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I recently retired and soon after my move to Palm Springs, I started going to the gym each day. My intention was just to improve my level of fitness and, as the gym is one which caters to a very high percentage of gay middle aged men, to ogle those men who have not been remiss in going to the gym. The gym has many very muscular men and lots of fit men of all ages. Going to the gym has been much easier as I know that there will be all kinds of eye candy there. The people have been extraordinarily supportive of a fat old man doing walking laps. I have receieved unsolicited encouragement from dozens of people at the gym and it has made this transition to a healthier lifestyle much easier. On the first day, I walked a mile and when I was done, one of the trainers came to speak to me and encourage me to keep at it. Several days later, I saw him again and I asked to speak to him about an eventual training session. He asked me what my goals were at the gym and I told him that my immediate goal was to be able to get up off the floor unassisted. He said that he likes people with realistic goals and there should be no trouble reaching this milestone. He left, I sat for a bit taking in the view and then went to rise from the chair only to have the leg twist and buckle and I landed on the floor. After the inital shock of being on the floor wore off, I looked around and no one was coming to give me assistance and so I need to get myself up. I eventually succeeded just as some men noticed me and came to assist. They were fairly hot looking and I was tempted to throw myself down to the floor just so they would help me up. Instead, I thought, well my first goal was accomplished so time to set a new one. My follow up goal had to do with activities at the gyn and my personal appearance. As a fat men over 60, it had been awhile since I had seen my penis without the use of a mirror and some belly shuffling. So my goal became to see my penis. Only two methods came to mind, lose substantial gut or get a bigger penis. I would have preferred the getter a bigger penis option, but that did not seem viable, so I opted for the lose some of the gut al.ternative. Two month later, my walking sessions have stretched to almost an hour and I have increased my distance by 2.5 times the original. Clothes are looser and energy is higher and yesterday was the day the second goal was accomplished. There, while looking down at my feet, was an old friend I had not seen for years. He looked good but a bit less robust than I remembered him. Still, I was happy to see him and soon afterward he appeared to be happy to see me. So now that I have reached my second plateau, do any of you have any suggestions as to what the third goal should be? I intend to continue going to the gym, even through the summer inferno of Palm Springs but a fun and achievable goal makes the whole process easier. I will be adding some light weight training to my regimen. I have considered that a pec bounce might be the next goal but I am open to suggestions.

Feet a a frequent fetish and the guys who show them know this and feet=ure them. Also odd, i have known several escorts who do not take their socks off during sex and do not want their feet seen nor touched. I am not into feet in general but just like the dance of the seven veils, it is the covered that I will, find, at times, the most desirable. I enjoy taking men to a slightly uncomfortable place during sex, only as to expanding their horizons and also feeding my control desire. So I will consider it a feat to uncover those feet.

It may not be the escort quality has changed but rather it is your specifications have narrowed. When I first found a male escort site, I had had minimal male male contact and none in 30 years. I found 3 men I was interested in meeting on a site that had 500 men or so. I decided to experiment and I hired two of the men. I enjoyed being with both of them very much and in the intervening years I have come to love my time with men. After my initial perusal of the ads and my first experiences, my tastes broadened. I found more and more kinds of men of interest and as a result I hired a wider range of men. After a bit, I became more selective again. Having discovered there were men of all types that might interest me, but really my main interest was in the men not in the type of men. So I became a client with only a few men I would see and slowly added and subtracted from that list as time, inclination, location and of course money permitted. While I am sure I would probably pick those original three men out of a similar escort lineup as I did in 2004, I find now that the men I like are older, more intelligent, more accommodating and less dangerous than the men I first found intoxicating. I find that locating men with these qualities is a bit more difficult to find than the qualities searched for after my initiation into hiring. And so, yes for me there is less of a selection, but that is more my doing than it is the quality of the men out there. It is just that big muscles, a thick dicks, a handsome face and a nearby location will get me to window shop, I am looking for much more than that in the men I hire.

So Mrs. Lincoln...other than that, how was the play?

It seems no one is coming at all. Time and tide wait for no man in or out of the closet.

From your description, you need to take a long hard look at yourself and figure out why you have passed up these opportunities with people you love and gay friends. It may be that you nned to look in that mirror and self acceptingly, fully come out to yourself and then go from there.

So deep that he may be in Narnia?

I agree with pubic_assistance in that as a bisexual man, my approach to men and women is different. The difference is stark. As a younger man, women needed to be seduced while it was often the women that was surreptitiously doing the seducing. The expectation of that female seduction usually was not a quick fuck. If that is what a woman wanted, especially younger women, all that was needed for that was a willingness to do it. So in dealing with women, it was mostly a slower process and with an expectation that it was not going to be a one time thing/. Sometimes it was intentionally a one time thing but that remained unspoken. When I was 35, I decided that after years of refusing set ups, I would go on blind dates. I then told all my friends and acquaintances thjat I wsa willing to go on blind dates. In a two month period, I have 25 to 30 blind dates. I was a single, relatively good looking, reasonably fit doctor willing to go on blind dates. This is in the pre computer age. I wound up having sex with about 8 of those women. but only one on the first date. Granted as a fix up, these women did not necessarily want to risk having it known by their fixer upper that they were willing to have sex on the first date. But the standard was at least one and usually two dates before sex. With men however, it seems that if you do not have sex at the first opportunity, they are moving onto to the next guy. The standard seems to be that sex is expected. As a result, everything is more upfront. Most men I have met are of the opinion that any sex is better than no sex. I have rarely found women who felt that way, though these days older ladies are much more willing. The problem is, that sex is only one thing with the women and with men, usually, it is the only thing,

All recoomendation with link to RM from page 6 on, only Jack Ryan gives a glimpse of the goods in the regular part of Rentmen. I trust the posters, but speedo pictures only give a small protion of the story.

I hired a couple many times. Munroe and Ross, back 30 years ago. Not sure if they are still in the business. They were great together and there was not awkwardness. Eventually I preferred one to the other but never pulled the trigger on hiring only one, so that was a missed opportunity. I have set up threeways one a few other occasions and hired them separately. Mixed result. One was for an overnight, which was a mistake. The guys were well reviewed individually and one was an escort I hired numerous times with great sarisfaction. It really did not work out well. Another situation I had an appointment with an escort, who convinced a friend who was an escort to join us. I had done a favor for the friend and the first escort thought this would be a way of paying me back. REally, the first escort had the hots for the second guy and this was an opportunity to get action that he was not otherwise getting. Both very hot, but the roles were not clear and so there was a lot to organize for an hour appointment. Ultimately, it was a good experience for me and them, which had the potential to be great, but one hour is not enough for a threesome and in general, I would still prefer guys who have been together..

I intended to be brief but I was not. Skip to the last paragraph for a brief summary if you do not want the details. I have mentioned this is the past but I will repeat it, briefly, here again. At 17 I was picked up while hitchhiking and was offered $50 dollars to allow the driver to blow me. I agreed, as I needed the money, and afterwards he gave me $20, which considering my shock at doing this at all, was something I was willing to accept and get out of the car. By the way, I drove while he blew and then when he wanted to stop because his back hurt, I forced his head doen until I came in his mouth. Two years later, visiting a friend at college, we had a drunken encounter which resulted in frottage. We are still friends 50 years later and have not discussed it since. He visited me this week and revealed to me that he was sexually abused as a child and that he found it difficult to speak of sexual matters. He also told me that he lost his virginity to a woman that was aggressively sexual and in control of the entire act. In any case, my sexual encounters from that point until after my wife passed, were strictly with women. I had practically no interest in men as a sexual partner and if my wife had not passed before me, I believe that I would never had any other sexual encounters with a man. After my wife died, I tried dating women and having sex with women and after two years, I found both of those activities unsatisfying. I then noticed a friend of one of my employees who was a Romance novel coverman and prone to wearing form fitting clothing. Later, I discovered that he was a male escort catering to men and women, when I hired him sight unseen from an agency and he showed up at my door. Anyway, one day he came to go to lunch with my employee and I noticed him and thought, I could fuck that ass. So soon after, I found a site on line with male escorts and went through the entire catalog of about 500 pictures, and I found three men who I thought I would be able to fuck. I contact the two local ones and arranged a meeting with each. The first encounter was terrifying in anticipation but life altering in completion. The day after I hired him, and leaving the hotel stunned by my activity, I awoke with an erection and wanting more from him. I hired him again that day. Since then, I have had sex with men and women. I find men more satisfying in general but I still enjoy the company of women. So, in conclusion, I have sex with men and women. For the first half of my sexual years, I had sex almost exclusively with women. Now, I have sex predominantly with men. I have never discussed my sex life with members of my family nor with professional acquaintances. Several weeks ago, having brunch with a gay couple I met through the forum, one member commented about my ogling a women and said that he did not realize that I liked women. So I came out to him about that.

Bumping this up so an newbie who asked about him can find the thread.

I am not a big porn fan but Brock Masters as the top in this has a great body and a deep sexy voice and his fucking kind of keeps time to the musio probably more correctly the music keeps. time to his fucking, The music at the beginning I believe is an oboe which is getting blown in time to the BJ.

Not a roid gut/. Roid guts are protuberant, rounded and if not for the great physique and some abdominal cuts that goes with it, might be considered a beer belly. It is also called Palumboism after a bodybuilder, Dave Palumbo who was the first one widely known to have this result of steroid use. Click redirect notice for much more info. Redirect Notice WWW.GOOGLE.COM

First of all, i would make sure the provider is aware that you would like him to be subdued in appearance. Lots of escorts wear form fitting or skin revealing shirts and pants that emphasized the goods and for good reason. They got it, they flaunt it. Except in this case, you want to be sure he is not flaunting it too obviously in view of the co workers. Otherwise, I would say, the sexier the better. Prepare a cover before hand in that, in general conversation about the trip, mention a friend or relative who lives in that city with whom you will be having a meal. That way, a man coming up to your room can casually be dismissed as that friend or relative. You want to have a room on a separate floor if possible. You do not want to be inhibited in expressing your excitement especially if the provider hits all your buttons and control is not on full. Finally, what happens in your room is not the business of your coworkers. I can respect your desire for privacy and so should they. Also, if you are there for a conference or a meeting. You might want to schedule your encounter during those meetings and then excuse your self as to not feeling well. Tell someone you are headed back to your room to take a nap and that you will probably be unavailable for the rest of the day. All that prep will give you some sense of security/ But most of all, plan to enjoy the encounter. Is your escort well reviewed here? You might want to share his name so as to get some feedback from others who have hired him.

The most impressive part is covered.

Credit card on automatic fuil pay each month. One credit card that I use and one that I do not jthat I have ust in case the other one is lost or more likely misplaced. Misplaced my one credit card on my move to Palm Springs and did not have an extra and the temporarily misplaced card resulted in a bit of a hassle, which resulted with my three dogs and I sleeping in my car in my garage. (Furniture had not arrived and there was a black out on my street in Palm Springs the day I arrived.) That of course is another story, but as a result, I got the backup credit card. Before that, it was just the one card. So, for me, no debt except for my eternal indebtedness to those that bring joy to my life.

The building looks a lot worse in person than in the pictures. All the people who were injured have been released and life goes on.. tomorrow 107 degrees.

I saw the original and i saw this one. The original one seemed contrived and off putting, but it was still better than this one. And did they add that bit of information at the end to try for a Season 2? So the sequel would be Four Seasons Reunited or Fifth Season or Four More Seasons. I prefer No More Seasons.

Yes it was a minty gum and I popped it in just before he arrived to freshen the breath a bit. Howvere things progressed so fast that I still had the gum in my mouth when I had his cock in my mouth. Next time, it will be a mint and out before any other activity.

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If you are interested then try again. Providers screen many calls and no doubt this one has seen and heard it all as you mentioned he is experienced. That being the case, he may have read you as a time waster. That misjudgment should not preclude you from trying again. He was not rude, just matter of fact.

Draven Navarro stayed at Canyon Club during one of the Forum weekends. He was staying on the second floor and watching him descend the staircase to the pool area was a treat but watching his asscend was even better. He wore a tight speedo and he had a magnificent physique. Finally, he was coming down to the pool area out to the entrance way and I followed him. I asked him to lunch and told him I would like a longer encounter. He said he would meet me for lunch at the restaurant next door in 10 minutes. 20 minutes later, I was not hopeful, but he then entered and my heart raced. Wearing short shorts and a tight tank top, he looked amazing. Conversation was easy. After lunch, we went back to my room and the sex was great. For some reason, I was chewing gum and it became entangled in his pubic hair. He said he could not cut it out as he was filming a movie. He wa a bit distressed but I took some vodka used that to suck the gum out. After that, I continued to pour vodka over his body and suck it back up. So, I got laid and drunk at the same time. I was supposed to meet him in DC during IML a few months later. I went across town to meet him only to be stood up. I was kind of stranded on the side of town in which it was difficult to get a service to pick you up. Eventually I caught a bus. It was disappointing not to see him and the travel was exhausting. He did call to apologize to say that he was napping and did not hear the door. He was not sorry enough to reschedule however. He said he was busy the rest of the time he was in DC.

These visits are for you not for him. So if you want to see him, you do not need an excuse to make the appointment. What you do need to do is reevaluate what you are expecting in return for your fee. If you are expecting a sensual or sexual experience with someone who has the skills to bring you pleasure, then by all means continue. If you are expecting to feel special other than during your appointments, you need to look elsewhere.

To my mind, credit cards and cash apps are a means of authorities keeping track of what I am buying, where I am buying it and how often. While I have no reason to care who knows what I buy, I am not generally in favor of giving out such information. If I want to buy a sex toy, why should anyone with access to my credit information know about that. I was recently scolded by an escort for using cash. He wanted an app payment. He grudingly has been accepting cash but he claims it is extra work for him to go to the bank and there is the possibility of loss of cash. On the other hand, I have chastised him about not having cash. I guess when it is usually the case that someone else is paying , that there is no reason to have cash for small items. In 1969, in freshman English I wrote a short story about a time when you needed indentification to pay with cash. The protagonist of the story did not have traditional identification and tried convincing the salesperson that his autographed Joe Namath poster that he was carrying should be more than adequate to prove his identity. more than half a century later, the plot of my story has come to pass except very few people know who Joe Namath is. In 1969 he was one of the most famous people in the US.