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Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Relax.  It's all about perspective.  Just a few days ago you posted that you had a RM conversation with a provider, and it was YOU who were "afraid to commit".
Remember that you have successfully met with providers in the past, and follow the formula of what works.  Brief conversations.  Keep discussions to date, location, and price.  Don't pay in advance.
If you're having conversations with providers via RM and are "afraid to commit", they may be blocking you.  Not because of your age or weight, but because they don't want to waste their time on conversations for which they aren't being paid.
 

He sounds like a nice guy and treats you like a valued client. I am a business professional and as I get to know my clients better, we often exchange details at a personal level. But I never confuse our friendly interaction as “friendship” - we are friendly, but it is a professional relationship where they pay me for my services.  I would recommend that you be super sure that it is friendship and not just a friendly situation.  Dont get carried away and emotionally involved - it is easy to make the wrong determination and that can end up being hurtful to both of you.  Good luck!

Chances are that the provider does not care what your life away from him entails as far as your orientation, or at the least, he does not care about knowing as much as you care about telling.  So when you are ready, tell him what you want him to know.  He has heard it all and it likely does not rub him the wrong the way.  
As far as being out, I was happy in a monogamous heterosexual relationship and as a result, I did not start seeing men until I was almost 50,  It seems that at that age no one really cares with whom you have sex and it may be that some do not believe that sex happens for people over 50. Being widowed, did occasionally raise the question as to whether I would date again or marry again.  I did ty dating again and did not care for it with either sex.   In any case, my situation now is Don't Ask, Don't Tell.  They don't ask and I feel no responsibility to discuss my sex likes with them.  I also do not ask them about their sex life.  To me, it is rude to ask  and it is really none of my business if my friends or relatives are having sex, how often, with whom, in what position.  On the rare occasion that sex comes up in conversation with my friends, it is usually relating funny experiences and long past stories, which have been told numerous times in the past. 
In my office, I do have a gay pride flag that was given out by the hospital years ago and which sits wordlessly on top of a cabinet. If people notice, they do not ask.   A few months ago, while taking photos for a graduation of medical residents, there was a different group taking photos for Gay Pride month and they asked for Gay and Gay Allied persons to join their photo.  I did so.  Again without comment from me or to me.  
So really, at this point, my sex life to others is more. Don't Care and Please Keep it to Yourself.  

Tristan is unusual as far as his rates go.  I give him money and then he gives me back money, then I say it is not enough and try to give him more money and he refuses.  It adds about 15 minutes to every visit.  It is all good natured and no matter what he is charging, he is worth it.    

Feliz Navidad Prospero Ano Nuevo 

Feliz Navidad Prospero Ano Nuevo 

Hi, thanks for translating that post.  
  

AF he has been as single As Fuck. Amusingly, in this sentence, as fuck means without fuck. 
 

definitely prefer the beefy one to the skinny ripped one.  Very handsome man either way.  

AF he has been as single As Fuck. Amusingly, in this sentence, as fuck means without fuck. 
 

AF he has been as single As Fuck. Amusingly, in this sentence, as fuck means without fuck. 
 

Maybe they say 'happy holidays' because they don't know if you are jewish, christian, muslim, atheist - and they just want to be kind and encompassing of everyone.  Your theory is weak- if you don't like people saying happy holidays XXX just say that! 

Checked out the full 100 List.  Succession was way too high in my opinion.  There were none on the list that I truly disliked but Jeopardy was very low for a show that is legendary and still going.  

It could be that he is well aware of the meaning of Peligro and that is just the audience he is looking to attract.  Similar to that New York Politician, Anthony Weiner, who was also known as Carlos Danger.  I guess if your name is Weiner, Danger seems a step up.  

Some sexy underwear would work if you know his size or his brand.  Add a small gift card to that if you want to do more.  
 
 
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definitely prefer the beefy one to the skinny ripped one.  Very handsome man either way.  

Unless the statue shows Jesus having a religious experience with Mary Magdalene in exquisite detail, it would seem that this will come down to a freedom of speech issue, if all other local ordinances are met.  
Should Mary Magdalene be on her knees and reciting the 23rd psalm in a sultry way,  a community standards issue will probably stop the construction.  
“For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” Psalm 23:4.   I suppose most of us have been comforted by a rod or a staff.  

People have been getting screwed b the Senate for years, this one is just recorded for posterity 

Unless the statue shows Jesus having a religious experience with Mary Magdalene in exquisite detail, it would seem that this will come down to a freedom of speech issue, if all other local ordinances are met.  
Should Mary Magdalene be on her knees and reciting the 23rd psalm in a sultry way,  a community standards issue will probably stop the construction.  
“For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” Psalm 23:4.   I suppose most of us have been comforted by a rod or a staff.  

Unless the statue shows Jesus having a religious experience with Mary Magdalene in exquisite detail, it would seem that this will come down to a freedom of speech issue, if all other local ordinances are met.  
Should Mary Magdalene be on her knees and reciting the 23rd psalm in a sultry way,  a community standards issue will probably stop the construction.  
“For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” Psalm 23:4.   I suppose most of us have been comforted by a rod or a staff.  

Ah, Karl Malden's nose.  He never left home without it.

The powder is often Nehi.

Unless the statue shows Jesus having a religious experience with Mary Magdalene in exquisite detail, it would seem that this will come down to a freedom of speech issue, if all other local ordinances are met.  
Should Mary Magdalene be on her knees and reciting the 23rd psalm in a sultry way,  a community standards issue will probably stop the construction.  
“For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” Psalm 23:4.   I suppose most of us have been comforted by a rod or a staff.  

Unless the statue shows Jesus having a religious experience with Mary Magdalene in exquisite detail, it would seem that this will come down to a freedom of speech issue, if all other local ordinances are met.  
Should Mary Magdalene be on her knees and reciting the 23rd psalm in a sultry way,  a community standards issue will probably stop the construction.  
“For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” Psalm 23:4.   I suppose most of us have been comforted by a rod or a staff.