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  1. This surgery while essentially cosmetic has economic gains attached to it. Taller people are viewed as more deserving of promotions especially in some Asian cultures. It seems ridiculous to undergo painful surgery to add a few inches to one's height, but there are many people who will try to advance their career in any way they can.
  2. Agree that the first episode was a good one. This show could be much better on basic cable or other service.
  3. I saw the play in Previews and in its short Broadway run. They completely rewrote the ending in the interim. I did enjoy some of the music, Madame Guillotine was fun as I recall.
  4. Thanks all. I am still looking but I am checking out all of your suggestions.
  5. As I mentioned here a few weeks ago, I had a run in with a deer and despite my best efforts to have the insurance company fix the car, I relented to their request that the car be totaled. So now, I have to buy a new car in a bit of a hurry. I am renting a Honda small SUV which seems to be a nice fit. I had a Chevy Cruze which I now realize was too small for my comfort though I liked it well enough. I have little interest in a car other than it be reliable, and comfortable enough to fit a fat old man. I had only 30000 miles on my 5 year old car which was totaled and a mere 70000 miles on my car before that which I had for 9 years. As far as cost, I want to buy new, have 16000 from the totaled car and would prefer not to spend more than 45000 total. Friends have suggested a Tesla which could work in view of my low mileage but really it seems like too much hassle to get set up and used to finding electric stations. So my requirements are new, comfortable, relatively inexpensive, reliable, probably gas and readily available as I have only a week or so of insurance paid car rental. No other requirements Anyone happy with a car that will fill my limited needs?
  6. CBS Sunday night Was on after the SuperBowl. Not a bad first episode. Nice shot of him lying in bed which seemed to linger longer than usual on his chest which looked great. Very handsome man some may remember from This Is Us
  7. First the obvious. American football coaches are Football players who became coaches and European football coaches are Soccer players who became coaches except for Ted Lasso. American football coaches coach very big men who play positions which require very big men/. European football coaches coach men who need to be able to tun for 90 minutes or so. To me ithese comparisons are about as funny as if one would show a picture of The Rock or John Cena next to a Sumo and tilting it American Wrestlers and Japanese Wrestlers.
  8. I suppose it is suprising that I am not walking around naked in a barrel held up by suspenders.
  9. Advice is usually free and frequently untaken. Once cash comes into play, most people begin to see the end game. No harm in warning people about scams but as long as all they are asking for I advice, I don't mind participating. Curious bye nature, sorry if I mistook your post as advising him to be absolutely sure.
  10. I do not play a doctor on TV but I am one in real life.. If you want to be totally safe, continue to be abstinent. If you want to be as safe as you can reasonably expect to be, start Prep for at least two weeks and be faithful about taking it. Do not start it until you are sure you are going to proceed as there is no reason to subject yourself to potential side effects if you are not committed. As to finding a man, go to RentMen and go to the listings for your area or the largest area within a reasonable travel for a weekend. Look at each of the photos and read the comments. Once you have narrowed down the field, come here with a list and ask for recommendation. I suggest looking at all the ads as you never know what might strike your fancy and if you use the checklist, that man may have been passed over. As to the event itself, the first time I met with a man, my story was very similar to yours. It is not a unique tale, n fact, it is common enough to be considered mundane. So once, I got to the hotel and the escort arrived,. it took a bit of encouragement to start to do anything and once I got started it took all the willpower I had to stop. Did not get to anal on my first encounter, nor my second encounter, which took place the next night nor my third encounter, which came two days later. I then arranged an overnight while I was away on a trip and I finally had the time and was relaxed enough to try anal, as a top. Many many men later, I decided to try bottoming and found it was not for me. It took about 5 encounters to even get to the point where I was actually entered. Word to the wise, do not become inpatient and just blurt out "just push the fucking thing in". I got what I requested but not what I wanted when I did that. You may have very specific requirements for the men you want to see at this time, but that will change and broaden as time goes by. So consider being a bit less specific about what the man looks like and more about what kind of person he is. For most of us here, the intellectual connection more than compensates for any perceive physical traits that the person may be missing from you checklist. My best advice, as opposed to Curious ByNature, do not wait for the perfect man and the perfect time or you may find that there is no perfect man nor perfect time. But once you start to appreciate and accept your desires, almost any time can be the perfect time and you just need to allow your partner to be the perfect man. If not, move on to the next one.
  11. There is no crime in talking with an escort on line through a service/. Even if the person is a known escort and you know it, unless you make specific plans and then go about trying to complete the plans, there is no crime. So you may have to confess to being a horny man who likes to talk on line to men, that is about all you could face, that admission.
  12. My sister had that game. In retrospect, I probably should have had greater insight into my sexuality based on my enjoyment of playing that game. Poindexter was considered a bad date, but I was alway happy to open the door and find him there.
  13. If the bottom is not hard and is into humiliation, I find that a good opportunity to make fun of him not having an erection. You have to know your partner and know his turn ons. I have had one partner in particular who only got hard when bottoming when he was humiliated verbally alomg with physical humiliation such as teasing slaps across the face. He would answer back when he was hard, with things like "see I am a man" or "your cock made a man of me". "or no one else gets me hard like that" The exact words did not really matter so much as his realizing that his pleasurable erection was directly due to my control over him. Now that I think about it, not sure who was controlling whom but it was fun and very hot.
  14. I ;do not fear a text trail but I do prefer to hear someone's voice and I think phone conversations go more naturally than texts do, so I might ask for a brief call to clarify the details and to hear the voice. A sexy Depp baritone or base makes the idea of the encounter more enticing.
  15. Driving home on a dark lonely highway, cool wind in my hair and the smell of the ocean rising up through the air that was me while listening to a similarly worded Hotel California by the Eagles. While in the song the driver spotted a shimmering light, I spotted nothing and then heard a lough thud which shook the car and saw a antler pass by the driver's side window. As it turned out, a deer running headlong from who knows what crashed into the side of my car. As I later learned the deer had no damage to its body but significant damage to its head and the police put it down. I had not stopped and when I arrived home I called the police. Contacting my insurance company to check my coverage what I thought would be only cosmetic damage they sent me to a local shop and the decision was made by All State to total the car. The car is 5 years old and only had 30000 miles and though it is an inexpensive car, Chevy Cruze, I have no desire to have the car totaled. It is still running perfectly but one headlamp is broken and unlike the deer, there is some body damage to the front bumper, fender and hood. Has anyone here had luck in getting an insurance company to fix rather than total a car? In the past, when this has happened, I was not worried about the car being totaled because in 3 cases the car was totaled and in the other the car was old and the offer was a fair one and in one the car was replaced by company which owned the other car which was involved. Yes this is the sixth car to which I have had this happen. One had a muffler from another car come through the windshield/ One had a tire fly off after having a flat fixed and the tire changed at a garage. In one I was bumped off the road by an intoxicated driver and drove up and then rolled down an embankment. In one, a driver deserted his car in the left hand lane of a major four lane highway without flashers or any notifying item and I crashed into the rear of the car as I pulled out from behind a semi to find the car there, That was the one in which the company that owned the car replaced my car. The more recent one resulted from my hood not being properly closed after having my oil checked while getting gas. As I pulled out onto the highway and got up to speed, the hood was blown open and smashed the windshield. Surprisingly, in all but one of the accidents I was not hurt. In the rollover, I suffered friction burns to my left arm and hand but was luck that I was tossed into the back seat and wedged between the front seat and the back seat as the roof and windshield crashed into the driver's seat. After some initial concern about the return of function of that hand, all turned out well there too. So, despite my experience with such matters, I would appreciate insight into how to persuade the insurance company to reevaluate the damages.
  16. Local PBS station had the Birdcage last night. I had not seen it in quite some time and I found it a bit dated but still very funny. One thing struck me as odd. At the end of the movie. Gene Hackman is dressed in drag to escape past the waiting Paparazzi. The resemblance between Gene in drag and Queen Camilla is remarkable. Who knew. Several close ups starting at 1:45
  17. I clearly commented on his profile and its content not on him, as did most others. However, when one chooses to have oneself represented by the gobbledy-gook which is his profile, it is not surprising that there is a run over effect.
  18. Would only hope he was not a English Composition major. His profile was so overdone, that if it were Thanksgiving dinner he would be tossing out the turkey from the silver platter and ordering in McDonald's on his platinum American Express.
  19. Apparently they have called for volunteers again to dig out the stadium for the Bills Chiefs game. When I lived in Buffalo three feet of snow in a week was not that unusual but the city seemed to always be prepared for it while down here in NJ three inches of snow calls for school closures and winter weather warnings. I guess it is all in what you get used to seeing.
  20. Theoretically, professional sex workers are not looking to get pregnant but even if some of them are, the percentage would likely be lower than the number of women looking for a steady paycheck for child support from a rich professional basketball player. Professional athletes, but it seem professional basketball players in particular have been known to have large number of children by a wide variety of women. Jason Kidd for example. 8 children with four different women. Six by wives and 2 from outside dalliances.
  21. Well that is much clearer. Thanks for unravelling my confusion at your initial post. By the way I said that write ins and third party voting should not be the goal of teaching about voting, not that it should not be part of the education.
  22. If that was the intent of your statement, it was less than clear to me. Do not vote the way most people vote sounded as though you were suggesting write in and third party voting, which are fine if that is your desire, but should not, in my opinion, be the goal of encouraging people to vote. Perhaps teaching people to vote their conscious, or vote their best interest would have made your intent clearer to readers such as I. Clearly I agree with your statement that most black Americans do not vote, as I made the same statement in my post.
  23. Most black Americans do not vote at all, so educating people in general and black youth specifically in view of this lack of participation, is a wise use of volunteer time. Explaining to them how to that their "vote counts best by not voting the way most people vote" is proselytizing not volunteering.
  24. I know sports stars are not necessarily the sharpest tools in the shed, but the team ought to have some sort of program to teach these young men about avoiding these kinds of situations. Whether she said yes, no or please do it immediately or I will yell rape, these guys are setting themselves up for financial ruin and the end of a lucrative career. I would bet she told the truth but her silence now was bought and paid. It seems that the team ought to have a team procurer, the man with the connections to hot willing to be paid for young ladies, or men, of legal age, to keep their multimillion dollar investments happy on the silk sheets and off the scandal sheets.
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