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There seems to be interest in having a Friday intro meeting and I have decided I will attempt to follow in the footsteps of DavidSF and have a meeting at my home on the Friday April 10. It does mark the anniversary of the Titanic setting sail, so I hope to be a better fate with this undertaking. I would like to get a head count, as David tells me he always had food left over but he was doing barbecue and as I do not have a grill, I will be doing something different with finger food and some more substantial fare. My house has an old pool and a small hot tub and limited shade so bring sun protection. I also have dogs who will be in a separate room to insure their safety and to prevent you from being licked into submission. I expect the doors to be open at 2 PM and that people will be on their way to other plans in the early evening. If you are planning or thinking about coming, please drop me a message here with your e mail and I will send you the particulars including the address. For those who know Palm Springs, I live in the Demuth Park area, right near Local Animal Shelter near the inersection of Gene Autry and Dinah Shore, an easy 8 minute drive from DownTown Palm Springs. Lots of parking as there is a lot across the street in the park.

The resemblance to the Heated Rivalry men is startling. The entertainment industry seems obsessed with copying anything that becomes successful. Usually this results in a generally poor imitation which causes viewer fatigue with the original successful concept. For example. Addam's Family. Munsters. I Dream of Jeannie/ Bewitched with more recent examples being Dancing with the Stars/ So You Think You Can Dance. It seems the educators of the people who become entertainment executives never taught them not to copy off of their neighbor's paper.

One last night's sleep on this and will have an answer. Thanks for the interest

You have people who rarely if ever speak in front of large crowds of people, speaking to a hall full of celebrities and an audience of many millions of people. There are rightfully nervous and want to get everything in 30 seconds. It is an very difficult task and few succeed in handling it to any extent. Those that do are brief and prepared but rarely interesting. The world is full of people who commit year of their life to their craft and who make enormous sacrifices and are paid poorly and are part of a team. Most of those people do not get to make a speech in front of millions of people. The craftsman who help make the movies are among those people. A well prepared and brief speech would be fine but cut out the Bob, Carol, Ted and Alice especially if it their agent, the President of Pixar or their acting teach who is "by the way gay". Points toward the purchase of Tom Selleck moustache wax for anyone explaining that reference.

For the most part, even avid movie fans have little interest in the awards, but there is a brisk gambling portion that brings some viewers to the show. Acceptance speeches run the gamut from horrible to terrible. A simple, thank you as Alfred Hitchcock uttered when receiving an award for people who should have won an award but never did. I would love to see someone go up say: "Thank you to all the people who made this possible my family, friends, mentors and colleagues" and then sit down. That person would be the most popular winner of them all.

I am hoping his debut will give me an auspicious boost. It is always fun to have escorts attend the pool party and the dinner. It gives them the opportunity to meet potential clients and to meet colleagues to compare notes. I look forward to meeting your friend.

When I remodeled my master bedroom and bath, I increased the shower to a steam shower, 5 x 6 feet with a built in bench and wall and overhead sprays and a hand held spray. That shower is one of the few things I miss since my move to Palm Springs. Sometimes we would start in the shower, sometimes we would head to the shower afterwards. The multiple shower heads frequently led to multiple episodes of head in the shower. The steam also was a great feature. Some escorts would ask if I minded them taking a steam and I always obliged. We would sit on the bench and talk or fondle or kiss. Whatever the moment brought was an additional bit of fun. I have dozens of photos of escorts such as Tristan Baldwin and Vin Marco and Apollo Phoenix and Bobby Biceps taken from outside the steam filled shower. or just with them showering. Always taken with permission and kept private and on my phone for an occasional pick me up.

David SF has, in the past, had a small get together at this home the afternoon of the Friday before the Saturday dinner. It gives people a chance to meet and get into the spirit of the weekend. It seems that David is not doing that this year and If there is interest, I would consider having it at my home. So if you would be interested in attending, let me know and if there is sufficient interest I will decide. Please send me a note on this forum's mail. I will wait a week to see if it seems a worthwhile endeavor as I would have to make arrangements for food and drinks. I do have a pool and hot tub which would be open if there is interest.

i went to school in Buffalo which made the tournament and went to the Sweet 16 from the MAC about a decade ago. This year they were mediocre, 17-14 they lost to Miami twice. Once in overtime after Miami tied it on a last second shot and another time by a few points after leading most of the game. There is something to be said for these smaller school going to the tournament, but they just do not have the players to win 7 games in a row over top notch basketball schools. Miami made the tournament along with Akron from the MAC but they have to play a play in game to make the final 64, so that makes it 7 games. Still, if a team can win 31 games in a row, they deserve a shot. Also the Big 4 conferences will not place the better small conference schools on their schedule for fear of losing. So they deserve a penalty for that kind of hide and seek scheduling.

This may be work for an escort but most of them want to enjoy the experience. This is not a quiz where they need to study up and figure out what you need. Speak up. If you want to be tied down and have your dog lick peanut butter off your scrotum, speak up because most people are not going to guess that no matter how energetically they work.

I am curious if those who have posted here saying they have difficulty asking the escort for what they find enjoyable, find it difficult in general to ask for what they want or need. If the answer to that is yes, a good starting point to getting over this is with an escort. You are paying him for his "time" and for his expertise. Utilize both to get what you want and to assist you in being more forthcoming in your not escort hiring life. I have had times in my life when I was shy about asking for I wanted and guess what? I did not get it. Escorts and friends and family and clerks at the shoe store are not mind readers. Ask and ye shall receive or at least, you can move on to someone who may give be better at giving it to you.

Hand job is the most common happy ending, but any orgasmic release qualifies as a happy ending when receiving a massage.

I was a wrestler in high school and after gym class wrestling we were told to take a shower. I was always erect or nearly so after wrestling, which is not unusual in the sport. At the beginning, I felt self conscious about it. In time, it made no difference. I think American attitudes toward nudity is ridiculous and even now, at the gym I attend, there are men showering with shorts and dressing and undressing under a towel. This gym is predominantly gay, so this behavior is surprising. On the other hand, in the steam room I have seen all sorts of sexual activity up to and including a guy being pig roasted.

I go by the bang for the buck principle. There is no way this guy is going to give me 3 times the bang compared to a $500 escort, which is already stretching my financial willingness. So, attitude plus price equals a no from me. Others may enjoy his pleasures, I will enjoy the pleasure than my $1500 an hour brings me in many other ways.

May he have another please?

There is a difference in statement of fact vs one own's held belief. "Rep.....suck. Rep....suck IMO." Statement of fact? Personal belief? Without the IMO it is not clear which I am stating and as a result, one may have confusion about my meaning. So, as with everything else, there is a place for its inclusion. In this case for clarity sake. I for one hate repertory theaters but I admit that others may feel differently, hence. Rep...suck IMO.

YES to both. I have had regulars I have seen for as long as 15 years. I also hire new men for the variety and to search out new regulars. In NJ, I had four regulars and an occasional new friend. Since I have moved to California, only one of those regulars has visited. That has forced me to boldly go where many men have gone before, to RM to check out the menu. I have found one gentleman who I have seen once a month or so for 2 days at a time. There have been a few other men I have seen twice or three times and a few who were one and done. In reality, I have not missed the NJ regulars all that much, though I would certainly welcome them should they come out this way. When I first moved here, I did try to tempt two of the them to come for an extended visit and picking up the travel expenses, but without success. I speak with three of the four NJ guys on a regular basis, just to catch up and compare notes. So while regulars are comfortable and known, there is something exhilarating about a new guy when he turns out to be someone you want to see again and again.

My theory Miss Scarlett in the Conservatory with the Rope.

My feeling about deposits. If the escort asks, I either say yes or no. I say yes to a small deposit to cover the cost of travel to my location if the escort has good reviews or a personal recommendation from a client. I say no otherwise. I have guidelines not rules and I utilize those guidelines when it comes to a deposit. To whom am I giving it? Is the amount reasonable considering the service? Am I willing to write off the money without anger, if he does not show? How cooperative has the escort been in other arrangements? They can ask. I can say yes or no. For me, there really is no other discussion needed on this topic.

I live in Palm Springs and know of a few people who have gone there on a day pass and found it to their liking. I have not gone, but if you want a someone to try it out with you, PM me.

Well I am always interested in free. Not to say that it is always a yes, but depending on the star alignment and hormomal levels, free always seems to be an option I will consider. I started out with a very narrow range of type of men to whom I was attracted. As my experience has increases, I find I have a greater range. That being the case, if I am interested enough to call, I am interested enough in paying the price within reason. Convenience to location or having them willing to visit me will play a role and I will pay a bit more for that convenience. When I lived in NJ that was definitely the case with NY escorts coming out to visit me. Ultimately once the little head is involved, price definitely is less of an issue as the big head usually is the one taking that into consideration.

Still one of my favorite network shows. Giving him a love interest, Ava, who is totally free wheeling and who sees rules as guidelines, was an interesting choice. I agree that the procedural aspects of the show are not particularly strong this season but the dynamics are good. Ormewood in particular should get a spinoff.

These are entertainment movies not documentaries. Reality rarely is a major factor in movies. The entire Marvel Universe for example. At some point, when watching entertainment fare, you just need to let go of reality. That is what entertainment is designed to do.

As a retired physician, asking for Copay up front has benefits for the patient and the office. It smooths the check in check out activity. It guarantees that you are not waiting to pay at the end as you might as a restaurant. It also avoids the discussion at the end of the visit as to what credit card or other payment form the office accepts. Not to mention, the large number of patients who suddenly discover they forgot their wallet or do not have anything smaller than a 100 dollar bill. As opposed to an escort, the doctor is going to see you or give you a refund. That is not to say that the number of escorts that hit and run is a large one, it is just a larger percentage compared to doctors. In my office, if you did not pay the copay up front, you were not seen. It is a simple courtesy the patient can offer the office to help make their time more efficient and if there are persons who do no like that or will not be conform to that policy, they were welcome to go elsewhere. When those patients asked to speak to the doctor about this, doubling down as it were, I would come out to the waiting area and ask if they intended to pay the copay at the end and why was it that they would not pay in the manner established for the office. If they said yes they would pay after the services, I would say, well this visit is over, or you can pay the copay now. I have patients to whom I need to attend and I have already spent more time than this should have required. Thanks for your feedback. Some left and never returned but most opted to pay. How many of those that left would have walked out without payment is unknown but when I instituted this policy, I had more than 25000 dollars in unpaid copays. That number went down to about 12000 dollars when I closed the office for good. It also eliminated patients who felt they were somehow entitled to more than just the medical care. And this happened in the days of $5 and $10 copays. The ritzier the zip code, the more likely they were going to flake on the copay on a percent basis.

I have had bottoms wear a baseball batter's helmet, concussion avoidance.