professional, intuitive, and handsome. He looks better in person than his photos even though they are not that recent. I recommend. He’s a keeper! Communication was effortless. I can tell he really cares about making the session special for the client. He was adaptable, generous, engaged and accommodating all the way through. Good kisser. Nice genuine smile. Everything below the belt is something y’all will enjoy! He’s versatile, so it’s not just for looks. Huge plus. He makes you feel immediately comfortable and endeared to him. He has a positive presence that makes you just feel really good. A man after my own heart, really. I wish he were more available. I have other clients hiring groups to invite him to, but his day job work keeps him pretty busy and traveling somewhat frequently. He mentioned he does massage as well. Will have to trade and get back on that aspect. This won’t be the last I see of Joe. My client is already planning a threesome with us two after Thanksgiving. Whatever you might make of Joe’s photos positive or negative, look past that. He’s a worthwhile hire. Good providers do their job well and have the right temperament for this work, and those qualities often won’t come across in photos. It manifests immediately in person, though and that’s the difference between some hot guy on the street and a true professional worth your time.

^Ditto. ^Ditto. I rarely fly for new clients. Too risky. For trusted regulars, I buy my own tickets, pay my own expenses, and summarize my costs for the client to then reimburse me at the end of the trip in addition to my fee. This works out best for everyone.

I finally got to experience Reyn’s massage this week. We did a trade at our respective studios to sample each other’s work. Now I get why we have at least a few clients in common. WOW! He is talented. I felt amazing afterward. He’s one of the few to massage my rhomboids with appropriate pressure, and in a targeted fashion after I requested it. That was a highlight because barely anyone gets it when I ask. The rest was all excellent work too. He is creative, effective, balanced, detail oriented, and focused in his unique routine. Adding Reyn to my list to refer clients to him. Reyn is a quiet guy. It comes across as shy or introverted but I don’t think so. He gives the best hugs. By the way, he’s a really attractive guy! I don’t prioritize that aspect like many of you do when seeking out massage therapy, but I’ll say for your sakes he is a fit and fine looking man all around. I won’t discuss sensual stuff here or by DM; please contact him directly if that is important to you. He offers options on his RentMasseur blog.

I’m having a hard time getting a hold of the guy. I texted him a couple days ago and he said he’s interested. I confirmed he uses a burner app so some of the messages do not go through, depending on the content. It seems explicit content or certain types of content the app will not deliver to him. Some of the other guys I’ve contacted mentioned the burner app issue. I have no idea my message was blocked, so it seems like they’re ignoring me, and they are probably put off when the next message they see from me is something along the lines of “Just following up on my last message with my client wishlist items. Are you still interested?” It’s been hit or miss. I tried messaging on RentMen Messenger as an alternative. Hopefully he gets back. I’d hate to miss out on bringing him in for a hot group session because of the technological glitch. Seems a shame he loses confidence or interest because his own messaging app won’t receive messages containing content one might commonly discuss with an escort. It’s like asking Home Depot for a hammer and they don’t get the memo because anything regarding tools is blocked. Different tools we are discussing here, of course…

I met Bruno for a group session on Sunday. He’s a big tall beefy muscle guy for sure. He walks like he just got off a long horse ride with those large leg muscles. His pics are more flattering than in person, more trim in the pics, but if muscle is what you like, I’m sure you will not be disappointed. Hairy daddy type and attitude. He’s got a heavy Czech accent. He said he’s lived in the US for many years, at least 10 from what I gathered in conversation, Florida and traveled all over. Bruno ignored not one but literally all the instructions I gave him, which he agreed to ahead of confirming the appointment. The client was disappointed. Not with how he looked or performed per se, but he literally did nothing on the list the client wanted him to do, other than participate in the escort group play. Bummer. Be careful with this one. If you have specifics in mind, you might not be getting them. He will do his thing, but maybe not entirely on your terms. It might be a case of miscommunication, like him not understanding and not asking questions ahead, but whatever the case be sure to be very clear about what you want. Maybe a simple vanilla scene with him topping and very little other direction might be easiest for everyone involved. Good luck to everyone considering hiring him. We enjoyed Bruno despite everything.

I missed the question in the OP’s post. Was there one?

I don’t mind early morning appointments as long as the client books ahead. One of my clients books an hour bondage session weekdays at 7:00am. Another regular likes a massage at 8:00am. I need notice for these. I can’t with these guys hitting me up late night expecting me to barely sleep, still get up, and commute for a butt crack of dawn call 30 miles away. Come on people, be realistic. That 8:00am client recently requested his usual, but he texted me at 7:05am the morning-of, when I was just waking up. I couldn’t take the appointment because I would have had to get up at 5:15am to fulfill it. There was just no way. Maybe it’s different for providers working out of where they live. It was easier for me to operate that way when I lived where I took clients. Please be courteous to your providers. It’s one thing if he’s flagging himself available on his ads at 6:00am. By all means, go for it. It’s quite another to request a last minute early morning appointment out of the blue. For escort stuff, I’m best in the mornings. My testosterone is at its peak and my cock is ready for action. Ideally I sleep well the night before so my energy and mood are optimal. Evenings still work, it’s just an extra boost for clients booking mornings.

Has anyone seen him for escort service? Maybe like others say he is not a great hire for massage, but sometimes guys are better at one vs the other service. He has a RentMen profile here: https://rent.men/paxtonjames Please DM me if you have experience.

Regarding the # of clients per day @BaronArtz mentioned: the majority of my clients are massage. Depending on the details of my client needs beyond massage, I would take maybe 0-2 escort clients a day. I don’t know if that makes a difference to you, but whether I am doing massage, escort work, or some combination, the pure economics of the thing make it unrealistic for me to see only 1-2 clients a day as a traveler. It may be more pleasant to imagine you are my first and only client in a 24 hr period, but that’s a fantasy given the economic factors at play. Maybe book in the morning, then? 😉 So far in this thread I am hearing that to give myself a fighting chance of success, I really need to rent a decent incall space in Midtown Manhattan to capture the interest of a majority of my potential NYC client pool. Manhattan clients are unlikely to travel outside Midtown, and very unlikely to see me in other boroughs or peripheral cities. Clients on the periphery would be more likely to travel in to see me in Midtown.

Bump. Surprised nobody has reported back on any experiences yet. I don’t need to see his private gallery, no interest, but he does say on his profile when you request to unlock to send information regarding your intent to schedule. Sounds like he only wants to share with people seriously considering hiring him. That’s not the way it works, of course. You look at pics among other info to determine if you want to hire. Still, to be fair, he shows plenty on his public gallery for a client to see if his physical attributes are what you want. If you want to view the gallery, you need to play along. That dynamic increases the number of unserious inquiries for him to deal with, which does the opposite of what I believe is his intent, but hey, if he likes that, good for him.

Cash is king.

Aw…bummer. I’ve been having trouble for a while too.

Someone IS hiring us together…pending further info…that’s why I ask… My chief concerns are reliability, adaptability, professionalism, and then compatibility with what a client wants for a particular scene.

Bump. I’m interested.

There is no magical number of reviews to guarantee the guy will be a good fit for you. My advice: research as best you can, weighing the positives, negatives, and unknowns. Measure your risks against your potential rewards. Then, assuming he checks enough of your boxes, hire the guy. See how much YOU personally enjoy your experience with him. Your experience may differ from someone else’s publicly posted review. Providers with hundreds of positive reviews can be problematic, and guys with zero or few reviews can be great. You never know for sure until you make an informed decision to hire him. Worst case: you’re out some hundreds of dollars. Best case: you enjoy and re-hire with confidence. Reviews carry weight, but you can’t rely on one source. Reputation goes beyond one particular site or reviewer. See if he has other sites with reviews posted and find the common threads between them. Chat with others who’ve hired him to confirm information in his profile, information in his reviews, and ask questions. The information most important to you won’t always be shared so freely or explicitly in reviews. Here on this site is a good place to start.